Communication between two individuals has changed more than we have ever expected within the past 50 years. Communication was simple half a century ago, and now communication is fairly complex. Two people would either call each other through home landlines, write letters to one another, or need to communicate face to face in order to communicate effectively. Nowadays there is a plethora of ways to get in contact with someone; face to face, cellphones, social media websites, email, etc. Through an assignment our class performed, interviewing an adult 70+ years of age, we were able to gather information on how interpersonal communication functioned in their early stages of life, and how it has changed since then. The results from these interviews show that the 70+ year olds believe that communication does not better or worsen but changes overtime. Interpersonal communication among most cultures across the world has changed and grown simultaneously as time does. Over the course of four classes, the class as a whole listened and learned about our fellow classmates interviewee’s and their opinions and perspectives on interpersonal communication. Many of the 70+ year olds who were interviewed agree that communication has changed due to times changing and due to technology advancements. Allison Kantor and Brad Lewinski interviewed two individuals who do have many differences but similarities in the beliefs about interpersonal communication. Allison interviewed a woman by the name of Tina Stoker. Tina was born May 8, 1937 in Friesland, Netherlands. Tina moved to the United States at the age of nine years old. Tina and her family arrived to the United States on a ship called Nieuw Amsterdam, the ship took Tina’s family all the way from Amsterdam to New York, coming in through Ellis Island. Tina had two sisters and one brother growing up, and the family decided to settle in Artesia, California because Tina’s father, a dairyman, purchased a dairy farm in Artesia. Tina’s mother was a housewife, and the four children did many chores around the house to help the mother and to keep the household in tip-top shape. Brad interviewed his grandmother’s ex-husband by the name of Henry Villalovoz. Henry was born August 23,
There are many variables in interpersonal communication; sex and gender, race and ethnicity, age and social class, just to name a few. The variables in which were most present in
Interpersonal Communication is a very important ingredient in making strong, healthy relationships. Communicating is how we get a better understanding of one another’s perception of things, as well as how we help someone to better understand ours. We need to express our feelings in relationships and know that they are reciprocated. Not communicating leads to problems and misunderstandings. People need to learn to understand what the other person is trying to communicate. Interpersonal communication is the process by which people exchange information, feelings, and meaning through verbal and non-verbal messages: it is face-to-face communication. It is about what is said, how it is said, and the use of non-verbal communication through
"Spanglish” is a 2004 comedy-drama film directed by James L. Brooks, exploring the intertwining lives of two families from different cultural backgrounds in Los Angeles. The movie follows the experiences of a Mexican immigrant housekeeper named Flor and her daughter, Christina, as they navigate the complexities of assimilation while working for an affluent American family. The movie delves into the themes of social class and privilege, family dynamics, cultural identity, and communication/miscommunication, which align closely to the concepts discussed in Chapter 4 of "Interpersonal Communication: Everyday Encounters" by Julia T. Wood. Set against the backdrop of cultural diversity in Los Angeles, the movie intricately portrays how communication helps shape the dynamics between characters, reflecting both their individual struggles and shared humanity.
Steven A. Beebe, Susan J. Beebe, Mark V. Redmond ,Terri M. Geerinck . Interpersonal Communication: Relating to Others, Pearson Education Canada; 5 edition (Feb. 15 2010)
Explain how people from different backgrounds may use and/ or interpret communication methods in different ways
Communication is an essential process that occurs in everyday life. According to the renowned author Virginia Satir, “communication is to a relationship what breathing is to maintaining life” (Brothers 41). The interpersonal dimension of communication is broadly defined as any interaction between two or more individuals. “Interpersonal communication is a distinctive, transactional form of human communication involving mutual influence, usually for the purpose of managing relationships” (Pearson Book Page 3).
