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This Phenomenon Called Love

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The Phenomenon Called Love What is love? Love is a deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness (Dictionary). But there are different types of love, and attitudes associated with it and commitment. Using William Shakespeare's, A Midsummer Night's Dream, this document will illustrate demonstrations with the intention of proving the aspects of love and how both genders react to it. In this piece the topics that will be covered are when two individuals fall in love, their style of loving, the prototypes of love and commitment, attitudes and behaviors associated with love, romantic love and adrenaline: …show more content…

Therefore be out of hope, of question, of doubt.
Be certain, nothing truer, ‘tis no jest
That I do hate thee and love Helena.
Hermia: O me! To Helena. You juggler, you
Canker blossom,
You thief of love! What, have you come by night
And stol'n my love's heart from him? (Shakespeare 3.2. 279-285)
Seeing the man that had claimed his love for her, insult and disrespect her for Helena probably scarred Hermia, and maybe she might question his love for her in the future, but then again she might let it be in the past. But that proves situations like that can affect relationships and love. Attitudes and behaviors associated with love are the features individuals use to express their feelings to one another. The most important feature is caring, then comes trust, needing each other, and toleration ( Rubin as qtd. in Devault 127). Studying behaviors that express love, Swensen discovered romantic love is shown in many different ways by expressing affection, self disclosing such as opening up to the other, giving non-materialistic evidence, expressing non verbal feelings, giving material evidence, body language, and toleration. In A Midsummer Night's Dream, Hermia and Lysander are in love, to express his love for her he exchanged gifts and sang to her. Hermia's father did not approve of it, denied Lysander's proposal to his daughter and accepted Demetrius's insisted:
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