The Divorce Rate Of Married Couples

Divorce is not only difficult for parents, but even more difficult for the children. It can hit hard and fast but can also be built up from long term damage and stress on the marriage. Children can view their parent’s divorce in multiple ways. They can visually see it, or they can hear it. Children may also not view the divorce at all. Divorce can be sudden, confusing, and hidden. It can be a quick and relieving process, or it could be slow and painful. The relationship could be fought for night after night with little progress being made. The marriage could be fought verbally or even physically. Hurtful words are thrown to bring an end to the relationship and caring words are thrown to keep the marriage alive.

In the 1970’s, divorce was relatively uncommon and difficult to happen. There needed to be adultery, abandonment, cruelty, intoxication or some other reason that made it necessary to end the marriage (“Why”). In today’s society, divorce happens every ten to thirteen seconds. Men and women fall in love, get married, and start a family. They make a vow to stay together forever and love each other unconditionally. However, not all marriages make it that far. Divorce occurs for multiple reasons such as financial problems, abuse, addictions, infidelity (cheating), and lack of communication. These factors, along with many others, not only affect the parents, but the children are affected as well.

For the past decades, divorce has been increasing dramatically throughout the United States; it is a common issue in this society. Approximately one million children experience divorce or parental separation every year(Shinoda, Kevin Seiji, 2001, La Mirada, pg. 9). According the 2000 census data, about 28% of divorce or separated parents, have at least one children who is under age of 6(Kim Leon Jul., 2003 pg. 258). Also, slightly more than half of all divorced children are under the age of 18, and about 40% of all children will experience divorce or parental separation before reaching adulthood(Shinoda, Kevin Seiji, 2001, La Mirada, pg. 9). Divorces strongly affect the development of children, and most of time, problems

Throughout time, practices that were once never used, become more common. In the 1600s divorce was a forbidden practice or a last resort. Since then, laws have changed, and so hasn’t the stigma related with divorce. The guilt and fault that divorce once carried has vanished. According to the book Should I Keep Trying to Work it out, “In the United States, researchers estimate that 40%–50% of all first marriages will end in divorce or permanent separation. The risk of divorce is even higher for second marriages, about 60%.” (Hawkins 42). As it became more common for couples in America to separate, divorce gradually became a normal part of so many lives. Why are so many couples separating now? Through research on EBSCO, and other findings, I will attempt to explain this question that so many people ask in today’s world. The divorce rate in America is drastically increasing over time due to new laws, certain generations, and relationship issues.

Divorce has enormous obstacles in child’s life As mentioned in the book that 50% of marriages end in divorce, with just over 60% of American children living in married couple-household (Casey foundation, 2008).these problems Start from trust, aggressive behavior, crying, short-term anxiety. We do need to do more to help those children and assess them to the right direction.

Around 50 percent of all marriages in the United States today end in divorce (Cherline, 1992; Popenoe, 1996, as cited in Potter, 2010). There are several contributing factors. Infidelity, addictions, abuse, lack of intimacy, conflicts, finances, and changes in views of success, priorities and interests could all be reasons marriages fail (Payne, Olver, & Roth, n.d.). Divorce not only impacts the married couple, but also their children. Children may experience many mixed emotions when internalizing the divorce. This group proposal will evaluate the behaviors that children may display when going through a period of family breakup. In addition, I will discuss how group counseling may benefit adolescent children in coping with divorce and strategies that may help limit unwanted behaviors.

In the last two decades divorce has increased substantially leaving couples single and families broken. Divorce is the reality for many families as there is an increase in divorce rates, cohabitation rates, and the number of children raised in step and single marital families. Divorce cannot be overlooked as it negatively affects and impacts youngsters for the rest of their lives. Although it is the decision between two parents’s children are hurt the most in the process. The concept of divorce is extremely difficult for children to understand as there are many unanswered questions and uncertainties. “Will my mom or dad remarry and who will I live with?” are concerns children express while going through divorce. Many

In today’s society, it is common to meet a person who has experienced a parents’ divorce. Due to my own experience of coming from a divorced family, I have also met several children who have the same experience as I do. The increase of divorce is becoming the norm among families. It has become fairly easy to get a divorce in today’s world. Many parents have different views on whether divorce is good or bad. Contrary to the claim of parents’ views that divorce causes negative effects on children, divorce should be accepted in today’s society in order for the children to grow up in a peaceful environment, bonding with their parents’ in a neutral ground.

