This is my first essay in college, and my mind went completely blanked when I was told to write a paper on what means a lot to me or what doesn’t mean anything to me. I feel like it is a given to say family and friends mean a lot to people, though they really do mean a lot to me. I asked some of my friends for suggestions as to what I can write about that means a lot to me, and eventually a good friend of mine, who we’ll call Hena, gave me a brilliant idea. She told me to write about the adventures we went on, and so I did it in a way where the topics, adventures and friendship, coincides with each other, due to the fact I tend to ramble off connecting one topic to another.
I’ve never had any friends who would push me out of my comfort zone. Most of my friends were people who I only associated myself with because we had classes together and ate lunch together. They were the type of people who played it safe, meaning if we did hang out, we would mainly stay within the Millbrae boundaries. Perhaps we’re not really friends, and instead I’m just a nuisance to them. In my last year of highschool, I got closer with an old friend, Hena, whom I met in middle school. I’m glad that we hung out more because I really got to know her, unlike my so called friends. Hena and I started going on adventures around the Bay Area, and it felt like there was finally a sliver of light at the end of the dark tunnel I was in. Adventuring with her made me feel like I was finally living rather than
What is the meaning of friends? If you ask me, friends are people who cheer for you, always on your side, and you trust with your secrets. To different people, friends have various meanings. I think everyone would agree that a friend will always be there. Your friends aren’t just anyone, your friends are outstanding people who are like family to you.
Families, as units, are extremely complex and vary drastically from one another. A person might be under the impression that his or her own family is nothing special, especially if they are accustomed to their family’s routines. After analyzing my own family through the sociological lenses of an assortment of scholars, it is now clear that it is not as simple as it seems. Sociologically analyzing my family through the divorces that have occurred in my life makes it clear that divorce can have an impact on a variety of family dynamics, such as my parents and their jobs and domestic duties, the amount of involvement they have with their friends and family, as well as my financial dependence on my parents.
There aren’t many people that I've met that have had a significant influence on my life. Many of my friends and family have had some sort of influence on me, both good and bad influences, but none of them have influenced me significantly. In fact, I can only think of three friends that have had a meaningful impact on my life and there is only one person out of those three that I would even think to consider writing about. This person has been there for me for the past two years and he is the only person to change the way I think and act in such a short period of time.
As you age you go through many life experiences that teach you different lessons. One lesson I had to learn early on was how to read people. Knowing how to read people was always important because it can determine whether you and the other person can become friends or not. When I was younger I tended to close people off who didn’t have the exact same interest as me. I soon learned that life can get boring that way and that it is more fun when you make friends who push you to do things outside of your comfort zone. I realized that the friends that would push me to get on that rollercoaster I hated, or to try a new curry dish at a new restaurant made me more diverse as a person. Pushing my boundaries helped me to broaden my spectrum which allowed me to grow my kinship. This is similar to when Dennis allowed Anthony the chance to
When I first entered school and had to start making friends, I tried very hard but always seemed to had issues socializing. Somehow, I ended up being the target of bullies all the time as a kid, with few friends who always stuck around. As I moved around the first few times between towns in Upstate New York, this kept happening. It seemed I just didn’t know how to make good friends, or at least not many. But, this all ended when I moved out to California halfway through Middle School. I made a few very good friends after I came to Larchmont, and they helped me open myself up to more people. I made more friends than I ever had in my life, and began to spend time outside of school socializing— something I’d never done before. Through all of this change, my closest friends were still the same type of people I’d always sought out my entire life; it had always been more creative type people. Whether they focused their creative efforts towards games, art, writing or music, that was always the main thing that connected my closest friends to me. Also, despite my more extroverted approach now, I still do prefer a quiet setting with less people (or even no one) to one that is busy at the end of the
I was once again faced with the dilemma of adjusting to a new environment and making new friends. This time, however, things were easier as I now was fluent in two languages, knew more about whom I was, and the thought that everyone was new alleviated some of the tension I was feeling. Soon, I started gravitating towards classmates that shared my ethnic and racial background as well as those who were into Math, my favorite subject. The similarities we shared helped make our bond stronger and I felt that we had a genuine and strong connection. I felt understood by those within this circle and felt welcomed. Things, however, started to change when some friends started to engage in actions that I saw unbeneficial. They would cut class and tried to get others to do it as well. To be honest, in an attempt to satisfy my friends and my own curiosity, I cut class two or three times yet felt so strange doing nothing that I started to distance myself from them. Soon, I saw my circle closing as more and more girls started to do things that I wasn’t comfortable doing. I did feel as if I was alone but it wasn’t bad. Before long, I started to connect
In his essay “The Meaning of Friendship in a Social-Networked World”, author Alex Pattakos argues that social networking is eroding the true meaning of friendship, and that people need to take stock of the possible impact on their lives. He believes that while people may think these networking platforms make them more socially connected, the opposite is actually true. Pattakos claims this is happening because our “social connections” made through these networks are shallow in nature and do not stand up to the traditional definition of friendship. He also claims that humans are drawn to this type of easy friendship as opposed to the work involved in creating a true, face-to-face friendship. The author successively communicates his admonition by using appeals to ethos and pathos to make the audience consider putting their devices down before their relationships completely disconnect.
