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Two Ways To Belong In America Summary

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Finding where belongs in society can be difficult. We search for a place that we can belong too. Identity is what makes a person who they are. Knowing who you are can give purpose to life. Identity can come from your culture that you grew up with, the languages you speak, music you listen to or anything that you participate in that makes you feel like yourself. In “Two Ways to Belong in America” by Bharati Mukherjee, the struggle to find an identity is shown through the author and her sister as they are immigrants trying to maintain their culture, when America is telling them to only identify as American. In “The Myth of the Latin Woman: I Just Met a Girl Named Maria” by Judith Ortiz Cofer, fights to maintain pride in her identity in a society …show more content…

While Mukherjee decided to embrace the new American culture, her sister decided to stick to her Indian roots. Mukherjee struggles to try and find where she belongs because she is always changing for others rather than for herself. Encountering differences is something she dealt with on her journey of creating her identity, she states, “Nearly 20 years ago, when I was living in my husband’s ancestral homeland of Canada, I was always well-employed but never allowed to feel part of the local Quebec or larger Canadian society” (Mukherjee 293). While changing herself to conform for others, we can all take a lesson from Mukherjee. In life, we go through many changes because we are growing up, becoming more mature, and finding things we like or dislike. We tend to change because of the people we surround ourselves with, like friends or coworkers in order to be accepted. However, she did not seem happy to be forced into a position where she had to conform to the way people would talk to her all for the sake of her husband. This takes away from building and developing one’s own identity because it does not represent who you really are. In society, we are sort of growing away from that in a sense people are taking pride in their identities. For instance, immigrants, women, and races are all

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