Change is constantly occurring whether or not we subconsciously feel and accept it. Fear and anxiety are typically associated with change as it comes with unfamiliarity and a destruction of normal routine. When we resist change, it is our way of displaying that we are clinging on to our normal habits, routines,etc. because it creates an illusion which ultimately allows us to feel in control. It can be seen in both everyday life and the short story The Giraffe by Mauro Senesi, that being afraid of change acts as a trigger for anxiety. Life with and without change are both complex. By adding anxiety, that is resulted by fearing change creates further unnecessary complexities. The three most prominent forms of fear in both our everyday lives and the short story by Mauro Senesi are, fear of the unknown, fear of leaving …show more content…
These new beginnings can only present themselves when and if the habits of the past are lost. In the short story, many townspeople, especially the adult males found it hard to accept the Giraffe because they felt that they lost their sense of power. Before the Giraffe entered the town, the adult males were seen as the biggest and most powerful, but the Giraffe came an overpowered them with its large majestic body. This caused a loss of familiarity because the town that once bowed down with fear at the feet of the males, no longer did, instead they feared the Giraffe. Similarly, in our everyday lives, we face loss of some sort when change makes an appearance. Whether it is a loss of a job, a friend, or even something simple like a parking space. Any of these losses bring anxiety because no one knows what will occur after the lost. If someone lost a friend, that person does not know who they will go to next time they need help or someone to talk to. The change that occurs in our everyday life, comes with a loss which ultimately brings anxiety due to the unknown
Ever had a choice that leads to change? When given this option many often choose the option that does not lead to change, they don’t want to break their traditional life pattern. This is especially evident in the short stories “The Giraffe” by Mauro Senesi and “The Lottery” by Shirley Jackson. While reading these stories it became clear that this fear stems from the consequences that comes with change as well as the disruption in authority for a person, or in these stories, a community.
In the article “A Change of Heart about Animals” (1 September 2003), published by Los Angeles Times, author Jeremy Rifkin discusses how “... researchers are finding [is] that many of our fellow creatures are more like us than we imagined.” (Rifkin 61). Using academic diction, Rifkin develops his main idea with evidence such as “They [animals] feel pain, suffer, and experience stress, affection, excitement, and even love -- and these findings are changing how we view animals. ”(Rifkin 61). This suggests a pathos and logos persuasive appeal that broadens the reader’s understanding and knowledge in changing our perspective of the inhumane and inequality treatment that non domestic animals receive. Rifkin’s use of pathos and logos appeals is to
In the article “A Change of Heart about Animals” (2003), published by Los Angeles Times, author Jeremy Rifkin discusses how our fellow creatures are more like humans than we had ever imagined. Using academic diction, Rifkin develops his main idea with evidence such as Caledonian crows being able to make tools to complete a task. These birds were given the task of grabbing meat out of a tube with a choice of two tools, a hooked wire and a straight wire. Both of the birds were able to complete the task, however, one bird showed exceptional cognitive abilities when she bent a straight wire into a hook to grab the meat. This suggests a logos persuasive appeal that broadens the reader’s awareness of the conceptual abilities of crows. Rifkin’s use
Fisher acknowledges people generally react badly to change initially. They are anxious and in shock. They follow this by expressing a level of happiness or relief about the situation, glad that something is happening at last. Then fear sets in if there is a healthy amount of two way communication at the happiness stage, then the degree of fear may be reduced, but it always present.
The Changeable nature of life affects us all somehow. Whether it be moving to a new city, having children, or losing people that we love, it can affect people in many different ways. For example, in the novel, the main character
Change is something you are probably familiar with. In “Beneath the Smooth Skin of America,” Scott R. Sanders talks about many changes in his life. The author starts the story looking throw the eyes of himself as a child. As a child he remembers that all that was in his sight was all he could see. The author’s best example of this is he says, ”Neighbors often appeared…where they came from I could not imagine” (27). As the author begins to see more by leaving the area he was around so often he starts to see more and more things. He started moving around to different places and started seeing the things that he had not see before. The author points out many things that he began to see like the stores
Everybody has a different perspective on fear and everybody is affected differently. The Mental Health Foundation stated that, “Fear can last for a short time and then pass but it can also last much longer and stay with us. In some cases it can take over our lives, affecting appetite, sleep, and concentration for long periods of time. Fear stops us from travelling, going to work or school, or even leaving the house.” This quote shows that fear does not affect people as much as it does to others. Although, fear can affect people for a long time which can cause them to stay isolated from others. There are many types of fears and some examples of fears include: the fear of the number 13, the fear of spiders, the fear of heights, and many others. There are hundreds of fears and many people have these fears and everybody is affected differently.