Each and every day a child somewhere in the world is experiencing major changes within their family. One of those major changes is divorce or separation of parents. Divorce is “the action or an instance of legally dissolving a marriage”(Webster, 2011 p1). Today’s reality shows that couples only have one in two odds of remaining together. “ The U.S. Census bureau – involved in research about counseling children of divorce- estimating that approximately 50% of all American children born in 1982 lived in a single-parent homes sometime during their first 18 years. Mostly are due to divorce”(Children of Divorce, 2008 p.1). The rapid increase in divorce rates is a factor that has contributed to the large decline of the typical family. “Over 1

Divorce is a vastly common occurrence in American society today. Divorce not only harms the couple, but also the children that are involved. People who divorce are more likely to go to a lower economic class, including poverty or below poverty level. In the first 18 months following the divorce, between 77% and 83% of mothers with their children will live in poverty. (Vrouvas, n.d.) It also causes their children to have psychological problems along with stress that hinders their social and educational development. Children who observe a divorce between their parents are more likely to become abuse victims, have health problems, behavioral and emotional problems, become involved in crime and drugs or commit suicide than the children that are raised in two-parent homes. (Divorce, family, and society, 2013) The best ways to solve, or at least minimize, divorcing statistics are: marriage counseling, biblical or not (before as well as during marriage), communication between the children as well as both spouses, and to “forgive and forget”.

In the last 25 years, divorce has become a major issue in American society. Since the turn of the century, the divorce rate has held steady between 4.0-3.2 divorces per 1000 people per year (National Vital Statistics System, 2015). With this rising divorce rate, more children are living between parents, or in single family homes, and many of these children have been exposed to altercations between parents, as well as rough custody battles and divorce settlements. Traumatic experiences like these are highly likely to stick with children of divorce throughout their life, especially if the child is older at the time of the divorce.

The rate of divorce has greatly increased over the past decade and determining the factors and characteristics that deem a marriage successful can be considered a “hot button” issue in today’s society. Research studies have been conducted to attempt to target the reasons for marriage failures. Conversely, the purpose of this research study was to determine what married couples considered to be the most prominent factors contributing to marital success. Examining these key characteristics through a qualitative lens may help to provide society with a greater understanding of how a successful marriage is sustained. In this study, “success” will be defined as compatibility, strategies for working together through hardships, and remaining married for twenty years or longer. The definition was compiled from earlier studies, interviewed couples, and literature written about successful marriages and key elements that keep couples together.

Divorce is a plague that is destroying numerous families across the United States of America. Sadly, when husbands and wives divorce, the children are often caught directly in the middle. Throughout the years divorce has been becoming more and more common. In the 1920's it was a rare find to know a person whom had been divorced, today it is a rarity not to know of one who has been, or will be divorced. Divorce has numerous effects on the structures of families, and many devastating effects on the children that must experience it, although sometimes necessary, divorce radically changes the lives of adolescents and adults alike.

According to Dartmouth Undergraduate General Of Science,”Today over 45 percent of marriages in the United States end in divorce and “about 40 percent of children will experience their parents’ divorce”. In the current time we live, divorce has become more of a common solution to the problems of a marriage. Many years ago, parents would stay together for the sake of their children. Now that divorce has become such a common practice, parents do not put a second thought into it. Parents tend to believe that their children will just accept it and have no struggles or face any hard times because of their decisions. During divorces, parents do not completely consider their children's feelings or the effects the divorce will have on them.  Parents often feel that they are doing what is best for themselves and their children by divorcing. They believe a divorce is the best solution for the struggles they face with their spouse. During their lifetime,children who are affected by broken marriages are more likely to face mental and emotional health problems, financial instabilities, and social issues.

The institution of marriage has continued to weaken over the past decade. Numerous individuals have failed to have a successful marriage and therefore are divorced. While the impact of a divorce can be challenging for adults, it can be extremely difficult for the children involved. Many adults believe that they should stay in a bad marriage for the children but, this does more harm than good. In these situations, children grow up to learn what they believe is a healthy marriage but, children often see their parents arguing or not seeing them support one another. As a result, these individuals may end up in bad relationships with significant consequences as they are unsure of what a healthy marriage is. During a divorce, younger children struggle to comprehend what it going on and what the outcome will be. While some outcomes of a divorce are positive for children, such as cases like an abusive relationship, many children can experience a negative aftermath. With over 1 million American children suffering from a divorce every year, there is many unspoken social, emotional, and physical consequences of divorce on children (Amato and Keith, 26). Potentially, these effects could last well into adulthood, affecting the future generations and impacting society as a whole.