Today, so many people feel the need to be someone that others want them to be and not what they actually want to be. People often accept the position into which they are born and grow up in, and then pass that position onto their children. Until someone has enough power to speak out against it, this cycle will continue. This is true in both Girl by Jamaica Kincaid and A&P by John Updike. Both of these stories examine sexism and the need to fulfill a certain roll that society places upon women. In Girl, Kincaid brings up the issues of females needing to conform to be a certain person and provides her audience with a specific set of rules that women should follow when alone and with other men. Overall, Kincaid and Updike are attempting to portray the strong division of genders and the need to fit a certain role within society today.
A&P begins when three teenage girls that are wearing bathing suits, walk into a grocery store in a small conservative New England down with a church nearby. Sammy, a young man who works at the cash register, watches them extremely closely and notices one in particular who he calls “Queenie.” He admires their looks and notes minute details about the way they carry themselves. After describing what the women look like in great detail Sammy goes on to say, “You never know for sure how girls’ minds work (do you really think it’s a mind in there or just a little buzz like a bee in a glass jar?).” The way in which Sammy says this is extremely condescending and already puts this idea in our mind that women are uneducated and unintelligent. By the way the women are dressed and the way in which Updike describes them, Sammy is portraying the younger girls as mindless sexual objects that are there to please the male eye. When Sammy says, “she kept her eyes moving across the racks, and stopped, and turned so slow it made my stomach rub the inside of my apron, and buzzed the other two…”, he again is using his condescending tone to get across the fact that these women to him are nothing more than sexual objects for him to look at. By Updike having these three women walk into the supermarket wearing nothing but bathing suits, he is sexualizing these women and putting them into a specific category
Updike’s “A & P” takes place in a grocery store North of Boston. Sammy, the narrator of the story, describes a summer’s day and is first describing three girls that walk into the store. Sammy’s statement in the first sentence already starts to sexualize these girls by describing their body parts, “In walks these three girls in nothing but bathing suits.[...]The one that caught my eye first was the one in the plaid green two-piece. She was a chunky kid, with a good tan and a sweet broad soft-looking can with those two crescents of white just under it, where the sun never seems to hit, at the top of the backs of her legs. (1)” Around this time during the 1960’s men were deemed to be the heroes and the breadwinners. Women were to be modest and dress as so. As for Sammy a very hormonal teen, visualizing three young girls in bikinis and one of the girl’s he calls Queenie --whom he finds attractive, was enjoying every bit of it except for their manager Lengel, who scolds at the young girls’, informing them on the store policy.“Lengel's pretty dreary, teaches Sunday school and the rest, but he doesn't miss that much. He
“Girl” is a short story in which the author, Jamaica Kincaid, unofficially presents the stereotypes of girls in the mid 1900s. Kincaid includes two major characters in the story “Girl”, they are the mother and the girl. Although the daughter only asks two questions in this story, she is the major character. The mother feels like her daughter is going in the wrong direction and not making the best decisions in her life. The whole story is basically the mother telling her daughter what affects her decisions will have in the future. The mother believes that because her daughter isn’t sitting, talking, cleaning, walking or singing correctly it will lead her to a path of destruction. “Girl” is a reflection of female sexuality, the power of family, and how family can help overcome future dangers.
The story "A&P" by John Updike, deals with Sammy facing a test in his young manhood. Dealing with being accepted by society as opposed to making mature decisions in society. Sammy sees three girls walk in the store with bikini's on and his lust takes over, yet one out of the three named Queenie he loves the most. During this era of the story setting women's rights were very strict in regards to sexism, culture, and imprisonment. Updike's writing is very transparent for readers to see behind the veil on what is really going on in society. My sociological critical theory is "A&P" shows innovative ways of Updike exposing sexism, culture, and imprisonment and how it still affects the world today.
Women are meant to behave and act proper. Though it may not be quite the same today, however, every once in awhile society still expects women to behave and act a certain way. In the past women were supposed to act like ladies and be the proper quiet housewife. Women were raised to speak, behave, and perform tasks a certain way that society deemed as right and proper. Jamaica Kincaid’s short story “Girl” shows just that. Her story is about a girl who is basically scolded by her mother on how to act and perform daily tasks. Her mother's belief is that a woman's reputation is everything and if her daughter keeps acting the way she does she will lead a promiscuous life. She does not want that for her daughter, or for her daughters reputation to come back to her if it is not a good one. Kincaid utilizes the theme of image and social acceptance are most important for woman through symbolism, repetition, and tone .
Throughout Updike’s work, the characters explore their own sexual desire which leads to the exploitation of women’s bodies in society. Sammy, the protagonist, focuses on the girl’s bare skin revealing his true intentions. He states “the two smoothest scoops of vanilla he had ever known.” (Updike 196), referring to the girls breasts. In the beginning of the story Sammy acknowledges that they are wearing bathing suits but he soon moves on to what they aren’t wearing, indicating that his main interest is their bodies. By giving extreme detail into their bare skin it reveals that his main interest is not that they aren’t wearing clothes, but the places themselves that are not covered by clothes. Sammy draws a parallel between the commodities and the girl’s bodies by referring to the girl’s bodies as items found in the supermarket. He describes
In John Updike’s “A&P” the characterization of Sammy, the main character and narrator a nineteen year old check out boy at the A&P market ,very distinctly alludes to his lust for power and dominance over women. Sammy expresses his dominant nature in the way he describes Queenie, a rather young teenaged girl who, along with her friend, enter the supermarket in which Sammy works, in their bathing suits, and subsequently catches his eye. Sammy not only objectifies this young woman in his thoughts but he also deeply believes that by interfering between the girls and his boss, when they are in the midst of a confrontation regarding how the girls are dressed, is the way in which he will capture her attention and hopefully even his affections. Sammy’s aggression towards the female customer, at the very beginning of this story, exemplifies his feelings of superiority over women in general. It is this very superiority complex and contained aggression towards women that suggests that these tendencies apply to his day to day life including his sexual tendencies.
