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What Makes A Good?

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Everything is pretty amazing almost every day and the future looks pretty awesome, too. We are only going to get wiser and our lives will get better. We’ll help to change some lives and organizations for the better and we will be successful in our careers and be able to retire and live somewhere beautiful. Of course, there will be a few bumps along the way to keep us from getting complacent. Just more opportunities to get better! Does this sound crazy to you? Look back over your life and history; more often than not things turn out pretty great. Yet, most of us don 't believe it. We usually go the opposite direction. One of the problems with being a knowing and reasoned person is that you 've probably become very good at seeing what will likely go wrong. You see inherent risks and are even paid to help your peers and clients see the things that could go wrong. Fear-mongering often appears to make you sound smart, and fearful people get a strange sort of reassurance by rallying behind a fear dealing leader, and confidently predicting the worst possible outcome. These leaders then puff out their chest and let everyone know how they, “told you so,” when their self-fulfilling prophecy is realized. On the individual level, change may cause stress, which in turn negatively impacts health, then causes more stress. It 's a miserable cycle. Now, let’s contrast the life of this stressed person to the fate of someone who makes their own luck. You probably know at least one person

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