Description of Emotional Processes A genogram is frequently used by psychologists as a way to map out relationships in a family and help gain insight into how its’ members interact. I was married for 17 years to someone whose family of origin shared very few personality traits with the members of my own family. However I am struck by the similarities in the way both of our families function. Very similar patterns of functioning become clear on the genogram diagram. It put a lot of issues into perspective as I proceed through the process of interviewing, diagramming, and writing about my history. To complete this assignment I interviewed four different people. First, I had the opportunity to interview my ex-mother-in-law. We have a …show more content…
The readings from our Emotions, Attachment, and Trauma class brought that self- work into clearer focus for me. I have come to view substance abuse, mental illness, and even many physical illnesses, as symptoms of a deeper, larger process. I see myself as having a fearful, avoidant attachment style. When I was younger and getting married I can see that I had no organized strategy for getting my needs met. I wasn’t even aware of having any needs. All I knew was that I was angry and disappointed in my relationships. At the same time, I depended on those very relationships for my happiness and security. The changes for me did not come even with divorce or the long isolation that followed. I picked up new symptoms in the ensuing years. Drama accompanied me everywhere I went. I developed emotional, mental, and finally severe physical symptoms. I didn’t occupy my own body. I had opinions on everything, but no self-knowledge whatsoever. I stayed out of intimate relationships completely, out of a fear of being engulfed by them. I came to self work out of complete and utter desperation. Despite the anxious, fearful style of relating that had been passed down to me, I always knew that I was deeply loved by my parents. Their own anxieties did not keep me from that understanding. It was that love that fostered just enough love for myself to get help. I left no stone unturned …show more content…
Much of this info is gathered from my dad’s memories. From my generation to present, there is a much richer detail provided. I am unable to express adequately in the diagram the level to which my own father was fused with his family of origin. He was the only sibling who ever lived out of town. We returned home for all holidays and vacations. Once here, my parents would argue over how much time we would spend with each family of origin, as my mother was equally fused with her own family. If you will note, there is at least one person (from my generation on) who other family members focus on. My families theme could be, “there is nothing wrong with me.” “I’d be happy if (fill in the blank) would straighten up.” My parents were unhappily married and hyper focused on the three of us to the complete detriment of their own marriage. Simultaneously, my mother’s mental health deteriorated. Everyone’s anxiety at this time was focused on my mother. In both of my sister’s families there is at least one individual everyone is focused on. Had I done this genogram three to four years ago, my children’s focus would have been on me. Ten years before that, their dad. Also clear on the genogram, in my own little family, we were cut off from my ex-husband for a time. That relationship has been repaired as I have learned to focus on my own reactions and leave his to him to solve. This relationship, as well as
Making a genogram can enhance one’s training as a helping professional by laying out points in a person’s life and family that have caused distress and could affect practice in the future. By self realizing the crisis points in one’s family it can help to identify triggers that could lead to countertransference as well as resurfacing of old traumas during counseling or leading a group. Plotting out one’s life is a way to organize a family especially if there are multiple marriages of parents and non-traditional family ties within a standard family tree. By knowing where you come from and the experiences that shape your family you can better
My genogram has three generations and includes the most important or influential people in my family life. The genogram includes my grandparents on both my dad and mom’s side, my parents, their siblings, and spouses, and on the bottom row, my siblings and I. My family has had unique challenges personally and systematically that created a stronger bond as the years went on. Though, today, we are spread out around the country, our familial connections have been strong overall.
