The Societal Construction Of Sexual Scripts And Gendered Expectations

James Baldwin’s novel, Giovanni’s Room, follows the protagonist, David, as he embarks on a self-journey to establish an identity, personal and sexual, for himself. David is trapped in an American ideal of masculinity and homosexuality that does not define who he truly is, a homosexual male. David tries to pull away from his true desires and constantly struggles to embrace the heteronormative American life instead of being honest and accepting his true self. Throughout the entire novel, David associates darkness, filth and containment with homosexuality, queerness and different spaces that represent sin. Towards the end of the novel, at the end of his self-journey, David, although not literally contained or confined to Giovanni’s room or other dark spaces, does not truly resolve his issues with his true identity and internally will never truly be free.

At the age of 5 years old, not only did he began to take showers with his father, but when they went to the beach club, his mother bathed him in the shower in the presence of other naked women. By the age of 6 years old, David noticed the power men had over women, “when a male entered the women’s side of the bathhouse, all the women shrieked”. (Gale Biography). At the age of 7 and 8 years old, he experienced a series of head accidents. First, he was hit by a car and suffered head injuries. A few months later he ran into a wall and again suffered head injuries. Then he was hit in the head with a pipe and received a four inch gash in the forehead. Believing his natural mother died while giving birth to him was the source of intense guilt, and anger inside David. His size and appearance did not help matters. He was larger than most kids his age and not particularly attractive, which he was teased by his classmates. His parents were not social people, and David followed in that path, developing a reputation for being a loner. At the age of 14 years old David became very depressed after his adoptive mother Pearl, died from breast cancer. He viewed his mother’s death as a monster plot designed to destroy him. (Gale Biography). He began to fail in school and began an infatuation with petty larceny and pyromania. He sets fires,

James Baldwin once said, “Everybody 's journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality. ” From the moment babies are born, most parents treat boys and girls differently. One study says that parents have different expectations for boys and girls as early as 24 hours from birth, according to Susan D. Witt of the University of Akron. According to healthychildren.org, infants become aware of their sex within in the first year of life. Between ages 1 and 2, children begin to notice the physical differences between males and females, and typically by their third birthday they are able to easily identify themselves as a boy or a girl. People are faced with many obstacles that alter their life. Just like the many controversies in society, “Giovanni’s Room” by James Baldwin discusses a young man being gay in a society and a family who are simply not ready to accept his sexual orientation and neither does he. This fiction also emphasizes the battle that he faces with self-acceptance. Gender identity and American norms in society is widely discussed almost every day. Americans are becoming more open and accepting of the LGBT community, as well as against the LGBT community.

Giovanni’s Room written by James Baldwin was written in the 1950’s. A book about love, homosexuality, and the struggles of both. During the 1950’s being a homosexual wasn’t exactly a desirable thing to be, in America or England. The fifties was a hard time for homosexuals and bisexuals. In Europe families were starting back up as the men returned home from World War II, due to this being gay was seen as a threat to the typical family. This was a time in which one could go to prison for their sexual orientation and the sexual acts they pursued. Chain arrest could be made as well, where one would get arrested, questioned on if they knew other gays and if they did and could identify them, then their sentence would be lesser or easier (CITATION). So as imagined “coming out of the closet” wasn’t a thing that many wanted to do, they wanted to stay hidden. The phrase “coming out of the closet” or even just the term “closet” represents an idea where people hid their sexuality. If one were to “come out of the closet” they would announce or make it known in public that they were accepting their sexuality and letting others see it as well. In Giovanni’s Room we as readers can see a lot of this hiding, confusion, and struggle with the idea of being gay, especially with the character of David. David uses Giovanni’s room as his own sort of “closet”.

The collision of one’s cultural imperatives with his/her psychological reality establishes a psychic dissonance between norm and self. How might an individual with tendencies divergent from the institutionalized societal norm find a sense of place? This question establishes a need for reconciliation between the values of a culture and the developing beliefs specific to said individual. This dissonance, in terms of queer sexuality, constitutes an internal conflict between heteronormative-imposed shame and one’s natural sexual desire. John Rechy’s City of Night, sheds light on this often-hidden conflict by detailing an unnamed, homosexual Mexican-American narrator’s chosen psychological justification for his sexual excursions.

This is when Giovanni makes his appearance. He is handsome and Italian and even though David refuses to admit it, he is very attracted to this young, dark man. After a while he ends up in his bedroom where he stays for several weeks. That he is having a homosexual affair is tearing on David, and he despises Giovanni as well as he loves him. In the book, David is saying to him self: ‘The beast which Giovanni awakened in me would never go to sleep again; but one day I would not be with Giovanni anymore'. When he finds joy in Giovanni's room, it quickly becomes clear that it cannot last, and that love does not always conquer all, and that it actually stands no chance against fear and self-delusion. He is fighting a constant battle against something he can't remove or ignore.

David’s incessant spiral of lies ultimately, is a veil, like that of Ralph Ellison’s narrator, utilized as a subconscious means to shield himself from his true self: his homosexual self. He has a supposed perception (Ideal-I) of who he is, a white heterosexual male; however, his actions juxtaposed to his web of untruthfulness display a different individual; an individual who is confused, scared, and ashamed of his actual self. Sadly, in contrast to Ralph Ellison’s nameless protagonist, David does not uncloak

mainstream society” (DeGout, 26). The attitudes and opinions stated by society about homosexuality have affected David and his ability to be himself, because he knows how he will be viewed if he is honest about being homosexual. Due to the fact that David has adapted homophobic attitudes, created by society, it causes himself to holdback from fully committing to Giovanni. He says, “Even when I tried my hardest to give myself to him as he gave himself to me, I was holding something back” (Baldwin, 78). David knows his true feeling towards Giovanni and knows who he really is, but his fear of being a stereotype keeps him from fully committing. David lives in constant fear and shame for feeling the way he does, and this is keeping him from being

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Diversity or rather, the lack of understanding diversity may be one of the most prevalent issues in the world today. Though the World Wide Web has bridged the cultural gap some, it will never fully or accurately reveal the truth simply because it is difficult to fully understand cultural meanings from an outsider’s perspective. Before the internet, careers in anthropology and similar fields made information available through ethnographic readings and studies. A key inquiry anthropologists seek to answer is the distinction between and role of sex, gender, and sexuality within each separate culture. Y The Last Man and other ethnographic texts connect culture, its language, and the formation of gender, sex, and sexuality roles in any given

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When I read the chapter heading, I didn 't really know what to expect. I knew it was going to discuss gender and sexuality, but didn 't realize it would dig deeper into different perspectives of gender identity, theories behind gender inequality, and homosexuality. In the closing comments, a review of the chapter, it mentions being able to see cultural and environmental influences from a sociological perspective. I believe this whole chapter of gender and sexuality can be summed up by that comment. Besides historical events and stereotypes, gender and sexuality is heavily influenced by different cultures and the environment. The environment includes sexual and gender crimes, poverty, and health. Culture includes language, family history, and influence from the media. This chapter did so much more than just discuss gender and sexuality, It also created new perspectives and ideas.

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