As strange as it may sound, death has always intrigued me. Growing up, my Halloween costumes tended to relate to death, such as corpses or zombies. My fellow acquaintances were a tad apprehensive that I would end up a necrophiliac one day- which I can assure you that I am not. Death is just an idea that has always struck my interest. No, I do not wish to die; however, I tend to wonder frequently about “the other side.” Personally, I do not believe in Christianity; I am not one who believes in heaven nor hell. I have my own theories of the afterlife, for I am not sure there is just one simple answer.
Regardless, death is something that catches up to all of us, it is inevitable. Due to this being the fate of all living beings, I find it even
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I do not mean to make people uncomfortable, but death seems to make people want to instantly turn the other cheek.
Unfortunately, death is not a topic that people freely converse about. Most people shy away from the thought, especially ever since the idiotic acronym “YOLO” came about- which I find rather ignorant considering it is improper grammar usage and it makes no sense. Yes, I believe in living my life and enjoying every moment, but I acknowledge death, I know it is there, stalking me. I have accepted the fact that someday I will be the one in the softly padded coffin with my family and friends surrounding me. Why is that so hard for others to accept that? It is not the end of everything, it is just the end of here and now for that one, specific soul.
Due to my comfortableness around and with death and dying, I think that is what truly lead me to yearn to be a mortician. Death is something that I know to be inevitable, and we should celebrate death, not mourn it.
However, another reason I would also love being a mortician is to comfort the people who are grieving and make them see and understand how this is a good thing- that is what I foresee as the greatest opportunity in funeral services. I want to make people understand that this is not the end of forever, just the end of here and now. I want them to make sure that they know that, no matter what they believe in, we
Death is an unknown place that people tend to avoid because of the fear that surrounds it. But, there should be fear or anxiety that has built up because being in a strange place will definitely add anxiety and fear to a person. Ron Scranton confirms this idea by saying. “learning how to die isn’t easy… I was terrified by the idea”. From the time when he was in the army, he had no choice but to face the idea of death. What seems to scare individuals the most is the thought and process
As an aide you not only take care of the deceased patients, you take care of all kinds of patients, it just depends the area of which you are in. Mostly geriatrics you deal with deceased patients and most likely the ER, but not all places you have to deal with the dying. That is why I want to get into the Maternity ward where you see life happening and not ending. It is a place where I can feel prodigious and much joy. The next few years of my life I will experience a lot about nursing and focus my life around school and work to create the life I want for myself, my husband and our future children. I will have to regale the thought of going to school and having to work full time as well.
Everyone dies in the end and people know it, but nobody believes it. If we did, we would do things differently. Morrie has a lot of opinions about death as he is a dying man and I find all of them are so true. We never count our days as almost done and always believe that we are so far from that day. We do what we are supposed to do and walk around with a meaningless life, until that day comes automatically. My primary school teacher once told me to live like there’s no tomorrow. We should treasure our time and what we have and treat our days like we can die anytime with no
There are countless beliefs concerning this issue, depending on the faith one subscribes to as well as personal views. According to Hispanic culture, a person undergoes three separate deaths: the first is when the physical body ceases to function, the second when the physical body is lowered into the ground, and the third occurs when there is no person left behind to remember the deceased. Spirits between the second and third deaths of this belief reside in the land of Mictlan, ruled over by Mictecacuhuatl, the goddess of death. Dwellers of Mictlan linger there until the Day of the Dead each year, when it is believed they can come back to the mortal realm for a day to be with their relatives once more. This set of beliefs does not exactly resemble my own position on death, but there are similarities. Specifically, I do believe in an afterlife in which the departed inhabit, but I also believe that they are free to visit the earth whenever they like to, and that they are not limited by a specific day of the year. In addition, I believe that an individual only endures one death, and that is the death of the body. From there, the spirit goes directly to the afterlife, and remains there eternally. Furthermore, while the Hispanic culture does not define a place for the virtuous to go and a place for the wicked, I have my own belief in a heaven and a hell, meant to incentivize the living of a life of making the world better for having had you in it while you lived. At least, these are the ideas that I have been raised with as I’ve
The way I percieve death is that it is absoulute and no living thing can ever escape it. Nor should we be afraid of death it is simply a
When it comes to death the typical person is not that knowledgeable about or understanding of death. People are very scared when the topic of death arises. We all want to live forever with no fear of having to explore the aspect of us dying and having to plan a funeral or their own funeral. Death is never an openly discussed topic. With death and dealing with it we are lucky to have the book Final Gifts by Callanan and Kelley. They have provided a ton of information to help us to grow strong and at ease with the area of death. I will tell my feelings on the book and how it has impacted me.
