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Picking Cotton Analysis

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Forgiveness is a voluntary process and only time can heal all wounds. Scratch that- time won’t heal all wounds and forgiving someone is totally and completely up to you. When stating that forgiveness is “voluntary,” it simply means that one is forgiving someone at their own free will. The question is “why? why must we forgive someone after doing something so awful?” The answer might be complex. In the book “Picking Cotton” by Jennifer Thompson-Cannino, Ronald Cotton and Erin Torneo, and in the book “Beauty for Ashes” written by Joyce Meyer, forgiveness is portrayed as a big role. Each person goes through their own struggles and eventually has to forgive someone or be forgiven by someone. Alex was my best friend. I am using ‘was’ instead of ‘is’ because he’s gone. Forgiving him was the hardest thing i’ve ever had to do. Alex was three years older than me and we lived across the street from each other, growing up. We’ve done pretty amazing things together, like going to Disney World, snowboarding and travelling around the country for basketball tournaments together. But just as any friendship, we had plenty of ups and downs. Some of the downs include: plenty of funerals, my move to Texas and definitely his death.
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Whilst in treatment, I came to discover that my feelings of hatred towards Alex was because I didn’t fully comprehend the subject of suicide and depression. In the book “Beauty For Ashes,” it explains that staying in bondage is pretty much the last thing a person would want to be in. “I do not want to suffer anymore, but I will do so rather than stay in bondage. As long as I am in bondage, I am suffering anyway, but it is a type of suffering that has no end (Meyer, 203).” I was a slave to sadness, and regret, pain, sorrow, grief and any other negative emotion there is. I was in bondage with negativity. I hadn’t realized how much suffering I was

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