Julian Restrepo
Mrs. Linn
Honors English
28 November 2016
True Friends Are Difficult to Find “Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It is not something you learn in school. But if you haven 't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven 't learned anything.” (Muhammad Ali). In life, one will encounter another individual that will share an inexplicable bond called friendship. As seen in the historical drama of My Antonia written by Willa Cather, describes a special bond between Jim and Antonia. Antonia did not struggle with making friends she just was not in the position to gain from taking time to build the bond in her friendships. Antonia goes through a struggle that is would discourage many people, Antonia
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Jim does not know the whole backstory to Antonia’s problem but he does know that Larry uses Antonia and then Larry chooses to desert Antonia who is with a child, this is arguably the roughest stage of her life. Fortunately, Antonia after prevailing through her situation with Larry is bless with a loving man, His name is Anton Cuzak and he loves Antonia and her child. Jim acknowledges how Anton is respectful towards Antonia, Antonia explains, “If Anton had made trouble about her when she was a baby, or wanted me to leave her with my mother, I wouldn 't have married him. I could not. But he always loved her like she was his own” (Cather, 228). To expand further, Anton is willingly choosing to love Antonia’s daughter as if she is his own because of his love for Antonia. This marriage became successful; Antonia and Anton have a family and life seems to turn favorably towards Antonia. The reasons above demonstrate an example of the failure and success Antonia has with her love life.
Throughout this story, Antonia seems to receive love only from her family, Jim and his friends. Jim and his friends plan to write about Antonia’s life and their experiences and memories they have of her. Jim’s friends tell him that want to meet up in a couple months after they make the deal about writing about Antonia. Sadly, Jim’s friends do not keep their word and only Jim writes about his memories of Antonia and the manner he views Antonia. When they finally gather, since
Antonia knows the struggle firsthand since she has faced the harsh conditions of starting off in a new country since she is a Shimerda. Antonia tells Jim,“’ If I live here, like you, that is different. Things will be easy for you. But they will be hard for us’” (Cather 90). Antonia knows the racial difference between her and Jim. She has to work harder than the native speakers to be able to achieve what might come easily to them. Later on in the novel, Antonia goes off with a guy named Larry Donovan he informs her that his job has moved. This ended up being a lie. He leaves her whilst she's pregnant, so she becomes a single mom. Jim expresses his thoughts, “I was bitterly disappointed in her [Ántonia]. I could not forgive her for becoming an object of pity” (Cather 192). Jim expresses his dismay that Antonia has basically ruined her life by putting faith into a man of words. Antonia’s reputation fell drastically after this and it appears as though it would be hard to pick up. However, when Jim returns, he ends up being wrong. In the literary criticism, Anthony M. Dykema-VanderArk states, “She appears at the end of My Antonia as a figure who has triumphed over the hardships of her life through stalwart struggle...ensuring an easier future for her children” (Dykema-VanderArk 211). Antonia has gone through a lot throughout her life. Her father’s death to ruining her reputation by being oblivious. Her race caused her to be inferior compared to the women that don't have to work in order to survive, but she still gives a good life to her children. Despite her hardships, she still kept to her strong attitude and doesn't sway away from it. That's success through the work she put
A4. There are a few characteristics that Antonia exhibits that lead to Cather's admiration of her. One of them is Antonia's ability to be a hard worker. For example, after Antonia's father died, she helped her mother and brother work in the fields. One quote that proves this is "If I rode over to see her where she was ploughing, she stopped at the end of the row to chat for a moment, then gripped her plough handles, clicked to her team, and waded on down the furrow, making me feel like she was now grown up and had no time for me". This quote shows that Antonia was growing up and becoming a hard worker in the aftermath of her father's death because she only talked to Jim for a moment before going back to work. Another characteristic that Antonia exhibits that led to Cather's admiration of her is her
In the novel My Antonia by Willa Cather is a book based upon the main characters memories. Many critics have criticized this novel, and have focused on such literary elements as setting,theme, tone and etc. However the strongest argument is the one that states that the foundation of every element in the book is based on the personal memories of Willa Cather. After researching Willa Cather you can discover many biographies that talk about her life. In many instances I found stories about her life that I found similar to Jim and Antonias. Since she used personal experiences and turned them into a story it adds a special touch to her writing.