Some of us come to term with the reality that everything in life is temporary, and that one day we will all die. But sometimes people face hard time facing the reality of death because is never easy to accept not breathing one day. Some people fear for a good reason because once someone dies there is no coming back and not knowing what happens in the afterlife makes dying even more painful. The sad thing about dying is that one never knows when they will die, which is why someone people hate thinking about dying because it makes them overthink when they will die. Everyone face the reality of death differently
Death is something that many people fear and many people face. Most people do not know exactly when they are going to die, but being given a sort of idea of that can change the way someone thinks and acts drastically. Death is in escapable. Everyone must die eventually, some young, like my friend in fifth grade who passed from being in an ATV accident, and others old, such as my 15 year old cat who recently passed.
Death is an inevitable fate for all living beings. It’s an aspect of life that can be hard to deal with, and the ability to overcome the fear of this unavoidable event can be difficult when it comes to knowing the reality of your fate in an
“Death is a universal experience. No matter what our culture, our religion, our race, or our country of origin, we will all die. How we approach death, how we think about suffering and grief, and what we believe happens after we die vary based on our culture, religion, and spiritual beliefs. Spiritual beliefs ground our thinking about end-of-life concepts.” -Susan Thrane, MSN, RN, OCN
At the most basic level of subconscious thought, every living animal possesses a desire to stay alive. Usually, this instinct lays dormant, although in dire situations, we can be led to do unexpected things. In addition to this subconscious drive, there is a socially constructed motivation for fearing death. Thanks to the pervasive nature of religion throughout history, much of humanity has, at some point or another, feared the prospect of eternal damnation and torture during one’s life after death. Although not every religion has a negative aspect of the afterlife, or even any semblance of an afterlife at all, those religions which do contain some such construct receive much more attention in this regard. Throughout history, many
I can bet that all of us here have wrestled with death once or twice in our lives. We all know how hard it is to cope with the loss of something that we love. After, people say that they completely understand death and what it means. There are many times in my own life where I think that I have understood death. I was wrong. Sure, I have lost fish and grandparents, but the one that hurt me the most and made me truly understand is when I lost my dog.
I feel that when it is your time to go, you are going. That’s really the only belief that I have about death. Explain how level of death anxiety may be impacted by gender, age and mental health. Death anxiety in gender, women tend to have higher death anxiety scores than men on self-report scales. This does not mean that women get excited over everything it’s just that men usually tend not to show any emotional feelings about an emotional situation. Death anxiety in age, death anxiety is higher in adolescents and early adulthood. Then it decreases as we settle in life and by the time we get old anxiety gets higher again, by the time you reach seventy your anxiety will go back down. By this time in life you start looking forward to death. Most of your friends maybe dead already, your parents, siblings, and spouse by this time may already be deceased so in a way you have embraced death at this point. Death anxiety in mental health and illness, death anxiety is higher in people with diagnosed psychiatric conditions. Selective attention is when you have so much going on and you get distracted. You are not trying to avoid anything your mind is just on somewhere else. Selective response is when a person has thoughts about death but they choose who they want to talk to about it. Compartmentalizing is when you realize and understand that he is in a life-threatening situation and choose to respond to some aspects of the illness. Deception is when someone
In today?s modern society we have a certain distaste for the subject of death. There are people in society feel uncomfortable with the subject of death. The subject of death is a reality that we need to face everyday. There is nothing any of us can do about
We are all aware of death, and we know it will come to us all. To many of us death brings a chill down our spine ridden with fear, but to others it is ridden with strength and satisfaction of accomplishment. Fortunately or unfortunately we are all condemned to death. However no one knows when exactly the inevitable will approach, but we all know it is inescapable. But what makes death seem more realistic to us and those in denial of it is the lucid pictures of people suffering, in pain and those on their death bed before many of us can be rationale and accept the truth. Someone once said, “Life is about 50-70 years of pain. One is born through the mother’s pain and die leaving others in pain.'; How do we accept and