The Relationship Of Vulnerability And Love

Self-disclosure is an important part of any close relationship. Without sharing our own fears and weaknesses, we can

Though fulfilling love, happiness and trust in a relationship can be comforting, couples often are unsuccessful in finding or keeping the love that their relationship need; even if issues may interfere within the relationship, couples should find a way in working through their problems. Once a couple's happiness, trust and love have been fulfilled, they can experience unconditional love. Although they would need to make every possible step to heal their relationship, if and when their relationship breaks down, there is still much they can learn. With this stated this idea holds opposing views among the two females in A Secret Sorrow and "A Sorrowful Woman."

Throughout our lives, many of us crave and strive to be loved and cherished. Many find purpose and happiness when they share reciprocated affection with another person. Heartbreak often occurs when what we wished for in a relationship is not returned in the same manner. Miranda in “Sexy” by Jhumpa Lahiri felt this at the end of her relationship with a married man named Dev. He had treated her unlike anyone else before. This caused her to believe their relationship meant the same to him as it did to her, despite him being married to another women. Mr. Kapasi in “Interpreter of Maladies” found affection towards a woman who was cold towards her family, but was warm and showed great interest in him. He had started to believe she was different

In my personal life, I was this little girl who could stand up and totally pretend that everything would be fine, a very confident and a different girl. I could express my own feelings and just blossom around like a tree going through the spring season. I didn’t really cared what other people thought about me but as time passed and as I grew up, I started covering myself up and didn’t really liked expressing myself anymore, I wasn’t that little confident girl anymore, despite, I am now known as the quiet girl, who doesn’t really talk a lot. This happened to me because I started caring a lot about what people thought of me and knew that they would criticize me if I followed this attitude; so I just thought of

Love is a powerful emotion that every human being has experience at least once in their life. There are numerous connotations that refer to this emotion, but there is only one kind of love that can make a person change completely in unexpected ways. It is the kind of love that consumes the soul and everything within. Mixed with excitement, adventure, heartbreak, happiness and joy; it is a big ball of feelings, all concentrated in one simple, yet extremely complicated necessity to have, protect, please and give all of oneself to that one person. In certain occasions, love can grow very intense and, consequently,

The three prototypes explored are avoidant, anxious-ambivalent, and secure attachments which describes how partners will behave in close relationships and how caring and supportive each individual is within their relationship. Avoidant attached individuals are withdrawn from relationships and untrustworthy of others. Anxious-Ambivalent individuals worry often about their partner’s needs being fulfilled as well as theirs and analyze if they’re moving too fast in the relationship when compared to their partner. Secured individuals are completely trustworthy of their partner and confident in their feelings and

Much has been said about love, but if you search the horizon, you will discover that most of the things written about love are either pithy or cynical.

Erik Erikson named the stage of adolescents “identity versus role confusion” (Sigelman, C. & Rider, E. pg. 343). This is a pivotal time in an individual’s life where many future endeavors; personal, academic, and professional, depend on the outcome of this stage. During this time, adolescents are trying to refine the many facets of their personality such as, political, sexual, religiousness, just to name a few. This is an arduous

opening up to others, being vulnerable and showing our flaws can be a scary thought. We risk

Obviously "love" is not a measurable thing; you can't test our blood for love levels, you can’t test whether or not we feel love and how we feel it. You can’t time love – it can come completely inconvenient and shatter your whole world. It can take all from a moment to a few hours or days or weeks to months to fall in love. Love is an uncertain size and we can never really know how, when and who we will fall in love with. Or can we? Can we decide whom we want to fall for and when?

“Rise and shine, campers. Rise and shine,” Tony Brown yells over the intercom directly above my bed.

I have always been afraid of people even when I was younger and in primary school I had this irrational fear. I hated school because of it. School was mortifying for me and I would cry, but I would cry before any of the other students arrived. I think I was afraid of my own emotions back then and I still am, but i’m trying to walk one step at a time across that imaginary bridge of fears I have. I don’t think i’m anywhere close to fully crossing it yet, it’s like I take two steps forward and one step back. Now that i’m in highschool, I realise that I have to get across, and soon because if I don’t get across I’ll fall to my doom. Everyday the ropes holding the bridge up are unraveling, I know I must move fast, but I feel as though my fears outweigh my confidence. But, I have been challenging myself and taking just one small step at a time to cross the bridge of fears. I wear clothes that have colors and patterns, anything that I like I have forced myself to wear it because it’s who I am and I can express myself. It has taken me awhile to realize that it’s okay to be yourself and express who you truly

This resource will apply the definitions of the differing insecure attachment styles. The insight will be shared of how individuals with insecure attachment may be less likely to be involved in supportive partner relationships (Borhani, 2013). Borhani’s research study will support these findings.

Throughout the course of our lives we will experience the deterioration of a loved one due to illness or aging. This may cause us to make a choice of how and where we choose our loved one to die. Authors, Carolyn Jaffe and Carol H. Ehrlich, in their book All Kinds of Love, illustrate how the relationships between doctors, patients', family, friends, hospice volunteers, and hospice nurses all play an important role during he patients last days as they try to reach a "good death". In the book's foreword, Rabbi Earl A. Grollman comments on Jaffe's history of nursing experience and states "Her stories bring alive the concerns, the surprises, the victories, the disappointments, the mistakes, the uncertainties, the joys, and the pain that are

People say that being vulnerable is bad and that if you are vulnerable that means that you are weak or just stupid. The idea of being vulnerable scares people so much that they try to avoid it at all costs even the loss of a relationship. I see it all the time with my friends, they are having issues with someone but they don’t want to tell them how they feel because they are afraid of how it will make them look or how the other person will react. Its sad though because both sides have this issue so neither side says what they need to say and the the relationship crumbles. It seems that this day in age people will do anything to avoid being vulnerable, they will blame the other person, blame outside forces or just blow up and end things. Brene Brown, a researcher who studies vulnerability, said in an interview that “We opt to live disappointed rather than to feel disappointed. We are never fully in; there is no raw engagement.” People would rather just throw their hands up and say “forget it” then allow themselves to be vulnerable and work things out. Brene also said,“One of the reasons there is such an intimacy deficit today is because we don’t know how to be vulnerable. It’s about being honest with how we feel, about our fears, about what we need, and, asking for what we need. Vulnerability is a glue that holds intimate relationships together.” In other words without vulnerability there is no relationship because there is no glue and through vulnerability you can see the