"All happy families resemble one another ; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way" (Leo Tolstoy). Unlike joyful families you'd habitually recognize, you'd be astounded to realize my family is notoriously unhappy. The fact being, we have witnessed tragedies and have been driven to despair. As a result, these horrific, scarring experiences have made me resilient nonetheless indomitable.
To initiate, there were three traumatizing encounters in which case motivated me to become resilient. For instance, I'm a love child raised by a single parent (my mother) for thirteen years. My father abandoned me the day before my fifth birthday, I haven't seen or heard from him since then. Although, I was in fragile devastation, my mother alleviated
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To emphasize, she has been prolonged in a hospital for over two months due to critical conditions of her sickness. Though it was excruciating I visited her as much as I was permitted. I knew I had a minimum amount of time to spend with her so I made every possible second count. It was exactly one week and three days before Christmas day when she passed. I planned to give her her present the day of Christmas but was unfortunately unable to. I was in extreme agonizing pain and for this reason I became detached from myself and the world for a half a year, but I knew I couldn't stay this way for the rest of my life so I strived to cope with these traumatizing obstacles which eventually led to become resilient.
As has been noted, my resilience has proven that I am able to modify laborious obstructions through triumph. Even though I've had a few barriers such as abandonment and deaths in the family, they've made a significant impact in my life and have created the person I am right now. Many say I'm a preeminent person, others assume I'm an affect-less person, however I'm neither. I'm just an eighteen year old girl with an execrable
My childhood was split over two different and unique cultures. This special upbringing presented me with challenges that lead me to continually reflect on my life and identity throughout my childhood. I had to adapt to different educational systems as my family moved back and forth between Syria and the United States. However, that only motivated me to work harder and seize the opportunities that surrounded me at every point of my life. I learned to treat obstacles and hardships as chances for growth and development.
Since my younger years I have been compelled to differentiate between enduring and overcoming. From my parent’s divorce, our financial instability and my multiple social dislocations, I had to learn to adapt to ever-changing environments and circumstances. Before my grandfather died he shared with me one of his favorite quotes and one that I will never forget, which says that, “the key to life is found by
After reading the article, “Where There’s a Will, There’s a Way”, by Anna Harrington, I have a better understanding of resilience and how it affects my well-being. Resilience is best described as an attribute that allows me to overcome negative situations in a stronger more knowledgeable manner (Harrington, 2012). If I face these negative situations with positive emotions, strong spiritual principles, and a healthier body I should be able to live “a happier, more fulfilled life”(Harrington, 2012, pg.30). Harrington goes on to say that if I implement these characteristics into my lifestyle, I could experience social benefits, in addition to a more substantial family life (2012). I do strongly believe, that if I keep God first and maintain a resilient demeanor, anything could be obtainable in regards to my family life, my career, and even my education at Bethel.
Traumatizing events are happening all over the world, and are being caused by pitiless gang
Often times in life, people have derived strength from their family and loved ones to help them endure tough times. When facing an obstacle, people have thought about the people they cared about to overcome whatever stood in their way. People have withstood hardship knowing that when it was over, they would have people who loved them to come back to. Memories of special friends or family members have helped individuals find bravery in grim situations. Sometimes, even if people did not wish to go through hard times for their own sake, they would face hard times for their family’s sake. In All the Light We Cannot See, Anthony Doerr proved family and relationships built with people bring about strength that helps people prevail even through the toughest of times.
Over the years I have received numerous medals and awards for outstanding athletic and academic achievement. Yet, I believe that my most meaningful accomplishment is something completely different: my resilience. Coming from a socially, economically and educationally disadvantaged background I have had to overcome hurdles that many
Receiving blunt trauma to the head is a very a dangerous situation and can often lead to critical conditions and death. This essay will be taking an in depth look at a patient who has received trauma and their possible outcome. Utilizing knowledge of mechanisms and patterns of injury, vital signs and patient presentation, a diagnosis of the patient’s condition will be made. Once diagnosed, the pathophysiology of the condition will be explained and also possible injuries from this condition will be explored.