Creating the genogram was beneficial; it provided me with deeper view of Susan’s family regarding mental health history, health and social history, hobbies and career paths. Research indicates that there is a relationship between family functioning
Also when creating the diagram, I was pondering on the idea that there may also be some conflicts that I am unaware of due to the fact that my family may have hidden conflicts from me as a young girl. My family and I have our dysfunctional
Today genograms are used in psychology and medical settings to identify the connection between families and identify how members of the family communicate with one another. There are several types of genograms that created for many reasons such as ethical, career, and sexual. This genogram helps an individual map out the connection of their contextual history with their framework. My experience of creating a genogram was an amazing feeling and it helped me discover several factors that occur in life as an adult. The interview with mom helps me to identify a lot of unknown features that can be possible genetically transmitted to my children. During my genogram creation, a few explanations of conflicts were discussed according to family member’s characteristics and beliefs. Discovery of my genogram alerts me with the many personalities that I share with my family. While reading this book I was eager to finish the book because of the interested information that was listed to help me understand my developmental structures.
Now that I have offered analysis and reflection on the extended family field of my family system on a macro level, I want to provide a microscopic look as it relates to individuals and individual relationships within my family system. As previously mentioned my family tends to have a level of homeostasis that is comfortable with distance and long periods of not interacting. This does not mean we do not love each other; we are just comfortable loving at a distance. This is connected to one of our unspoken rules and expectations, which is do not feel bad if I do not call you or interact with you regularly. This unspoken
A genogram is a diagram that shows family members and their relationships. The information can sometimes include, ages, dates, deaths, and or geographic locations. Males are represented by squares and females are represented by circles. The horizontal lines indicate marriage; while the vertical line indicates parents and children. This paper outlines the assessment and analysis of the three generation of the Jones and Sheffield family, relationships, structures, and health struggles. The interview was conducted by myself (Katroya) and the interviewer was my mother (Sheryl).
Genograms are used to graphically represent a family tree and display detailed data on relationships among the individuals included in the family tree. In essence, families are complex systems that interact with kin groups in specific ways, and a genogram helps to show a diagram of a family tree, but also maps out interactions, relationships, traits, and characteristics that may otherwise not be noticed. The purpose of a genogram is to identify and understand patterns in family history which may influence an individual’s personal behavior and traits. Family Systems Theory, presented by Dr. Murray Bowen, suggests that an individual cannot be understood in isolation from their family members. According to Dr. Bowen, the family is an emotional
Dance is the beginning of the unit and therefore serves as an introduction to mental and emotions.
Mapping out relationships and interactions between a family system can present a visual aspect to assist with understanding the function as a unit. Creating a genogram gives the clients realizations of why family traditions exist and traits that family members pass from generation to generation.
My family is the most important foundation in my life. They are always there to support me and tell me when I’m wrong. In my genogram, I displayed a strong connection with my mother and a conflicted
A genogram is a significant tool that helps in collection of data regarding a young individual's family. The visual display of a given family can assist in indentifying themes or patterns that influence a family (Al-Yaman, Bryant & Sargeant, 2002). In this regard, a genogram is a valuable evaluation tool for learning about the history of family. Founded on the idea of a family tree, a genogram entails data concerning three or more generations of a given family, that offers a longitudinal perspective. As a visual diagram of the family's connection
Genograms are an excellent way to show the multigenerational family as a whole. When looking at a genogram, it is easier to see various pieces of information that exist within the family system. When creating a genogram, it is necessary to obtain a great deal of information to allow for accuracy as well as proficiency within the genogram. Overall, a genogram is helpful to find patterns in the family system, and recognize traits that may have been unknown. Throughout this segment is a personalized summarization of a genogram, an examination of the contemporary family, a
A genogram is a type of assessment tool used in psychology to understand individuals within the context of their family environments. Moreover, “family genogram provides a structured way of obtaining a comprehensive family history so that the practitioner and client can develop a complete understanding of the broad family dynamics” (Martin p.73). For example, by creating a genogram I have become aware of health patterns, substance abuse patterns, and conflict in my family. Genogram tells the story the family may want to shy away from, yet it gives insight into yourself as well as others in your family.
He continues to be shy around adults, and has only two or three adults that he will rely on for emotional support. I noticed that he is standoffish with other toddlers in his daycare or play group.