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Symbolism In Tomorrow Is Too Far

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In “Tomorrow is Too Far” the unnamed woman is recalling events from her childhood and all of the times she felt invisible next to her brother. At the age of ten, in Nigeria growing up with her brother and cousin, the nameless girl unaware of her social role as a woman tries to become equals to her male family members. The grandmother wanted Nonso to be the first to go in the ritualistic sipping ceremony of the coconut over Dozie. Dozie, despite being older than Nonso, was only the son of her daughter so she did not care for him as much. The coconut sipping is symbolic because despite not following the traditional values of their culture it is evident that Nonso is the favorite of their grandmother. Every kid in the neighborhood sipped from …show more content…

She even “screamed at him….he had betrayed her asking him who would carry on the Nnabuisi name now, who would protect the lineage” (189) as if there was not another child to be able to do that. The narrator even looks to her mother and her reaction to Nonso’s death. “Grandmama and your mother were focused on Nonso’s body, rather than his death. Your mother was insisting that Nonso’s body be flown back to America right away and Grandmama was repeating your mother’s words and shaking her head. Madness lurked in her eyes” (189). This even calls into question if it was her instead of Nonso would anyone even care. She continues to feel the invisibility and loss of identity. Even when she picked up the phone with her mother on the other line her mother felt as if she suspected that she was fine and that her brother’s untimely death did not phase her. She recalled a specific event when her and Nonso were younger she would always go into Nonso’s room and came out with this laugh and this would happen every time her mother went into Nonso’s room to say good night. However, she did not have the same experience that he had because “even when she came into (her) room to say Good night, darling, sleep well. She never left your room with that laugh” (190). The more she tends to dig into her old memories of her and her brother growing up the more she realizes that he was always the favorite of not only their grandmama but

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