Single-Parenting Families: Attached Stigmas
The social deviance that interests me is single parenting, one who chose to have a child out of wed-lock. The stigma attached to being a single parent is rising anew. Many media commentators blame America's uptrend in violence and other social problems on family breakdown - on single parents. This stigma is based on myths and stereotypes that have been promoted by half-truths and, often, by prejudiced viewpoints. Many in our society still regard single parenthood as a unwelcome status. I as a single parent myself, I am often admired, but at the same time looked upon with pity, disgust, sympathy, and perhaps with uneasiness. In defense of single parent families I would argue to
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Therefore, because I chose to raise my children alone……society blames me for the decline in social order. The two parent families is still compared as the traditional family formation and contribute to a healthy and successful society. I recently saw on TV an interview with Ann Coulter on the talk show The View ….she blames many of society’s problems on single moms. She goes on to say that our jails are filled with the offspring of single moms. To accuse single moms of being responsible for all society’s problems is absolutely crazy. There are many reasons relationships end, and when there are kids involved usually the bulk - if not all - of the responsibility of raising the kids is assumed by the mom. We single moms should be applauded and not attacked for this. Sure, there are some women that decide to have a baby on their own with no man in the picture, but can you blame them? It is hard to find a decent man who also wants to raise a family. Even when you do there are no guarantees he will stick around for the long haul. Nevertheless, single fathers have biological link or legal status as a non-custodial parent. What that actually means is they are expected to pay child support for their children, but rarely do they have sole or joint custody of their children. Some men have
Additionally, a single parent collects a much smaller income which in turn leads to fewer opportunities for vital necessities such as education. Trying to make ends meet takes away time from the most important thing in a parents life, their children. Children as a result have higher chances of drug or alcohol abuse, higher dropout rates as well as an increased risk of early pregnancy (Amato). There are too many children who are growing up in single parent homes in the United States, resulting in these kids not growing up in an optimal way where they could become influential members of society in the future.
Twenty-five percent of children are being raised by a single parent, eighty percent of which are single mothers yet only single dads seem to be able to support themselves well.
Statistics state that twenty-three percent of American families are single-mother households “(U.S. Department of Commerce). Ideally, most single parents tend to be mothers. The main causes of children being in single-parent homes are children being born out of wedlock, death of a parent, or imprisonment of a parent. There many detrimental effects on a child living in a single-parent home such as their performance in school, emotional state, and views on relationships in their future.
Single parents don’t necessarily raise their children alone; they can have support from family and friends. Single parents also tend to parent better, they are stricter with their decisions and their children respect their choices. When it comes to creating a healthy family, it's not about the number of parents, but the quality of parenting a child receives that is most important. A home is only "broken" when healthy family interactions break down, for example when people stop communicating adequately. In the situation where both parents are raising the child, but the family situation isn’t healthy it can do more harm on the child than good. Certain situations such as a violent household
Single parents are more common than a couple who has children together; my co-worker is a single parent with two kids and she’s twenty-one. It’s not just men, leaving the women, like in my co-worker’s and Connie and Rose of Sharon’s cases. Additionally, women also leave men. In the past, there were a couple that were expecting and the mother would have rather not have the child, but the father urged the mother that they have the child. After she had the child, she gave her daughter to her ex-boyfriend and left both the child and the
This group of people may struggle every day without the non-custodial parent paying child support. Some may not know their options and how they can receive help. We do not see the father being the custodial parent in several cases, although, there is a significant number of fathers that do hold custody of their child/children.
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Today, many households are headed by single women raising children, some with the presence or involvement of the father and others without. According to Vargas et al. (2016), parenting by a single mother is defined as a home sustained by a maternal caregiver for many reasons to include absence, neglect, divorce, or death of the other parent. According to Anderson (2002), half of American children at some point in their childhood will live in a household that’s being reared by a single parent, who is primarily the mother. Lowry (2005) uses the term “social disaster” when describing the epidemic of absenteeism of father from the household.
There are different reasons a person would have to be a single-parent. The four basic categories are divorced, absent spouse, never married, and widowed. The highest percent of single-parent families form of divorce more than any other reason (Presence of Parents). Just like anything else, there are positives and negatives to being a single-parent. Unfortunately as far as statistics, there are far more negatives than positives in single-parenting. The average percentage of children that grow up without a mother between the years 2000 and 2014 in all races is 4.8 percent. The average percentage of children that grow up
The purpose of this article is to argue the fact that American society has for years looked down upon single mothers as irresponsible and dangerous and that no family structure of any kind can guarantee that children will grow up to be productive citizens. The article brings to light that raising children as a single mom really all depends who you are and instead of criticizing these mothers we should be helping them by providing more resources. 2. Who is the audience for this argument? This article was written for several different audiences.
Often times it takes two to rear a child. It indeed is true it takes a village to raise a child. According to Criminal justice and behavior 80% of rapist motivated with displaced anger come from fatherless homes. Furthermore 85% of all children that exhibit behavioral disorders come from fatherless homes, 85% of all youths sitting in prisons grew up in a fatherless home, and 70% of juveniles in state-operated institutions come from fatherless homes. Apparently Houston we have a problem here. Another shocking fact is that children raised in single fatherless home are 20 times more likely to end up in penitentiaries than their counterparts who were raised in two parent home with a mother and
Another look at social deviance is formal social sanctions, the actual written laws that we are to abide by or face legal consequences for breaking these rules. My example for this is any time
In the United States, the so-called “nuclear family” is still considered the typical American family unit. However, in recent years the colloquial definition of a family has become more inclusive and accepting of those made up of gay parents, interracial parents, single parents, and even those who choose not to have children. Despite the general upward movement in positivity towards these different groups, a recent Pew Research poll has come to show that a good majority of Americans (approximately 70%) believe that one of these is inherently “bad for society”: single mothers (Conan 2011). This kind of attitude is not new, either; single mothers have continuously been viewed by society as lacking or incompetent, looked upon with disdain, ridiculed, and are often even cast aside by their own families. This stigma attached so firmly to these single mothers hurts deeper and more painfully than just as an emotional blow. Poverty is a huge concern for single mothers, and one could argue that society’s attitude towards single mothers is one of the root causes of this. The stigma against single mothers should be eradicated because it is largely based on misinformation, and single mothers already have to deal with blatant sexism and racism in the United States. To generate sympathy for these mothers and create a more welcoming society towards “alternative” family types such as theirs, an advertising campaign should be taken up to show the struggles these women go through along with
During the years, single parent families have become a more common thing. This is starting to become a problem, because family dynamics can really influence a child’s life. According to studies it affects not only the child but the parents too.
According to a recent study from CBS, the United States has the highest divorce rate of any country at 45%. Due to this high rate of divorce, many families find that there is an imbalance of family roles in these newly created single parent households. Being a single parent has its own set of challenges for the individual and creates challenges for the family such as, spending smaller amounts of time with your children, having an excessive work load and disrupting the wellbeing of the children.