As far as memories go, I only consider very few to be of significance in my short life that I’ve lived, and even fewer I would find have inspired change in my life. Consequently, I believe the people around us influence the decisions we make and perhaps the life that we live with any changes to it that we make. Groucho Marx said “Man does not control his own fate. The women in his life do that for him.” Due that the fact that I believe this quote to be true I chose my first memory of a now very close friend of mine, Amara. She had the goofiest and most outgoing character of any one I had met. I knew she was completely opposite of me and I loved it. I'll always remember her for her personality but she had so much more than that. Amara was …show more content…
I was stuck sitting and sweating at the theater for at least a half an hour for fear of not knowing where the it may be. Luckily I had a Gamin GPS, unfortunately the dominant male in me wouldn’t accept the directions from the robot like voice shouting at me while I drove with my fresh license in pocket through crowded streets in southern Ohio. Keep in mind I come from a small town where I may not see more than five cars on my road all day. Eventually Amara made it there with her friend Myah, a very small cheerleader that always seemed to be relatively mad about something, and Myah's dad. He was a tall and quite frightening black man but had a sense of humor that was similar to mine. The jokes soon set me at ease but my female company made me sweat more than the heat itself. This of course was an internal sweat but I could feel it showing through my skin as if I were illuminated by a red spotlight of some sort. After some short complications with the age restrictions inside at the front desk we entered the theater to watch Fright Night, a remake of a movie I can only assume was popular a few years before my time. The grizzly nature of the movie definitely didn’t make date material so I wanted to turn attention away from the movie and engaged in conversation as well as playful gestures. I was successful or at least as successful as any teenage boy can hope for being with such an
saw her as being a determined individual that knew what she wanted. Everyone saw the same
Mi Vida Loca means “my crazy life (as a girl).” The movie documents the phenomenon of female gangs in the early nineties in Los Angeles. It is written and directed by Allison Anders, who grew up in Los Angeles and went to UCLA. She uses personal experiences to help influence her story writing. In Echo Park, a group of young Mexican-Americans show what it means to live in the inner city. The film looks at gang lifestyle from a woman’s point of view to uncover relationships, conflicts, gang loyalty, and identity. The “homegirls” portray their female friendships through their daily lives of survival in Echo Park. It is a rough life with almost every “homegirl” having a baby by the time they are twenty-one and almost every
After I read this book, Bewteen The World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates, I was left in a state of awe. This novel was an experience that I am grateful to have had. Between The World and Me is a phenomenal letter to Samori Coates, the teenage son of the author. This book tells the story of a young man growing up in a completely different world than I am growing up in even though Ta-Nehisi Coates grew up in America. This story provides a detailed insight into what it is like to grow up and live in America as an African- American male. It illustrates what it is like to go to school, play in the streets, work in a job, live in a city, and how society views you, as a black person living in the United States.
The book Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates is about the constant threat and fear Africa Americans live through every day. We were born and raised with this fear and we have accepted that we must adapt to the social norms and expectations of black people whether that is in your home town, in the work place, or in the presence of a police officer. Coates explains how race was birth from racism and not the other way around. Race would not exist if not for racism because people can only say they are black because they are treated as such and the same for other races in the world. The experiences that Coates illustrates in this book is eerily similar to the things millions of black people around the world have also experienced including myself.
“If a man hasn’t discovered something he will die for, then he hasn’t got a reason to live.” These were famous words of the late Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., spoken June 23, 1963 in Detroit, Michigan.
Florian Henckel von Donnersmarck’s film The Lives of Other’s (2005) is set in East Berlin during the socialist reign from November 1984, up until the fall of the Berlin wall in 1989. The political context plays a significance role not only in the film’s subject matter but also in its cinematography, which exploits the voyeuristic tendencies of the audience, reflecting the surveillance of the Stasi Secret Police officers. The film follows a loyal socialist and playwright, Georg Dreyman who becomes subject (along with actor girlfriend Christa-Maria Sieland) to extensive Stasi surveillance due to his association with subversive artists such as Paul Hauser and Albert Jerska. Hauptman Gerd Weisler is the accomplished Stasi officer assigned to
For me, the information about how there is more genetic variation within a 'race ' than between them will have a lasting impact on me. I have always been very aware of my racial identity and how it defines me and to a heightened degree especially in the past few years. I believed that people could be categorized based on key physical characteristics, and I never really questioned that belief. But knowing now that race has no biologic foundation and that there is more variation within races than between them has changed my life. I feel somehow closer to everyone and less of an outsider knowing that I could and probably do have more biologically in common with someone of a different 'race '. And even though race is highly relevant in society, I personally feel less pressured to state race as a part of my identity. But now I know that in the future I can feel more comfortable and confident in myself.
Influence is defined as "the power to change or affect someone or something" by Merriam-Webster online. No matter how big or how small an influence is, it has the power to change the world for better or worse. In my lifetime, I have been influenced by many experiences and people. Life is a constant change because of influences. 4-H and my mom are the most dominant influences in my life that push me towards pursuing a college education.
Most people have impacted my life, but one person particularly has impacted my life greatly. My granddad was the person that has impacted my life ever since I was born. Even though my grandpa has been dead for 10 years going on 11 he still impacts my life daily. Since we had a close relationship I always knew when he is around even though he is gone. He would have inspired me in ways that most people never didn’t. I miss him plenty, but luckily his spirit is still with us no matter what happens.
The three things that have made the biggest impact on and have influenced my life that shaped me into the person I am today are family background, experiences from my school year, and religious beliefs. Our culture provides a lens through which we view the world and interpret our everyday experiences. In order to know who I am today, I must look at who you’ve been. Many educators around the country are interested in developing a multicultural approach in their teaching. They find themselves in classrooms with 25 children of varying racial and cultural backgrounds, and are looking for ways to connect what they do in the classroom to the cultures represented by their students. Before we can begin to understand others, however, we need to understand ourselves and what we bring to our interactions with others.
Whether or not a person admits it, everyone on the planet has the desire to be remembered. They want to leave an impression on the people around them and leave those people with fond memories of who they were and what they did. For me, the idea of making an impact on someone’s life was my ultimate goal. However, it took me a while to discover how exactly that goal would be achieved.
One's dream and aspirations to supersede in life must be stronger and greater than limitations set forth by others. The experience that were bestowed to me during my short life has elevated me to the woman I am today. Please walk with me as I give you the opportunity to see the world from my eyes:
My life has been a crazy roller coaster with many events that have affected my life all in different ways. There have been times where my life has been at its highest peak in the world then it falls down, right into a deep valley. From the time my lovable younger sister came into my life to when my grandpa had a near death experience, I have learned many valuable lessons through the rough times as well as the more happy times. When I was a young girl, my mom had always told me the same thing over and over again. I never really thought about how a few words would have a deep effect on me in a short amount of time.
This explains the beginning of my life all the way to the end of my life. My life from the beginning was very fun as I grew up living with my mom’s friend and my friend. But there were a lot of fights and I was very hyper back then. I have ADHD so back then when I was little; I was very hyper and wouldn't stop moving around the place. I always was annoying back then and never seemed to get my homework done at school.
As a very small child I don’t remember too much, but the things that I do remember were seen through a child’s eyes that has made me the person that I am today and I will always have those memory’s with me until my last breath on this earth. In this essay I intend to show how my childhood and adult life to this point has influenced my life, my journey. By utilizing the adult development theories from this class I also intend on showing how they relate to my Life experiences and where I am today as an Adult student.