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Children Are Not Born?

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Children are not born knowing the difference between red and green, nice and mean, cold and hot, or any number of physical or emotional sensations. The natural world is the young child’s first curriculum and can be learned with direct interaction with others. There is no way a young child can learn the difference between being nice and mean, rough and smooth, hot and cold without touching or interacting with others. To better understand how a toddler interacts with others I went to my local day care and observed a group of children for a day. Walking into the room I was automatically met with a group of eyes. In the beginning the children had barely interacted with each other. I had gathered by their physical appearance that most …show more content…

The boy had turned around and said to the girl “You are not playing with the chicken right. That chicken is not a girl it is a boy”. That had caught my attention; I had not even though about gender playing a key role in how kids developed social skills. I had left observing that group and went and saw another group where it was an even number of girls and boys were playing. The play I observed while they were playing was cooperative play, which forces the children to work together in order to achieve a common or mutual goal (Baril & Corneal, 2010). They were trying to build a one hundred piece-puzzle. I had wanted to see if gender had played a factor in how the children interacted with each other. The boys seemed more in control of the situation. Often snatching the pieces from the girls and telling them they were wrong. The boys always seemed to think they were right, even though the girls were usually right. Towards the end though it took the boys and girls to finish the puzzle. Another type of play I saw in the playground when the child was building a sand castle was parallel play. When the group went outside for playtime, even sitting in the sandpit together looks like they are playing together but they were doing their own thing (Baril & Corneal, 2010).

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