The love and effort that you put into a single person or a dream, a desire, will not last forever, it will change shapes, sizes and manifestations and sometimes it turns into something we end up dreading. In F. Scott Fitzgerald’s novel, The Great Gatsby, our mysterious, yet gorgeous hopeless romantic and portrayer of the rags-to-riches ideal, Jay Gatsby, is haunted by the desire he has for his true love, Daisy Buchanan. Gatsby dreams of a future, ‘a happily ever after’ with her, a married woman. Towards the end of the of the novel, his is love for her is yet again being compared and challenged to that brute of a man, Tom Buchanan, Daisy’s husband, by Daisy herself. Their abrupt confession of love in front of the brute spirals out of control …show more content…
So, after putting his life on the line, he came back home to a new sort of desire, his want for Daisy. This new sort of desire did not bring an unhealthy want, but that overbearing longing for Daisy to see him as an equal, something that he thought she would want. “He hadn’t ceased looking at Daisy, and I think he revalued everything in his house according to the measure of response it drew from her well-loved eyes. Sometimes, too, he stared around at his possessions in a dazed way, as though in her actual and astounding presence none of it was any longer real. Once he nearly toppled down a flight of stairs” (Fitzgerald 91). When one falls in love with another, it is obvious to see the sudden changes in one’s behaviour. It’s common that people will change according to their lovers preferences and wants. Although, Gatsby takes that to a whole other level. What he has accomplished through hard work and long hours don’t seem as valuable than the woman that is standing at his side, but he also believes that through his new found riches and possessions she will grow to love him more. He is also willing to give up everything for the probability of her loving him back and that probability is what leads Gatsby to his …show more content…
He dreamt of getting out of his hometown and living a life fit for a king. That dream was one he could accomplish. Although, he had to do some illegal and schemish things, he got what he wanted. What he didn’t know was that he was going to have to face a dream he constantly had to jump over walls to obtain. Daisy, a whirlwind of love and passion, the one who dictated every crevice of his mind and heart, the girl who gave him hope. The hope that was now turning into a fairytale. “He wouldn’t consider it. He couldn’t possibly leave Daisy until he knew what she was going to do. He was clutching at some last hope and I couldn’t bear to shake him free” (Fitzgerald 143). The love Daisy gave to Gatsby became the backbone of the man’s existence, something he depended on. The same love that deceived him and little by little diminished the man completely. It clung to him like the secrets of others clung to Nick. He could not break free of what was no more. The same love and hope that he couldn’t seem to hold close or let go of. He fell into her trap knowingly once and hasn’t been able to get out since. “His heart beat faster and faster as Daisy’s white face came up to his own. He knew that when he kissed this girl, and forever wed his unutterable visions to her perishable breath, his mind would never romp again like the mind of God...At his lips’ touch she blossomed for him like a flower and the incarnation
That was what I admired most about Gatsby, his capacity for hope. He was so hopeful in his relationship with Daisy that he constructed his entire life around her. He threw these elaborate parties in hope that she would come to one, and he bought a mansion right across from her house, in hope that she would notice him. Gatsby had a romantic readiness that one could not possibly miss. This hope is what made Gatsby so great but it is, in fact, what brought him to his death. I have never met anyone with such an extraordinary gift, and it is likely I shall never
In the beginning of their love story, Daisy’s beauty captures Gatsby’s attention. “The officer looked at Daisy while she was speaking, in a way that every young girl wants to be looked at some time, and because it seemed romantic to me I have remembered the incident ever since” (Fitzgerald 75). Gatsby’s clear captivation is even obvious to Jordan Baker, who does not know him at that time. The fact that a complete stranger notices this about Gatsby emphasizes a blatant desire for Daisy. Though the war calls Gatsby away immediately after meeting the bright eyed woman, the young man in love does everything in his power to return home as a successful hero. “He did extraordinarily well in the war. He was a captain before he went to the front…” (Fitzgerald 150). Gatsby goes to war with one thing on his mind: Daisy. His motivation throughout the war is not for survival so that he can return home to Daisy, but is for impressing Daisy in attempt to earn her affection. No matter Gatsby’s attempt, his success in the war does not come quick enough for him
