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Sissela Bok Lying Moral Choice In Public And Private Life Summary

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Lying: Moral Choice in Public and Private Life
Sissela Bok’s book, Lying: Moral Choice in Public and Private Life examines many aspects of moral and ethical influence, and the effects of lying, on individuals and corporations in various walks of life. Each chapter discusses a specific form that lying can take and describes how it intertwines with daily life. Bok’s arguments are grounded, in comprehensive research, tempered with a philosophical treatment, and rendered through the lens of critical thought. To ensure that readers are able to relate to the material, Bok employs social norming to make each chapter easier to grasp. To do this, each chapter is prefaced with two or three quotes, from a wide variety of sources that provides insight …show more content…

Bok starts by stating, “The whole truth is out of reach (Bok, 4),” she explains this statement three ways. First, the whole truth is unattainable, matters in life and society are far too complicated to grant complete understanding, leading to lies being told out of ignorance, and nothing that can be done to change it. Second, truth and truthfulness are two different domains; one of truthfulness and deception, which is represents an individual’s internal struggle to tell the truth, and the actual truth, which is general and broad in its scope, with many variations. The principals and social expectations that society places on us however are not always followed. Finally chapter one defines deception, as the act of intentionally misleading with words, actions or even silence and a lie as “any intentionally deception message, which is stated (Bok, 13).” With these definitions, Bok, provides a base of understanding to use for the rest of the …show more content…

Bok discusses Paternalism and how it attempts to lead people in order to protect them and their interest. She notes that it is most commonly associated with parents and families and that it is often carried out through violence and deception. She continues by providing support for this theory which begins with the need to regulate and change behavior to force people to avoid dangerous activities and that it can take many forms, including, force, lies, manipulation, and the desire to be honest. She wraps up by discussing whether this type of lying is

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