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Domestic Adoption

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Domestic adoption or domestic nightmare?
Angelina Jolie, Charlize Theron, Madonna, Meg Ryan, and Katherine Heigel. All of these well-known actresses from the United States share a common characteristic, they all chose international adoption to add to, or complete their families. Angelina Jolie and current husband, Brad Pitt have become the “poster parents” for international adoption with the adoption of 3 of their children being adopted internationally. After the adoption of Angelina Jolie’s first son was adopted in 2002 from Cambodia, the international adoption rate in the United States skyrocketed to 22, 991 in 2004 (Intercountry Adoption,1). Whereas, 1995 it was reported that there were only 8,987 adoptions internationally in the United …show more content…

According to Steve Levine, attorney and partner Lane Schikler, a Hebrew school teacher, in regards to ethical issues associated with international adoption, specifically online communications “If it looks like a duck and walks like a duck it’s a duck. If it feels like you’re buying a child, you are buying a child” (Byette). While international adoption had its issues for Samantha and David, Samantha also argues that domestic adoption also has its ethical issues surrounding cost, racial ethics, and the times parents wait to adopt a child. In fact, during the 1960’s 80% of adoptions went through public adoption avenues, meaning the children being adopted were wards of the state (Byette). In addition, the average cost of adoption through these public avenues, was $1,500.00 (Byette). Today most adoptions go through private agencies, ultimately due to the fact that virtually all children in public avenues being classified as special needs (Byette).By contrast the cost of adoption through these private avenues currently could cost potential parents up to $50,000.00 (Byette).Samantha Smith, stated that even though she is a registered RN and her husband works with a university in Biomedical Engineering, the cost of adopting …show more content…

One would assume that private agencies would not make the potential parents wait longer than nine months for a child to be placed in their arms, the same way that birth parents only have to wait nine months for their child. The truth is most families end up waiting years to adopt. If parents are working with ethical agencies there should not have to wait any longer than a year to adopt, with a shorter wait for mixed-race infants (Byette). The problem is that potential parents, as well as the general public are lead to believe that there is a shortage of babies available for adoption (Byette). According to Samantha Smith, private agencies play into this perception, and charge “fees” to potential parents, guaranteeing they will be able to adopt in a certain amount of time, in her case six to nine months was the guarantee (Smith Interview). With so many private agencies handling open adoptions were the birth mother chooses the potential parents of her child, single-parent adopters, and those in same sex relationships or marriages, tend to have to wait even longer. Birth mothers may feel like a single parent is not adequate enough to raise their child, or they may have morality issues with homosexuality. (Breneiser, Cave, Whatley). In addition,

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