His endearment for Daisy is intertwined with lust and wealth, meaning that Gatsby would be one step closer to the yearning lifestyle of prosperity if he has her. It is identifiable that Daisy’s selection on her men is solely based on their level of wealth since she is mainly drawn to this quality. From this, we can see that Gatsby is chasing after an unattainable dream that will leave him with nothing but
Gatsby was chasing a dream that kept constantly drifting away. It’s said that if you are to love something, let it go, and if it comes back it’s always been yours, but if it doesn’t… it never was. Gatsby was breaking rules, going behind Daisy’s husbands back, doing anything in his power trying to be with her. Forgetting his morals, and remembering his power, Gatsby found himself to be
Love is seen to be very tricky,and many people have different interpretations,values,and wants. In Gatsby there are a few relationships that really make you question if the love was there, who loved who, and what the values of each individual's wants. Gatsby, and Daisy had been lovers in the past,and were later in life reunited with their love for one another remaining strong. Daisy however had married,and had a kid with a guy by the name of Tom. Tom also hides something as he has an affair with a women named Myrtle. It really is a book with lots of twist, and turns…
In “The Great Gatsby,” written by Scott Fitzgerald, Tom Buchanan and Jay Gatsby are two characters that struggle with the idea of losing their shared love interest, Daisy. Tom and Gatsby’s attachment to Daisy is differently justified due to their contrasting views, personalities, attitudes, actions, backgrounds, and other factors, some of which they do share and concur in. Fitzgerald did a great thing here. He created two purposefully different characters- one that is easily despised, the other that although not perfect, is likable- and united them in their love for money, the power that comes with it , and their haunt for the ultimate prize – Daisy. In this essay,
Returning back to Gatsby, the character of Daisy Buchanan, ironically the love interest of Jay Gatsby and the main driving force for his seeking friendship with the main character, plays greatly on struggling to maintain her life’s own safety. Differing from Gatsby, Mrs. Buchanan grew up affluent and well off with a myriad of suitors waiting for her. Fate pushed her to Jay Gatsby, and the two were in love built on a lie due to Gatsby suggesting he was already wealthy to begin with. Once war had come, and called for Gatsby, Daisy was left alone to wait for him and live her life with someone she was truly infatuated with. However, in fear of losing her comfy and familiar lifestyle or growing past a suitable age for marriage while waiting for her beloved, she decided that the idea of marrying herself off to another man in order to keep a secure life within in her grasps was more appealing and prosperous for her in the long run. For those who hold the prospect of love close to their hearts or minds, her decisions are especially egregious. For Daisy, love was not worth having if not also living the way she was already accustomed to. For the sense of safety in life took priority over happiness in love; for some, a good life and true love cannot exist on the same field- at least, not without a battle
Love comes in many different forms but The Great Gatsby focuses mainly on the romantic type of love. Fitzgerald uses the 1920’s to create a story about scandal and wealth, a time period in which the world was changing dramatically and women were attempting to change their roles in society. Jay Gatsby was a wealthy man, despite America’s economic downturn after the war. Gatsby owned “a colossal affair by any standard… with a tower on one side, spanking new under a thin beard of raw ivy, and a marble swimming pool, and more than forty acres of lawn and garden”(9). Gatsby uses his riches in hopes that it would reignite the flame between his love Daisy and he “bought the house so that Daisy would just be across the bay”(83).