When we hear the word sexism most minds automatically associate feminine oppression. I began to wonder why that was. Webster defines sexism as “prejudice based on sex; especially: discrimination against women.” After reading this I had to know why that was.
“A&P” and “Girl” both symbolized the protagonists’ oppression by an older, more experienced generation. However, Kincaid’s “Girl” was artistic with an undercurrent of selfless love and hope while Updike’s “A&P” was uninspiring with selfishness and lust. The protagonist of “Girl” discouraged her daughter’s dreams out of love. The protagonist of “A & P” encouraged the antagonists’ out of a selfish desire for self-promotion.
“A&P” begins when three teenage girls that are wearing bathing suits walk into a grocery store in a small conservative New England down with nothing but a church nearby. Sammy, a young man who works at the cash register, watches them extremely closely and notices one in particular whom he calls “Queenie.” He is impressed with their looks and notes specific details about the way they carry themselves. This can be seen when Sammy says, “the kind of girl other girls think is very “striking” and “attractive” but never quite makes it, as they very well know, which is why they like her so much -- and then the third one, that wasn't quite so tall” (1). After describing what the girls look like in great
John Updike’s A&P is a short story filled with numerous themes and messages that are left ambiguous. An obvious theme that is demonstrated in the text is the focus on the expectations that are set for the male and female gender roles in the small town society that are defied. The three female characters are very symbolic in the message Updike attempts to portray in the text. Sammy, the narrator and protagonist, works at the A&P grocery store when three young ladies walk in. He starts to give copious details on all of them and even starts to think about them sexually. The ladies are the center of attention throughout the story, but are only seen as objects to the employees of the A&P. Even though this story revolves around these three women, it’s easy to see a misogynistic view when the women are only seen as sexual objects to the men,
The last hundred years have brought the world many valuable things; computers, better sanitation conditions, understandings of diseases, vaccines, surgery, education, and so much more. But there are so many social constructs that have made little progress such as racism, sexism, and homophobia. In reality vaccines and sexism are manmade, a vaccine is a manmade invention and sexism is a manmade idea. Neither would exist without human beings backing the idea that they are necessary. Racism is “prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against someone of a different race based on the belief that one’s own race is superior (Oxford Dictionary).” Racism over the last hundred years has been directed towards Blacks, Hispanics, and Asian’s. Looking at the past in relation to racism in the United States, reveals that racism is still alive and well in 2015 just as it was in 1915.
Sexism, is a prejudice plain and simple. One of the earliest forms of violence directed toward women was the Witch Hunt Trials of the Middle Ages. Bishops debated whether a woman was really human at all. If her nose were too long, she had red hair, a humped back, or if she was exceptionally beautiful, she was thought to be a witch and was burned at the stake. There was an estimated nine million women burned during the Witch Trials. During the “Women’s Liberation Movement in the 1960’s, feminist theorists explained that oppression of women was widespread in nearly all human society, and spoke of sexism instead of male chauvinism. Male chauvinists were usually individual men who expressed the belief that they were superior to women” (Napikoski). By the mid 20th century sexism was established and began to appear in advertising. Between the 1970’s and 1990’s women began to feel more equal to men until the 1980’s where they were portrayed as sex symbols on national television (The Origin and History of SEXISM). There are two main types of sexism, benevolent and hostile, and their definitions are opposite from one another. Hostile sexism is what most people perceive as sexism today as it seems sexism is occurring more and more often and is, notably, more vulgar. It is the notion that women are inferior or not as worthy; a belief that males are intrinsically superior. For many years women have been degraded and looked down upon with the idea that their place is in the kitchen with
In the age of advanced technology, the media is one of the most reliable sources of information. However that source cannot always be trusted; it can be used as a device to brainwash or influence our society. The media are used to control of what we should see and believe while leaving out the rest of the story; which caused stereotypes of other races and genders. We are facing two of the most sensitive controversies of our advanced society: racism and sexism, which were made even worse by the stereotypes created by the mass media. American people should educate themselves to prevent the further spreading of racism and sexism through stereotype.
I am not surprised at all by your findings, as it seems most people prefer a boy for patriarchal and sexist reasons, like to continue on the family name or because they are supposedly easier to parent, while these are all stereotypical ideas attached to gender. It is surprising though, that all of your respondents answered wanting a boy, because like you stated, recent studies have shown this difference has decreased in recent years, along with the belief that sexism and misogyny within society has also decreased. I also performed this study, and although many reported that they would prefer a boy, I was surprised that in fact many of the women preferred a girl, in which I attributed to them as having more feminine ideals. I wonder
Sexism is one of the most prevalent topics and issues of the modern world. Defined as the prejudice, stereotyping, and discriminating behavior, typically towards women, on the basis of sex, it can be found everywhere. Even on something as simple as children’s apparel, according to journalist Chitra Ramaswamy. In her article “How a sexist T-shirt harms us all” published on the news site The Guardian Ramaswamy uses two shirts, one designed for each gender, from the retailer Gap as an example that sexism not only can exist anywhere but also affects everyone. She goes on to identify harmful gender-stereotyping all around us, even going as far to connect it with murders.