My Grandma
Death. Something everyone deals with in their life. It’s the end of your story. People handle death in many different ways, from completely losing it, to it not affecting them at all. For me death hit very hard. I had never experienced the death of a loved one until my Grandpa had past. I was never close with my Grandpa but seeing him in that hospital bed that he wasn’t going to leave really upset me. This was the first death in my family. It was a horrible event but the death that has really affected me to this day was when his wife, my grandma, passed away.
I wake up on a wonderful Saturday morning. It’s the middle of summer and the sun is shining through my window right into my eyes. I wake up and get ready for the day. I
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I’m going to stay at Connors to get my mind off of it. Keep me posted.”
“Okay. I’ll talk to you later.”
When I was told that my Grandma had an aneurism in her brain she told me not to worry about it. She said when it burst it will kill her instantly and she won’t feel a single thing. It’s what she wanted. Sadly, this did not happen. She lived for 5 more day until she passed away.
There was one point after her aneurism burst that she became conscious. She had one thing to say.
“They lied.”
My Grandma always had a very weird sense of humor. When my family heard her say this, we knew that she was still there.
What affected me the most when my Grandma passed was that it happened so abruptly. One weekend I’m playing games with her and planning the next weekend. The next weekend I’m seeing her on her death bed.
I have so many memories of playing games with her but I feel like I never spent enough time with her. I never got to know her how I wish I could have. I wanted to learn more about her childhood and how she met my Grandpa but it’s too late. As a kid, I felt like she would be around forever and when I grow up I will learn more about her. I didn’t know death was so real.
Her passing has helped me realize something. I realized that family will always be there for you but they won’t be here forever. I feel I have not spent enough time with my family and who knows when they could be gone. If I spend time with them now, I won’t feel as bad
My great-grandmother was the matriarch of my family. When I was in seventh grade, around thirteen years old, she passed away due to breast cancer. This misfortune created an extremely difficult time for me because, not only was I adjusting to the environment of junior high, but many other issues were occurring in my life; this was the third death that I was having to deal with. Unfortunately, one of the previous deaths (that I was still trying to hurdle through and come to terms with), had occurred almost exactly a year before the passing of my great-grandmother. The second death that I had gone through occurred only one or two months before my great-grandma has passed. All of this turmoil created numerous internal conflicts for me, but also taught me a key lesson to keep note of, for the rest of my life.
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After a few months had passed, I remember seeing pictures of hanging up at family members houses and just coming across things in my room that she had given to me that always made me tear up and want to just scream and cry. My feelings are pretty much the same today and when I come across things that remind me of her I still tear up, I just remember she is in a better place now. Losing someone who means so much to you can never be easy. Just writing this story made me tear up and just made me remember her more and more. I don’t know what my life would be like today if I did not have her, like I said she was always there for me and when I was a baby, we lived with her because my mom and dad and brother had just moved from Colorado not too long before and were looking at houses so my grandma let us live with her for a while. My hero is my grandma and will always be her no matter
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