Personal Reflection Paper As this writer writes this paper, the thought that is pondered is whether this writer has ever experienced invidious comparison or vicarious traumatization. Invidious comparison is when someone compares themselves to others by sex, race, religion, or class. This can cause depression and stress, and also make a person feel less about themselves and the individual(s) they are comparing themselves to (University of Phoenix, 2014). People may not readily admit it, but this writer believes that at one point or another in everyone’s life, they secretly compare themselves to someone else.
The family of Anamalia has undergone both physical and psychological trauma as can be seen in the case study. Eloni and Kolomalu have both faced physical trauma. The short-term effects include the injuries that Kolomalu may get from the physical abuse of Eloni as well as injuries that Eloni faced from his stepfather’s abuse. The long-term effects of physical trauma, according to Brand et al. (2017), may include drug and substance use as can be seen in the case of Eloni. On the other hand, anger outbursts and detaching emotions from actions and thoughts may also be experienced. In the case of Eloni, he already
I never expected anyone to be this heartbroken over my death. Here I was 15 year old boy named Andy Hollows. My death was tragic, Leukemia is never easy to deal with. I was currently watching my mom wrap Christmas presents for my younger sibling. This is their first Christmas without me and I wasn’t too happy with my dad acting like a Grinch this time of the year in this exact situation. Lord knows my mom did not need it, nobody did in fact they were depressed, heartbroken, lost, and dull. I was always the one to cheer them up when they were sad, help Mom decorate for christmas, and help my younger sister, Ann pick out a ugly Christmas sweater to wear. I was interrupted out of my dark and useless thoughts by the door bell ringing.
Psychologists define trauma as a deeply disturbing or upsetting event. But what is the fine line that separates an upsetting event from a traumatic one? This paper will help give a more in depth look into what can cause a traumatic event, understanding post-traumatic stress disorder and all the branches of mental illness that can occur, and every need to know basis on proper ways of coping and acceptance in order to recover. Through various methods of healthy coping, even and the compassion and support of family members and friends it is possible to mentally overcome a traumatic experience.
Who would have thought that an innocent trip to the mall would cause me to have such a traumatizing experience, getting lost! It began on a sunny day, my mother decided that she would take my siblings and I to the mall to look around. As we strolled around the crowded mall, we advanced to the toy store. Rummaging through the toy filled Isles, a brand new toy caught my eye. As I began to examine it, I noticed my mom had vanished! I frantically looked for her, sprinting down the mall. A woman just so happened to spot me alone and grabbed my hand, heading towards the exit door! Not long after she took my hand, my mom saw me a started shouting my name. I ran to her as quick as my legs could carry me and leaped into her arms! After that day I never
"You have the instincts to survive, you have the instincts to be protective over family and friends. " (D. Lemmon Interview). I grew up with a single mom and two older brothers, so you can imagine that I picked up a few things from them. For example, No matter what I was feeling or what I was going through, it was clear in my mind that some way, some how I had to survive and think things through. For instance, I was 13 and I was bullied really bad to the point of where I felt my life didn 't matter. However, there was this voice in my head, I don 't know if it was God or my own conscious telling me not to quit, but to keep going and that there is reason behind this obstacle. In spite of what I went through, it changed me for the better, most importantly it made me realize that some battles are worth fighting because in the end I turned out completely different and it shaped the person I am today. Because of the things I 've witnessed, it made me protective of my family and friends, it also made me slow down and think before I take action. It became part of nature to be a survivor, so that I can be living proof that any challenge can be conquered once you put your mind to it.
Thank you for your essay. I agree that many of us endure a traumatic experience that leave an invisible scar. I also agree it is very possible that one becomes an addict while on their quest to find something to ease the pain experienced earlier in life. It is not always easy to yield our lives to the Holy Spirit and allow Christ to have full control over painful area. I agree it is critical to lean on Christ when dealing with dark areas because it is in one's weakness that Christ strength is manifested. When it pertains to allowing Christ to deal with our weaknesses I am reminded of 2 Corinthians 12:9 but he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about
Happiness and tragedy are entirely perception-based. I realize I have not had the easiest run in life and have hurdled more than some will ever need to. With trauma and loss, however, I see the light. I see how my desire to run from the abuse formed my strong work ethic and motivation for a great life.