I cried writing this post. I went back and forth with myself about this topic because it is an extremely sore spot for me. And unlike my previous posts, I do not have the answers. I don't have the exact solution to heal the pain. It hurts. It has always hurt. I don't know if it will ever stop hurting. Well, recently, on the way to work, one of J. Cole's strongest songs, "Breakdown" started to play. I immediately felt the tears starting to form and something told me, "skip the song, dummy!" But, I didn't. I listened to the lyrics and I cried. I decided to use Cole's lyrics to help with the organization of my thoughts. I hope with sharing my pain, I will touch other women who are struggling or have struggled with self-love due to the absence of a mother/father. Also, any advice you have for me please share. So many things you could have told me And saved me the trouble or lettin' my mistakes show me I feel like you barely know me And that's a shame cause our last name is the same That blood type flowin' through our veins is the same At the age of three, I was legally adopted by my biological relatives. I wish I could pinpoint the reason why our relationship was so rocky but I can't... we never saw eye to eye. I always felt like the burden in our home and love was shown in an extremely flawed way. I am not an ungrateful person and I do appreciate what was done for myself and sibling. Not every day do you run into a man raising another man's children. And not every day do
The breaking point of Scobie starting to feel overly compassionate about Louise seems to be the death of their daughter Catherine; ever since, he is not able to love anybody else, only through pity. It is very likely that he once truly loved Louise but throughout the book, his only feeling towards her is “pity love,” a term used by Greene himself, and the exceptional feeling of responsibility for her happiness. “Louise said, ‘I’ve known it for years. You don’t love me.’ … ‘That’s your conscience,’ she said, ‘your sense of duty. You’ve never loved anyone since Catherine died’” (Greene 57). At one point in the novel, he is feeling truly at peace when he believes to have made given Louise what she wanted – to leave. “I’ve prayed for peace and
Throughout life I have experienced numerous events that have shaped me into becoming the person I am to this day. Out of all these events, my adoption has been the most significant and life changing event of my life. Two weeks before my first birthday in, I was adopted from Nanchang, China. As I grew up, my parents never once tried to conceal my adoption. Without them, I believe I would have grown to be a totally different person. Although I was adopted and brought in by my adoptive parents, I see myself in the everyday. I see them as nothing less than my real parents and I aspire to be as generous and compassionate as they are. Without them, I would have never been able to experience half of the life changing events I have gone through. As
The areas of productiveness in this session for me included the paraphrasing and minimal encouragers. Throughout this session I felt that my paraphrasing was clear and concise. It allowed the client to think about what he had said, while being able to provide me with feedback and allowed for the conversation to flow naturally.
Love is an interesting concept. Wikipedia describes love as “a variety of different emotional and mental states, typically strongly experienced” (Dictionary.com). Romeo and Juliet, written by Shakespeare, portrays the illogical choices that may be made when in love. Another source explains how love is addicting in the poem “The Raven” written by Edgar Allen Poe. “The Gift of the Magi” depicts people who mistake love for lust. The force of romantic love inflicts harm on many because it persuades lovers to make irrational decisions, it is negatively addictive, and many cannot differentiate love versus lust.
From my first days at The College of Wooster, I can tell that I will be aptly prepared to have a successful future both during college and beyond. I’ll immediately be challenged and engaged by the First Year Seminar which will provide me with opportunities to make friends, engage in a topic of interest, and further develop my writing skills. In addition, this seminar will prepare me for college success.
The journey that Richard and Mildred Loving took is important for history and for the future of civil rights in the United States. I recently watched the documentary The Loving Story and enjoyed the footage, pictures, and interviews of everyone involved in the Loving v. Virginia case. The documentary addressed the issue of interracial marriage in Virginia in 1967.
Much has been said about love, but if you search the horizon, you will discover that most of the things written about love are either pithy or cynical.