Throughout the course of history, many people have used the power of language to manipulate audiences to gather support for their personal agenda or gain. Donald Trump speech is an example of using the power of language to manipulate people. President Donald Trump told about two dozen chief executives of major U.S. companies that he plans to bring many millions of jobs back to the United States. When it comes to the topics of bringing jobs back people will readily agree. In the article “A Change Of Heart about Animals”, Jeremy Rifkin, author and president of the foundation of economic trends in Washington D.C, suggests in a seemingly, unbiased fashion, that animals “are more like us than we had ever imagined” (Rifkin). With the support
Furthermore, another reason people fear change is because they fear the past might replicate itself (Radwan). This reason links to the fear of failure in a way. As an illustration, a woman who
Changes happen everyday. Sometime changes happen to ourselves. Changes can upshot our personality or see the consequences of our actions. A sudden change can be caused by failing at something, losing a close family member, or moving.
Secondly, a recent change that has occurred in my life is my goal of building a healthy body. To further explain, this is a change that is a new experience for me. By understanding the many advantages of working out and eating healthy, I am accepting the lifestyle changes that occur. For example, instead of doing nothing and consuming junk food, I took the courage to step outside my comfort zone and pursue a new goal. Although it does and will consume a lot of time, I have decided to embrace the change and look forward to achieving what I desire. Similarly, the boys in the story had the courage to accept the new change which is to keep the giraffe after the old man who brought him died. The author mentions the villagers discussing and says, “Rolandino jumped out and said, ‘I'll keep it until someone comes to get it’” (Senesi, 1). Furthermore, Rolandino’s friends also decided to help because they wanted to feel the change. To emphasize, none of the villagers accepted the change (giraffe) but rather pushed it away in fear. From this I can conclude, when change occurs, some people will accept it while others will reject it. I decided that to gain something significant, you need to work because nobody will just hand it to you. The boys worked to protect the giraffe by placing it in the church but, due to the many obstacles and complications, they could not succeed.
People generally like to stay in their comfort zone, they do not like changes. However, change is a necessary part of life, we see change in nature every day. Change can be positive or negative. We can choose to embrace the change or reject it, we also can choose to allow the change to have a negative or positive impact on our lives. Helmstetter lists six steps when dealing with change. First to recognize the change, then to decide if you are going to accept or reject the change. The next step is to choose your attitude toward the change, then choose how you are going to deal with it and what actions you are going to take. The last step is to evaluate your progress of accepting the change (Lamberton and Minor, 2012)
This book, by Spencer Johnson, reveals the truths about how we deal with change that happens in our lives which effects us in so many ways, either positively or negatively. The book takes an amusing approach to what happens when you don’t adapt to change and what happens when you do. In the book, cheese is used as a metaphor for what you want to have in life. All my life I wanted the nice house, the beautiful wife, the kids, money, the dog, the nice tuck to pull the nice boat, the great career, and so on , and so on. To me, it’s human nature to want those things and I eventually got all of those things and then some….. More on that later. There was another metaphor in the book, which was the maze.
In my life, I have been exposed to a challenge called change. Change can occur in many different ways and is dealt with in many different ways. I have come to the awareness that change can be the deepest of all things. I always thought that change occurred when you moved to a state or when you lost someone real close to you. Those are a challenge to change, yes, but change doesn’t have to occur over a climactic incident. It can just appear overnight when your brain winds up when it’s time to do something different. Even with friends that you used to have and know that move on. For example, most of my friends from elementary school, I don’t even talk to them anymore.
Other factors lead to Eveline being fearful of change. Not only change in commitments but change in physical surroundings are things she does not embrace, though she has been surrounded by change most of her life; when she was a child, she would play in the field with the neighbor children every evening, until it was built upon. She has also experienced change in the form of death; childhood friends, her brother and her mother - all are dead. Death is not a positive representation of change to be sure. As Evelyn ponders change, she comes to the realization that the physical surroundings of her everyday life would no longer be there. The furnishings, the pictures, the curtains, even the dust would be distant memories! Things she has unknowingly drawn comfort from her entire life would not be there to comfort her; they would be gone. Change may not be something she wants.