From time to time, in your pursuit of doing what you strive to do, there will be roadblocks or obstacles getting in the way of your success. Most people simply give up at that point, stop trying with the excuse of, “it’s not worth it,” or “it’s too hard.” If I had done that and quit at the first few obstacles, I would have never been able to come to the point that I am at today. If I hadn’t had the willpower and grit to do the things that I had done, then I might have still been an amateur swimmer, have barely any friends, and not have advanced as a mathematician. Overall, overcoming your fears, trusting yourself, and having the determination to pass anything in your way will result in a great amount of eminence, success, and contentment. …show more content…
The sets given to us during the two hours made me feel as if my arms and legs had fallen off, but you know the saying, “What is impossible now will one day be your warm-up,*” and that is exactly what happened. I started by simply trying harder and putting more effort in the program which provided minimal benefits. After realizing that this would not be enough, I started dry-land training at home. Dry-land training is basically specific exercises that help tone and make the muscles you use to swim stronger. It also includes agility and speed training. After doing this for quite a while, I realized an enormous increase in my swimming level. I also started being accepted into more teams and had more practice time because of it. I was now almost always the first person in my lane (first person is the fastest out of the lane)during practice. I also noticed that my swim times were profoundly improving by the week. Even though all of these great things were occurring, I would wake up some days, with sore legs, arms, neck, back, and almost every other part of my body. It was strenuous for me to push …show more content…
Of course this provided many new and invigorating experiences, but it also gave me a sense of alienation, or the state of being isolated from an activity or group where one should belong in. Wherever I moved, I would see groups of people who had known each other since kindergarten or first grade and think “How is that possible?” because for me, that was never an option. This constant cycle of making relationships just before having to leave them forever made me a very big introvert. I know you may think that going through this and encountering it many times would make me outgoing and gregarious however that was not true in my case. Always being the “new kid” is not the most pleasing position and to make matters worse, I was usually the youngest one in the grade. Moving to Ridgewood was one of the hardest moves because before I had entered a new school in kindergarten to fourth grade, which was not as hard because you could make a friend by simply sitting next to them on the swings, but in fifth grade, I had thought that everyone was already in their certain clique and didn’t need another member joining them. During the first few months of school, I was the kid in the back who didn’t talk other than
I was a very shy kid. Making friends wasn’t my cup of tea when I was younger. Based on this you can imagine how nervous I was when we moved. Joseph Campbell wrote in The Hero With a Thousand Faces, “It is only when a man tames his own demons that he becomes the king of himself if not of the world.” I was preparing to start school again in August when I decided it would be smart to begin associating with kids my age in the area; so, I began spending time with my cousin Lief. After spending some time with Lief, he introduced me to some of his friends and taught me to how to appreciate
I thought to myself “What if I’m not good enough? What if I dislike it as much as I remember? What will the Lyman Hall kids be like?” These worries only lasted until I opened the front door of the school, because I was greeted by many familiar faces. I shook hands with the captains, Victor Jacome and Robbie Driscoll, whom I had known from my previous swim team. The first practice was very difficult; in years past, I would have considered it to be very mild and easy, but I hadn’t tried to swim in a competitive manner in a very long time, and even after a couple laps, every muscle in my body ached. This was a very foreign feeling to me because I hadn’t felt this way since I first started swimming when I was 10 years old. At the peak of my conditioning when I was around 14 years old, I could swim a full mile, or 66 laps at a competitive pace, without stopping, and I would feel fine. However, like riding a bike, there is muscle memory involved, and after a few more practices swimming started to feel more like I remembered it. Despite this, some things still felt different; I changed a lot in 2 years: I grew from around 5’8 to 6’1 and went from very scrawny to somewhat a normal amount of muscle. These physical changes were beneficial to my swimming of course, and I felt myself traveling farther in the water with each stroke, therefore being more efficient. When swimming
I was quite young then so it didn’t really register to me. “Where we moving to mama?” I questioned. “Centralia baby, put that stuff in those boxes over there” She motioned to the brown rectangular boxes in the corner. And as quickly as the conversation was so was the move. No exaggeration, we left that day with everything we owned. I’m assuming, because we never went back again. Before I knew it, I was walking up the steps into Lincoln 4th grade center. My nicest shirt, and prettiest barrettes. Now being me, I was absolutely dreading the first day, as I am very inadequate under pressure. Which then causes me to be painfully shy. No, I’m not one of those standoffish people that make you feel super awkward when you are around them. Just more in a way of “new beginnings.” Also, as I said before cliques were very much established by then. Having those two odds against me, it was hard to make friends. I don’t remember making any close friends that year. By 5th grade though, there was one girl that I did become quite close with. But
Unlike most kids, I could not be eager to see my old friends again. I was starting secondary school at a high school where I was far away from my grade school friends. This proved to be quite difficult and nerve-wracking because it meant starting all over again. Ever since I was a kid, I have had unusual school transitions. To be more specific, I moved from a school
What I didn’t realize is that everyone is met with failure. After weeks of self evaluation, I finally came to this conclusion. No matter how much I tried to avoid failure, I would, at some point, be met with it repeatedly on multiple occasions. Thinking this, I stumbled upon the revelation that to fear a result that would be so prevalent in my life would be foolish. With the acceptance of failure as a more than probable outcome, I decided to attempt any activities and sports I could possibly sign up for. I was met with both acceptance and failure, but at the end of the day, I discovered more about myself that I had ever known, and learned to grow out of my shell. I realized there were some activities I was truly exceptional at, some I wasn’t so exceptional at, and some I had potential for, if I just put the work and dedication in. I found new hobbies I never knew I desired to participate in,
