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The Importance Of Your Role In Society

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Dear little girl, as you grow up you will learn that your role in society has been limited to specific roles. You will learn very on that your sole purpose in life is to be of benefit to a man. In elementary school you will be told that, if a young boy hits you this is his way of showing you that he “likes” you. You will learn much more about boys before you learn anything about your sexuality. When you eventually learn, it’ll be mandated through the eyes of man. You will find that you do not have autonomy over your body but that you must always be aware of the ways in which your body affects men. You may be told that you should cover up so that grown men will not be “tempted”. As you get older you will become more aware of beauty politics. Because of society’s deep investment into physical beauty, you too will naturally become deeply invested into your body. And this will not be your fault, but because of this you will internalize that your physical appearance is much more valuable than yourself as a person. Often this will be reiterated through popular culture and media. More importantly from this you will learn that if nothing else, you have your looks. But beyond this you will realize that society’s ideal beauty standards will not apply to you. School may become a place where you are either objectified for fitting into what society has defined as “beautiful” or you may be humiliated for not fitting into the normative of beauty. If you are of a fair complexion and

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