In this last chapter, the author briefly summarizes the four definitions of family and how the family has changed over time. Although every family has different definitions of family, I believe most individuals agree that the interactional approach is more accurate. The interactional approach depicts that families have a sense of collective identity that emerges through shared activity and interaction. For instance, caring and helping each other in difficult times or simply just having dinner together every night. Furthermore, a significant change in families was the late transition to adulthood. Today, young adults are more dependent on their parents than they were in the 20th century because the expansion of higher education and the competitive
Being in a relationship, or a part of a relationship, is a broad term. There are many different types of relationships that you will experience in life. Some relationships are by choice, some you are born or marry into, some are in passing (people you meet on the street, checkout lines in the grocery store, or sitting at a Starbucks), and others are fleeting moments in time.
In my opinion there are many ways to define friendship. Friendship to me means respect. It means being there for one another through good times and bad. It means being honest with each other. Never back bighting one another. Being able to pick a phone up day or night and say I need you. You don’t judge each other easily and many other things. The next point is your friend it can be your family member or sometimes your relatives. For example my best friend is my cousin, she is older than me and I need her guidance in many cases and sometimes she listen to my advice although I am younger than her. I think the most important reason that we are such a loyal friend to each other is the honesty that it is between us and second reason is trusty.
Friends were hard to come by, but I did have a few. I’ve been friends with the same person for 11 years. We don’t always get along, but I feel like she knows me the best and can handle me. I’ve always acted like an adult. She was, and still is, the childish one. I’m not saying that’s bad, because I
I am an international student, I arrived to the United States in January 2011 with only part of my family. For almost five years, we did not own anything we either walked or had to ask relatives for a ride. We lived in the house of several uncles, and even lived for months in our neighbors' house. My mother was the head of the family, she worked only evening and night shifts at restaurants earning only money to pay my uncles the rent. My only entertained day was on Sunday when my mom’s aunt took us to church and later went to buy a one-dollar sandwich. My father could not do anything to improve our situation, he worked as a blueprints reader and earned a low salary in Mexico. A year ago, my father became permanent resident and started working
The friends I made in the new school were better than my old friends. They were nicer but still in that popular crowd that didn’t like people who were different than them. While this is probably an awful thing to say, I became a master manipulator, I could show a “I’m just like you guys,” side to my popular friends but then away from them on the school bus I was able to bond with the “weird kids” who rode my bus. I had so much in common with these friends that I was really sad because I couldn’t be friends with them. Are you kidding me?? If I became full-fledged friends with them in public I would be crucified. I would be picked on just like they were I couldn’t let that happen. So I kept these fun friendships a secret and suffered in silence knowing I was just as bad as these popular friends I
True friendship is something really important that everyone has to experience so they can understand how good it feels to have a true friendship with somebody,what i think true friendship is i think its when your friends are kind to each other and help each other out when you need it the most, and also get cool presents and gifts from them,friendship can include alot of things, but a good example of it can come from the movie big hero 6 which has the boy hiro losing his brother to an explosion,but his brothers robot baymax is there to comfort and help him over his loss,but bay isnt the only one helping him his brothers college friends are willing to help hiro find the man who caused his brother death because theyre friends i think that is a
element of sacrifice must exist in every friendship, for only a true friend seeks the