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Traumatizing Encounters

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"All happy families resemble one another ; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way" (Leo Tolstoy). Unlike joyful families you'd habitually recognize, you'd be astounded to realize my family is notoriously unhappy. The fact being, we have witnessed tragedies and have been driven to despair. As a result, these horrific, scarring experiences have made me resilient nonetheless indomitable.

To initiate, there were three traumatizing encounters in which case motivated me to become resilient. For instance, I'm a love child raised by a single parent (my mother) for thirteen years. My father abandoned me the day before my fifth birthday, I haven't seen or heard from him since then. Although, I was in fragile devastation, my mother alleviated …show more content…

To emphasize, she has been prolonged in a hospital for over two months due to critical conditions of her sickness. Though it was excruciating I visited her as much as I was permitted. I knew I had a minimum amount of time to spend with her so I made every possible second count. It was exactly one week and three days before Christmas day when she passed. I planned to give her her present the day of Christmas but was unfortunately unable to. I was in extreme agonizing pain and for this reason I became detached from myself and the world for a half a year, but I knew I couldn't stay this way for the rest of my life so I strived to cope with these traumatizing obstacles which eventually led to become resilient.

As has been noted, my resilience has proven that I am able to modify laborious obstructions through triumph. Even though I've had a few barriers such as abandonment and deaths in the family, they've made a significant impact in my life and have created the person I am right now. Many say I'm a preeminent person, others assume I'm an affect-less person, however I'm neither. I'm just an eighteen year old girl with an execrable

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