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Catullus And Lesbia Relationship

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Option 2: Catullus and Lesbia’s Relationship
Introduction
Lesbia is the subject of Catullus’s most passionate and seemingly sincere poems. The relationship between Catullus and Lesbia is tumultuous to say the least. His poems about Lesbia and their relationship display a wide range of emotions which change from a relationship of tenderness and love, to one of uncertainty, to one of sorrow and disappointment. They rapidly fall in and out of love with another. Their affections for one another are fickle and constantly changing. They have a mercurial kind of love. Catullus obviously loved Lesbia deeply, but he also feels intense dislike, disappointment and contempt towards her. Through it all, it seems as though Catullus longs for Lesbia, but …show more content…

However, she is not yet named at this point nor is she the addressee of the poem. The sparrow in this poem is a vehicle for telling us about Lesbia and Catullus’s relationship. This poem has subtle sexual undertones, like most of Catullus’s poems involving Lesbia. What is distinctive about Catullus and Lesbia’s relationship compared to Catullus’s other relationships is that he uses subtle erotic language ("a thousand kisses"), in his poems about Lesbia compared with other poems of aggressive themes of penetration in which explicit language is used. This seems to be a case of unrequited love and desire. Catullus has feelings for Lesbia, but she doesn’t have feelings for him at this point. There seems to be a love triangle between Catullus, Lesbia and the sparrow. However, the sparrow plays a passive role. Lesbia interacts with the sparrow by coaxing and teasing it. Catullus is jealous of the sparrow, he wishes to be the sparrow on Lesbia’s lap as she is loving and affectionate towards it. He wishes he could be with her and play with her like she does with the sparrow. He is jealous of the sparrow because the sparrow is receiving Lesbia’s affections. What is unusual about Catullus and Lesbia’s relationship is that Catullus casts himself, and not Lesbia, as the virgin on the threshold of sexual awakening, signifying a gender-role reversal. This is unusual because during this period in history, men were the dominant ones in the relationship …show more content…

The playful passion of the previous poems about Lesbia has been overturned by the announcement that the relationship is as dead as the sparrow. Neither Lesbia nor Catullus seem to desire one another anymore. Catullus describes the good times they shared together but asserts that he will no longer chase or pine after Lesbia anymore. Catullus seems spiteful towards the end of the poem when he asserts that no other man will love Lesbia like he did. Catullus believes that his relationship with Lesbia was special and that her relationships with other men will never match what they had together. The phrasing in this poem is deliberately simple as if Catullus has taken or the persona of a fool or Lesbia’s plaything, just like her pet sparrow. This is unusual because one again we are seeing Catullus in a submissive role and Lesbia in the dominant role in the relationship. This gender-role reversal is unusual during the period of history they lived in, it is generally the man in the dominant role and the woman in the submissive

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