By he end of the book she learns to trust a few select people and starts to open up. Antonia also manages to make a friend, which she was without in the beginning. "Don't worry, Antonia. I'll be in touch. You just enjoy being back home with your own family." Page 183 paragraph 7. By reaching out for help, Antonia realizes that her life is finally starting to head in the right direction and that it all started because she was able to drop her guard with Jazz.
Throughout the novel especially in the beginning it focuses a lot on the relationship between Antonia and Jim. While Jim does her a great deal by helping her learn English, it turns out that he really isn’t the one who’s learning the most from the relationship. It turns out that as these two kids grow up together through the book that Jim learns a lot more. Antonia without even trying ends up teaching Jim a lot about life and makes him reevaluate some of his previous opinions.
Antonia, despite having an enormous warmth about her, is too simpleminded and preoccupied with manual labor in order to have time to reflect on the meaning of happiness; nevertheless, she is always dissolved in the moment which allows her to unconsciously live by Jim's definition of happiness. She often finds herself completely submerged in her joys which predominantly come in form of her work, personal freedoms, and family. She said once, "'I belong on a farm. I'm never lonesome here like I used to be in town... And I don't mind work a bit if I don't have to put up with sadness'"(Book 5, Section1). Here it is evident that her work on the farm allows Antonia to forget her troubles and keep her from being lost in her negative thoughts. She was also found bragging to Jim about the
Antonia believed that becoming great would come as natural as sleep. Antonia is a reliable and independent young girl who is proud of working on the farm with her family. Antonia is a selfless human being, and she shows that countless times throughout the book. One example of Antonia’s kind heartedness in the book is , “Ántonia loved to help grandmother in the kitchen and to learn about cooking and housekeeping. She would stand beside her, watching her every movement.” This quote from the book gives a glimpse of Antonia’s character and how kind and selfless she really was. Another quote from section 5 of the book says, “After Ántonia had said the new words over and over, she wanted to give me a little-chased silver ring she wore on her middle finger. When she coaxed and insisted, I repulsed her quite sternly.” This quote helps readers understand the type of things Antonia would do. It helps readers understand the type of person Antonia was. Her good nature and helpful attitude played a role in why Antonia believes that being complete would come as natural as sleep. Throughout the whole story she had been helpful to other characters in the book. Antonia is so generous because she has hope in the future that she becomes complete and successful. In Book 1 section 3 it says“ Ántonia came up to me and held out her hand coaxingly. In a moment we were running up the steep draw side together, Yulka trotting after us.” This represents how caring and sincere Antonia was to most
Although Antonia faces severe hardship, she remains strong and responding to her simple life that focuses on kid raising and family comforts. When Jim visits her after so many years, he realizes that she established a very happy life, a good marriage, and has a large family. Antonia bravery has qualified her to develop self-esteem and become a complete female of pride.Although Antonia faces severe hardship, she remains strong and responding to her simple life that focuses on kid raising and family comforts. When Jim visits her after so many years, he realizes that she established a very happy life, a good marriage, and has a large family. Antonia bravery has qualified her to develop self-esteem and become a complete female of
My Ántonia by Willa Cather is a story of the coming of age of Jim Burden and Ántonia Shimerda. The recently orphaned Jim moves to Blackhawk Nebraska to live with his grandparents. On his trip from Virginia to Nebraska, Jim first catches glimpse of the Bohemian immigrant family who happen to be moving in near the Burdens. Because she Shimerda’s speak no english, they are quickly cheated out of their money and have moved into a small lean-to on the side of a hill. Jim’s grandmother is a very kind woman and agrees to have Jim help Ántonia learn English. The two spend much time together and go on many adventures with Jim’s pony, Dude.