Gatsby believes money is the ways to gain any object in life even another person’s love. When Gatsby comes back from the war, he spends his time gaining a wealthy lifestyle to buy Daisy’s love back. Daisy’s love is seen as an object with a price that can be bought. “It excited him, too, that many men had already loved Daisy — it increased her value in his eyes”(149). The value of Daisy is a price to Gatsby, and he values the wealth and status to be able to obtain Daisy’s love. Gatsby will never be able to obtain her love because she
Love is often a feeling misattributed to a variety of other emotions and circumstances. In the novel The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald, the relationship between Daisy and Jay is often mistaken for a compelling love story. While the feelings that Jay Gatsby has for Daisy Buchanan could be classified as love, he loves her as facet of his idealistic image rather than as a person. Daisy Buchanan is not admired for her individual being, but rather as a part of a larger fantasy that involves money, power, and a high level of sophistication. When Gatsby aims to possess Daisy in addition to his money and fame, he is striving to be the kind of man who would attract a woman
A common motto is in today’s society is ¨love conquers all¨ but love is also blinding. Love can cloud judgments and leads to unwanted trouble that could have been avoided. The novel The Great Gatsby, by F. Scott Fitzgerald, has many themes, but the one that was really hit on was love. A topic that is greatly debated within the plot of the novel is whether this novel is really a love story or just a tragic case of chasing a dream with your former lover. Jay Gatsby, the novel’s main character, had the drive to achieve the American Dream that ended up corrupting his morals and costing his life. Gatsby had an astonishing commitment to Daisy Buchanan, the former lover, when many years have gone by, but the way he handles meeting her and seeing her throughout the book is unhealthy. As well as Gatsby's impulsive drive and hyper-ambition have been well demonstrated outside his relationship with Daisy.
When a person’s greatest hope does not come true, it can not only leave them stuck and unsure what to do with their lives, but cause emotional damage as well. Putting all the eggs in one basket means that if the person loses the basket, he or she loses everything they essentially live for as well. Obviously, this leaves him or her in the lowest depths of despair. In The Great Gatsby, Fitzgerald once again uses the relationship between Gatsby and Daisy, this time to demonstrate how much hurt a broken dream can cause. Within the first hours of being reunited with his former love, Gatsby begins to suspect that the situation will not fall perfectly into place the way he imagined. Nick, after attending this awkward reunion, reflects, “There must have been moments even that afternoon when Daisy tumbled short of his dreams -- not through her own fault, but because of the colossal vitality of his illusion. It had gone beyond her, beyond everything... No amount of fire or freshness can challenge what a man will store up in his ghostly heart” (103). Although Daisy still appears as beautiful and charming as ever, Gatsby’s false image of her after several lonely years expands so much larger than life that the real Daisy plainly disappoints Gatsby. Fitzgerald strongly warns against the pitfalls of hope - once a person fixates on an idea, such as Gatsby did, reality cannot compete with the power the idea has over the person, leading to a delusional and unsatisfactory life in actuality.
The pursuit of love may seem virtuous to many, but sometimes that may not be the case. In F. Scott Fitzgerald’s novel, The Great Gatsby, Fitzgerald is able to show through Nick, the narrator, how Jay Gatsby, the main character, is able to use his facade to portray himself as a wealthy and educated man to gain the attention of Daisy Buchanan, the love of his life. Unfortunately, this facade that Gatsby has presented himself as presents consequences for himself and other characters in the story. Fitzgerald wanted to present Jay Gatsby as this facade driven character to warn audiences to always be genuine and honest to not only others but oneself.
Only Gatsby seems capable of lasting love—his love for Daisy is unshaken till the end. Yet this love is unrealistic—based not only on a relationship started on a lie, but also needing a turning back of time to make it complete. At times even Gatsby himself seems to realize that the reality is not as good as his dream has been.
Scott Fitzgerald introduces Daisy’s unhappiness when she marries her husband for money instead of marrying for true love. Daisy, growing up as a “southern belle,” was taught to marry what would help her social status. She never knew the meaning of true love until she met Jay Gatsby. While married to Tom, Daisy put the idea in her head that she had everything she had ever wanted. She has a beautiful home, a grand amount of money, and a husband. However, her relationship is anything but perfect, especially because “Tom’s got some woman in New York” (15). Daisy is completely aware of her husband’s affair, yet cannot do anything about it because if she were to divorce Tom, she would not have anything left and would lose her money. Daisy comes to the realization she married for money and not for love when reunited with Gatsby. While inside Gatsby’s house, Daisy begins to weep because “(Daisy has) never seen such—such beautiful shirts before” (92). If she had married Jay Gatsby her life would have been filled with both money and love. The money would not matter to her because she would be with the love of her life. Daisy was on a path to discover the perfect man and the American dream, however, corrupted herself and her ideals along the