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Sister Told Me Narrative

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When I was ten years old, my sister died. I still remember that day, walking into my house and having my father discover her unconscious body on her bedroom floor. I remember hearing my dad telling me to go outside, and my older sister and mother chorusing her name in the background; a frantic cry of, “Donnita, Donnita!” I remember refusing to walk past her room, my own childish version of denial. It wasn’t until weeks after that I finally dared to venture back into the room that had suffocated my sister, and when I did, I was greeted with a sight that I didn’t know what to make of. On her mirror were the words, written in her neat, blocky handwriting, “The purpose of life is to have a life of purpose.” Those words would go on to teach me the most valuable lesson I have ever learned in my entire life. Three months after my sister died, I turned 11. After taking some time to lick their wounds, my entire family came out to celebrate. Aunts and uncles that I had rarely seen throughout my life all of a sudden had nothing better to do than attend my 11th birthday party. As special as I felt, this coming on the tails of my sisters …show more content…

I went back to what I knew: I buried my feelings, my sadness, and my sister. I only knew recklessness. I became a social butterfly, with new friends and new parties to go to every week. School didn’t matter to me, my friends did. School wasn’t going to distract me. School was going to make me confront my issues head on, and I didn’t want that. The words my sister left behind were a distant memory, the musings of a bored teenage girl. Family trips on the anniversary of her death and on her birthday were boring, and heartfelt stories shared by family members were awkward and uncomfortable. I didn’t want anything to do with anyone who confronted me about what I was doing. In my mind, I was better off than I had been before. I continued to ignore my sister and her memory that she left

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