My Ántonia is a novel written by Author Willa Cather. Throughout the development of the novel there are two characters that have a predominant push and pull relationship, Jim Burden and Ántonia Shimerda. The question is never really answered concerning their relationship and as to weather he is in love with her, or if they are just friends. The story specifically focused on Ántonia and what she meant to Jim. Although at the end of the novel we come to find that Jims feeling for her appearances do not matter. Jim sees people for who they are as a person. Jim has always enjoyed people and has had a particular interest in who they are morally. That is how resolves Ántonia at the end of the novel, despite his conflicted emotions and her weathered appearance. It was almost a spiritual assessment of Ántonia and his morale feelings for her and who she is. In the end who a person is in there “true inner self” is more important to Jim than visual appearance. My Ántonia gives you that message by how Jim sees the world and the people in it specifically Ántonia.
The central narrative of My Antonia could be a check upon the interests, and tho' in his fib Jim seldom says something directly concerning the concept of the past, the general tone of the novel is very unhappy. Jim’s motive for writing his story is to do to change some association between his gift as a high-powered any professional person and his nonexistent past on the NE grassland ; in re-creating that past, the novel represent each Jim’s retention and his feelings concerning his recollections. in addition, inside the narrative itself, persona usually look rachis yearningly toward the past that they need losing, particularly when Book I. Life in blackness Hawk, Jim and Ántonia recall their Day on the farm Lena appearance back toward her spirit together with her family; the Shimerdas and therefore the Russian mirror on their lives in their several home countries before they immigrated to the United Country .
Jim loves the feeling of showing new things to Antinia and showing off her talents to the people of the town. He takes pride in her advancements and loves to show off her unique abilities. He describes Antinia to be “his” he doesn't think of Antonia as an object but he does like to have possession over her. “They were growing prettier every day, but as they passed us, I used to think with pride that Ántonia, like Snow-White in the fairy tale, was still 'fairest of them all” (Cather 244). This is an observation that Jim states when he sees the hired girls and Antonia on the block. His mind immediately shifts to how Antinia possesses more beauty than any of the other hired girls. Not only this but he's already taking a sort of ownership over Ántonia. He feels pride in thinking that she is the prettiest of the hired girls; not attraction. It's almost like she's his sister. Antonia is able to gain comfort and confidence as jims support is unconditional throughout her childhood. Though Antonia faces struggles she overcomes them and Jim is a witness of her happinesses.Their friendship helps Antonia not only adjust to a new country but helps her adjust to her true beauty and hidden
Julia Norris conveys, “No romantic novel ever written in America, by man or woman, is one half so beautiful as My Antonia.” Love is a very strong force that cannot be muffled, but it can be ignored. In My Antonia, love was always bringing Jim and Antonia together. Cather says in My Antonia, “I had a sense of coming home to myself, and of having found out what a little circle man’s experience is. For Antonia and for me, this had been the road of Destiny; had taken us to those early accidents of fortune which predetermined for us all that we can ever be. Now I understood that the same road was to bring us together again. Whatever we had missed, we possessed together the precious, the incommunicable past.” So Jim and Antonia were in love a person could say. This love was often ignored throughout the book though. Jim many times moved away seeking new opportunities instead of staying and loving
Throughout My Antonia, the difference between immigrants and native lifestyles are shown. While neither Jim not Antonia is rich, Jim is definitely more well off than her. He knows the language and has enough that he can have more opportunities. Antonia realizes that her life is going to be more difficult and that she will have to work more because of her mother’s decision to move to America. She tells Jim that “if I live here, like you, that is different. Things will be easy for you. But they will be hard for us,” (90) and knows that her gentle personality might be at stake. This also foreshadows future events where Antonia struggles as an immigrant farmer. It adds obstacles to her life which might lead to them drifting apart in their friendship, even complete separation. This relates to the world in how immigrants had a harder time getting going in life. Antonia’s mother has already become changed because of poverty. She is grasping, selfish, and believes everyone should help her family. Jim’s grandmother defends her, knowing that, “a body never knows what traits poverty might bring out in them,” (60), though it is socially unacceptable. The pressures of helping her family led Antonia to not be educated and become a farmer. She is happy, but this leads to Jim being away, “twenty years before I kept my promise,” (211) as he is a successful lawyer and travels. They still have old connections, though being from Bohemia did change Antonia’s life and where it could have gone.
Jim’s relationship with Antonia shapes him as a character and provides him with the tools to grow from a child to a young adult.