preview

Relationships In Pride And Prejudice

Good Essays

Marriage is often thought of as a union between two people; a promise that is supposed to last a life time. In today’s world, reality reigns. Marriage is often broken, or held together due to legality. A promise does not mean the same as it did in yester year. Despite this ugly truth, young men and women still dream of the time when they will say “I do” before their family and friends. However, often times we as young people get mired in the process of finding a mate, rather than enjoying the company of others. Whether it is for political or religious reasons, relationships have the potential to get mucked up. Luckily for today’s generation, one person has witnessed this, and wrote about this process in her novels. This woman’s name is …show more content…

Elizabeth continually allows for mishaps to happen, even rejecting the incredibly wealthy and handsome Mr. Darcy. This seems to be Elizabeth’s way of showing that she, as a woman, has a form of power that men cannot take away; the power of saying no. Austen reveals this in chapter 34 when Darcy declares his love for Elizabeth. How he does it, though, is peculiar. He proclaims his love boisterously, yet in private with Elizabeth. Darcy tactfully reveals his feelings for her, hoping that she will be moved and not falter now that they are alone. “In vain I have struggled. It will not do. My feelings will not be repressed. You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you.” (Austen ch. 34) Here, Darcy vocally forces himself on her, believing that his passion will invoke a flare within Elizabeth to say yes. Much to Darcy’s disappointment, Elizabeth rejects him, only to accept him later. I view her actions as being suitable for her circumstance. She rejects his offer, because she does not passionately have feelings for him. She, later, accepts Darcy when she does in fact have feelings for him. This is an empowering story for the women of Austen’s time. Many readers would ask why Austen would do this. I believe that Austen I empowering young women to stand for what they want and what they believe. When this novel was written, women’s rights were abysmal; often leading to men taking

Get Access