Some people say good things come to those who wait, but they come quicker with hard work.You may feel like you want to give up but you have to stay determined." I have been begun everything with the idea that I could succeed, and I never had to much patience with the multitudes of people who are always ready to explain why one cant succeed" Booker t. Washington. You have to push yourself and believe you can do it stay determined and focus. No matter who discourages you keep it in your mind you want to succeed. " in order for one to grow to the point where he completely forgets himself; that is, to lose himself in a great cause. In proportion one loses himself in this way, in the same degree does he get the highest happiness out of his work. I believe that hard work and determination are rewarded. However, how hard you work will determine if it comes sooner or
I break out from under water and start swimming the butterfly. At the 50 meter turn, my teammates were all lined up cheering me on. I could hear them screaming “GO”. Them cheering usually doesn't affect how I swim, but it’s always nice to have them supporting me. At the 100 meter mark going into the 100 meters of backstroke, I could already feel the fatigue in my arms and I still have 300 meters left! The backstroke part of the race is my best part of any of my IM’s. It is my best stroke and I have the most confidence in it. I attacked this part of the race, not paying attention to the burning feeling in my legs. I had to set myself up well of the breastroke part of the race, which is my worst stroke. I knew that all I needed to do was survive this part of the race and make up for this weakness in my other strokes. That is why I put so much emphasis on my butterfly and backstroke part of the race, I needed them to make up for the lost time that my breastroke would create. When I turned for my last 100 of freestyle, my whole body felt like it was falling apart. My arms felt like dead weights, my legs burned like hell, and breathing was extremely difficult. But I knew I was having a great race, so I continued to push myself to the limit. Every time I took a breath I could see my coach jumping up and down, flailing her arms to signal to me to that I am doing great. This put more motivation into me to attack the rest of the race.
From kindergarten to my senior year I’ve moved seven times, and have gone to five different schools. Some I only went to for one year and one I went to for seven years. Moving to new schools has made me not as shy and has helped me to learn how to make new friends. I’ve been friends with many people with many different personalities, such as outgoing, shy, awkward, and others.
For a long time, I have lived with fear. It may be cliched to say it, but my fear of failure has been with me for years. It was what caused my hands to shake during a calculus test. It was what caused me to cry when I received my rejection notice from Texas A&M University the first time I applied. In a way it has been a defining feature of my academic career, always a shadow in the back of my mind murmuring the deadly phrase “but can you really do it?”. That small voice has been largely responsible for my reluctance to push myself academically, to actually see what I am capable of. Last semester, my first at Texas A&M, I mustered up enough courage to block out that voice and attempt something I had never done
Although it is a fact that achieving something would require repeated tries. This means that you are bound to fail one way or another. Accept these failures and learn from it. Continue doing what you want and do not fear the possibility of failure. It is much better to try and fail rather than not try at all.
Every single person today is different, except for one thing. Now you may be thinking what is the one thing we all have in common? Each and every person I facing their own obstacles in life. If that may be trying out for a sports team or running for president. How would you know what could happen if you never take that leap of faith? Rosa Parks, Malala Yousfzai and many others took this leap of faith and have become role models for many of us out there. Not only will you be able to learn from your mistakes but it will help you grow as a person. It's important to overcome obstacles in you life. To face your fears and overcome them is the greatest challenge of them all but the most
Over the summer I decided to kill the 75 days by swimming again –a sport I haven’t touched, let alone thought about, in the past 2 years. At first my swims were leisurely because I barely remembered how to kick and breathe, but after a couple of sessions my unused muscles remembered and swimming was as easy as breathing, minus my endurance and speed. Once this hurdle was passed another quickly appeared, my need for being better. Signing up for the local swim team was possibly one of the best and worst decisions I’ve made this summer.
What's the Story Behind the Glory?Hate the thought of failing? Well guess what? You are really not failing! I have overcome the fear of failure. I realized that you cannot fail at anything. Mistakes should be looked at as results or outcomes. How should you look at mistakes? Well you shouldn't look at them as permanent. You should look at them as progression to getting to the result you wanted. Learn not to limit yourself. Do not miss out on doing something because you're afraid of making a mistake. You cannot be afraid of failing or you will never succeed. This is valuable because many people will not be successful in life as they want to be, if they think they are always going to fail. Remember, failure isn't a personal characteristic. Not
In sixth grade, my family switched me and my sisters to different school districts so, I ended up leaving the only elementary school I had ever known and transferring to a different elementary school in the sixth grade, I was a 12-year-old kid ready for middle school only to be moved back into an elementary school where everyone and their grandparents knew each other. I was a shy kid, uncomfortable with myself, teachers, other kids, with everybody really and unfortunately people looked at me and knew those things as well.
When I moved to Broken Arrow, I had the opportunity to make new friends in a whole new place. My first day of fifth grade had a rocky start, and carried with it an unforgettable feeling of nervousness. I was suddenly less excited than before, and as a 9 year old, walking into a school where no one knows your name was pretty terrifying. Despite my nerves, everyone turned out to be way better than I expected. I was so glad that I had finally found a place where I could fit in, and by the end of the year I had a whole list of new friends. I was finally able to learn how to throw myself into social situations, which taught me that I don’t need to leave myself out of things. I became overall more outgoing, and had no problem talking to new