Dispute Between Lengel And Sammy's Struggle

When I was a child, I used to believe that the only thing I knew was what my parents told me, and that they couldn’t be wrong. However growing up I found out that not everything was true and that what they were doing was protecting me from harmful things in the world. However the older I get the more I realize that there are many things in the world that I haven’t seen yet. The same goes with Sammy from the short story A&P, when Sammy wants to know more about what's happening in the world.

To begin with, Sammy shows a rude attitude through the story. He indicates little regard for other people’s age or knowledge. To illustrate, Sammy asserts the old aged customer, who reprimands Sammy for scanning her item two times while he is gawking at the girls, is “a witch about fifty … [who] would have burned her over in Salem” (Updike 320). Sammy’s despise toward this old lady—in fact shoppers—is perceptible. Also, when Sammy quits A&P, he talks discourteously to his manager Lengel. The readers soom comes to discover that Lengel is a friend of Sammy’s parents. Lengel attempts persude Sammy from making his rash decision, pointing out that he does not want to do to this to his

Sammy notices how all of the customers also act like sheep, which gets on his nerves.The next paragraph shifts to the next character, Sammy's co-worker, Stokesie. Stokesie is twenty-two, married, and has two children. Even though Stokesie plays a small part in the story, I believe that Updike included this character for a reason. This story isn't only based on calling people "sheep", but also has to do with "change." Change plays an important part in our life. We were all once little kids, small and naive. As a kid, we didn't know any better but to do exactly what we were told. We become prone to following "orders" without knowing whether they are good or bad. Gradually, we become knowledgeable about the difference between "right and wrong." Through experience, we develop into a better person. With knowledge and experience, we learn to excel. However, some people are still stuck in the past because they haven't learned anything. Sammy knows what he wants to do and be. He doesn't want to work at A & P for the rest of his life. Sammy isn't the type of person who would simply follow, he has his own ideas and believes in what he stands up for. Sammy doesn't seem like the guy who would praise Stokesie, and Sammy didn't mention anything positive or negative about Stokesie. Since Stokesie is young

Act Two Then the conflict is right after that, when Lengel notices the three girls standing there to checkout Lengel’s treatment to the girls created some conflict with Sammy: protagonist; however Lengel’s heart was in the right place. Looking out for the town, both males and females, before hormones rage and caused someone to act on a wrong impulse and got someone hurt. Whatever the case may be, Lengel has morals obviously, playing the role of the antagonist and creating obstacles. The rising action I feel like Sammy was more interested in examining and wanting to learn more about Queenie than work, because he couldn’t stay focused. The crisis of act two is when Lengel asks “Sammy, have you rung up

Anne and I share many examples of disrespectful behavior. Some are similar, and some are not so similar. Anne and I both have disrespected adults.

However, she stated that frequently, Mr. Dietrich would insult her. In addition, the mother reported that during arguments the father would, “get in her face.” Mr. Dietrich indicated there were ongoing conflicts between the parents, including argumentative behavior. However, he did not perceive the arguments to be outside the norm of people arguing while in relationships.

Some studies show that factors such as emotions, personal vulnerabilities, personality, and even the context of situations influence how we make decisions. There are also many of the non-rational factors that affect our decisions. In this case study Alice has personal and social concerns in order to make a right decision; If Alice talks with Mr. Stevens about his inappropriate remarks there is a possibility that he gets angry and upset and as a result fires Alice. If Alice talks with Mr. Dobbs, she fails to follow the organizational hierarchy and communication will flaw. In addition, Mr. Stevens and Mr. Dobbs are good friends and may be it won’t help to solve the problem. And finally, if she doesn’t do anything, it may be beneficial for her and save her

Additionally, Sammy spoke of his friend and coworker Stokesie, who was only three years older than him, as if he was just wasting away because he was already married with two kids. He even assumes that Stokesie will conform to working there for the rest of his life and become manager several decades later, in 1990. English professor at Hawaii State University, Catherine Sustana, wrote a literary analysis that explains Sammy’s reaction to Queenie as, “Sammy obviously finds the girls physically alluring, but he's also attracted by their rebellion. He doesn't want to be like the "sheep" he makes such fun of, the customers who are befuddled when the girls enter the store” (Sustana). Later, Sammy decides to stick up for the girls after his boss, Lengel, comes down a little hard on them for making a scene at the store. Sammy ends up quitting his job on the spot for two reasons; he wanted to make a heroic gesture in favor of the girls and he did not want to be like the sheep. Even though he made such a huge leap to not be a conformist and follow the sheep, he seems to have some amount of understanding because he expresses that he is apologetic to his family and that this would end up making his life harder.

From an early age we are taught to respect our parents and elders decisions whether they are right or wrong. In this story, Sarty debates whether or not he

And so there was the inevitable confrontation between the dean and the student ... between the adult and the adolescent ... and it happened in the presence of a few of his friends. It was a showdown that was a miss-match from the outset, but perhaps not by the student. In an uneven setup such as this the student always loses, or so it is perceived. After all, the smart ones realize this disadvantage and back down. Comply; but not him. There was a sudden display of authority ... of power. His look was one of surprise and shock! Eyes glared with anger and disbelief. No words were exchanged. He turned around and left the scene, walking away in a fit of rage. He fled the campus. Home was scores of miles away and I

What transpires next for Sammy is he will peregrinate home to his parents with lamentable news about his job. His parents will be disappointed in him because he made a rash decision without understanding the consequences. Sammy's manager, Lengel, verbally expressed that he did not desire to do this to his mom and dad. Sammy probably utilized this mazuma from working to avail his parents. Now he's going to feel this for the rest of his life; because after having a conversation with his parents, Sammy will go back to the shop and ask for his job back and Lengel will reluct to rehire him. From this point on, Sammy will become homeless because he couldn't contribute to the bills since he bailed on his

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In addition, teenagers often disagree with the consequences or punishments associated with not meeting an adult’s expectations. Arbitrary punishments are immensely disagreeable from the point of view of a teenager because there is no basis for them. In A Separate Peace by John Knowles, Brinker disagrees with his father’s response to one of his decisions and this disagreement was caused by his father wanting him to enroll in the Marines or the Paratroops for World War II, regardless of him wanting to join the Coast Guard. Brinker’s father denounces this and tells his son that “You have to do what you think is the right thing, but just make sure it’s the right thing in the long run, and not just for the moment” (Knowles 199). As a result of this comment, tension is created in accordance to Brinker despising and being angered by his father not supporting his decision about a crucial topic. I can relate to Brinker disagreeing with his father’s response during numerous instances in my own life, including making a cake with my mother and sister when I was little. After we added the eggs to the batter, my mom let me adjust the speed of the mixer and, accidently, I put the mixer on high power. The cake batter splattered everywhere and the kitchen became a huge mess. My mother punished me for being brash, however, I did not understand why I was in trouble as I did nothing intentionally and, thus, I responded in an angrily. Although I was only seven during this experience, my reaction coincides with one of a teenager because I did not think about the reasoning behind my punishment and was angered by it, notwithstanding that it was warranted. Teenagers do not want to be incorrect and despise when grownups enforce their authority on them, so, therefore, they have strong