As a new student coming into this class we might have wondered what interpersonal communication was. However, I believe by now we all have a better understanding of what it means to communicate amongst ourselves. We all, or at least most of us were strangers at the start of class. However, through exercises and discussions we have become open with each other and learned a little along the way. Something as simple as our shared interests such as superhero movies or Star Wars trivia has opened up discussions we might not have had otherwise as a group. Our perceptions of each other have changed since that first awkward day playing a cheesy board game (Alder, Rosenfeld, Proctor II, 2013, p. 106-139). As we practiced our communication skills many of us have developed a stronger self-concept as well as boosted our self-esteems (Alder, Rosenfeld, Proctor II, 2013, p. 66-67). We also used social comparisons in our class intended or not (Alder, Rosenfeld, Proctor II, 2013, p. 69). We compared our backgrounds, both cultural, ethnic, as well as socio economic standing. Some of these comparisons come from what we learned as children to believe, while others are from what we have learned in life. This is what has intrigued me the most in class. The facts that we as a “civilized” world still have not come that far at all. Women are still for the most part second-class citizens, hate is taught to our children, and language still hasn’t evolved to where there are no
Communication is the process of gathering meaning from the world around us and using verbal and non-verbal messages to share this meaning with others. (Beebe, Beebe, and Redmond, 2005) More specifically, interpersonal communication can be defined as; “a distinctive, transactual form of human communication involving mutual influence, usually for the purpose of managing relation ships.” (Beebe, Beebe, and Redmond, 2005, p. 6) Interpersonal communication is extremely complex and encompasses many different themes and issues that affect many aspects of our daily lives. These
Age is a concept of interpersonal communication that is defined as a demographic consideration that effects an audience’s response to and understanding of a speaker’s message. Throughout my day I will send a text message to my mother explaining to her how well I did on my test or send her a picture. With every generation technology has advanced making our lives simpler and easier. My mother growing up did not have a cell phone or even social media accounts. However, I got my first cell phone at the age of twelve from then on my mother and I have communicated consistently with text message and other forms of electronic communication. Although my mothers and I ages are different, and
Communication is one of the most important and valuable skills we have developed as human beings. It is the basis for how we connect with each other globally and shape the people we are today. Without effective communication, we would not be able to build productive relationships, express our cultural values, or most importantly, voice our thoughts. As we grow, we learn and develop our unique form of communication. Whether we are strong public speakers or prefer an interpersonal approach, it is important to find what type of communication is best suited for us, so we can appropriately and effectively use communication to our advantage. There are several different aspects that make us effective communicators, and knowing our strengths and weaknesses in theses categories will give us a comparative advantage on how to properly communicate on an interpersonal level. In this paper, I will discover the type of communicator I am, what I am good at, and what I can work on, to become an excellent interpersonal communicator.
Communication is an ongoing process in which individuals exchange messages whose meanings are influenced by the history of the relationship and the experiences of the participants. (Adler, p.384) Communication depends on relationships between the people who are communicating, and on common basics between them. Problems in communications between people may arise due to differences in cultures, perceptions, values, and expectations from life.
ASSIGNMENT: Achieving competence as an interpersonal communicator in a diverse society is necessary to your personal and professional success. One way to enhance our understanding of interpersonal communication as a relationship-building activity is to engage in first hand dialogue with people from cultures other than your own. This assignment gives you the opportunity to engage in the dual perspective honoring the perspective of the person with whom you are communicating as well as honoring your own perspective. You are also able to contrast your worldview with the perspective of someone with a different life experience than your
The purpose of this research was to answer one key research question: “How can the generational communication gap between the Baby Boomer generation and Generation Y be closed in order to allow them to have meaningful interpersonal communication?”
Since the start of this class, I have been reminded again and again that the concepts we are learning can be applied to everyday life. For instance, when we talked about non-verbal communication, I realized that it is impossible to not communicate. There are many activities, other than the use of language, that allow us to draw meaning from something we observe. When my mother widens her eyes at me without stating a word, I understand she is telling me to think twice about the action I’m about to take. It has been great to be able to assign concepts and vocabulary to interpersonal relationships and communication activity that I have been experiencing. Now let me introduce you to my friend Izzy and her boyfriend Ken as I analyze the
Our communication is influenced by varieties of circumstances and people. However, the most important thing which affects our communication is our backpack, which means the environment that we raised in. we carry this backpack every time when we communicate with others, so in this essay I am going to demonstrate my interpersonal communication behavior.