I thought one of the saddest things i had ever heard was when Coleman told me he doesn’t know if he feels anything but I think it maybe sadder that I’m losing faith in everything. It may not actually be any sadder but it is definitely hitting me harder than that did. I am so lonely in this world and I desperately need someone in my life that can help me change that. Since I realized how officially done he and I were I’ve gotten super drunk four times and cried like a baby each time worse than the one before. I don’t even remember the last one and that’s not me. I hate not remembering and so fully embarrassing myself along side that I’ve pissed Dawn off and no one else even likes me well excuse me plenty of guys like me but you know what they
Love is the most powerful of all magic. It brings hope, beauty, unity, and joy into ones life. Also, it brings pain and heartache if not nurtured, or if neglected. There are different types of love for example the love for your parents and children, which is unconditional, but sometimes complicated. Then there is the kind for lovers and friends, which are built on getting to know a person and accepting people for who they are. Regardless of the kind of love, it is still powerful and emotionally linked. Love brings people together, and creates distance too. Love makes people feel like they are on top of the world, and then sometimes makes others want to take their life. The two poems Robert Pack’s “The Frog Prince”, and Robert Hayden’s
“No, you cannot marry someone from India!”, that is what my grandparents told my father, a Pakistani, when he told them that my mother was with whom he wanted to spend the rest of his life if he wanted to be happy. My father has always been my fund of determination, courage, and commitment. It was because of these strengths in his character that he was able to convince his parents to bring my mother to Pakistan and marry her. This is one of the many junctures for which I look up to my father as a beacon of light for me in the darkest of times. Born into a family of engineers everyone anticipated that I will walk down the same road, but gradually it dawned on me that medicine was my true calling. I knew that if I was to be happy, I had to pursue my passion, which was medicine. The pursuit of medicine is a long journey replete with trials and tribulations which were eased only due to the unwavering support of my father. Years of hard work can only be condensed into one moment when I found out that I was accepted into Dow Medical College, Karachi, the most prestigious state funded medical school.
Love has many different meanings to different people. For a child, love is what he or she feels for his mommy and daddy. To teenage boy, love is what he should feel for his girlfriend of the moment, only because she says she loves him. But as we get older and "wiser," love becomes more and more confusing. Along with poets and philosophers, people have been trying to answer that age-old question for centuries: What is love?
She was a photographer, an outcast, and didn’t really have many friends. She had the most exotic eye for her photos, but she stayed hidden behind the camera lense. She had never allowed other students see who she really was as a person, photographer, and an athlete. In fact, that most of her wardrobe had a darker color clothing. After a strongly indicated definition, a detailed explanation, and a large amount of examples of describing inductive logic, a love prejudice definition, joined together with a powerful reflective narrative, will illustrate the persuasive nature of love prejudice and show how rationality can be affected by an ethos circumstances, even when a person is hiding from the world. As said by Mr. Brown from our English
Love is difficult to define, difficult to measure, and difficult to understand. Love is what great writers write about, great singers sing about, and great philosophers ponder. Love is a powerful emotion, for which there is no wrong definition, for it suits each and every person differently. Whether love is between family, friends, or lovers, it is an overwhelming emotion that can be experienced in many different ways.
Love is an abundant emotion that has different degrees. There is familial love, friendly love, unconditional love, and of course romantic love. Romantic love will be the superstar of this article. Romantic love may be around every corner whether between an old couple or a young teenage romance. However, love is not the easiest thing to attain. It is such a simple concept, though a difficult thing to actually have a person’s hands on.
The focus and objective of this paper I believe can be summed up in one quote “you learn from the past, live in the present, and prepare for the future” – Thomas S. Monson. While writing this reflection, we are judging our pasts, thus hopefully learning from them, and applying their lessons to our lives today. Therefore, while applying its lessons into our lives we are preparing for the future and how these lessons will affect us down the road. While brainstorming and reflecting about this assignment I was able to pinpoint specific moments in my working life that have lead me to where I am today. During the remainder of this personal reflection I will be sharing some of the watershed moments that have led me on my current working journey.