Throughout “Two Kinds” by Amy Tan, Jing Mei and her mother grow and change together. Through the growth and change, Jing and her mom go through their ups and downs. Jing and her mother are very different and similar in multiple ways, but this caused change between them, and caused them to grow closer together. In the beginning of “Two Kinds,” Jing’s mother thought very highly of her daughter, believing in her a lot. “At first my mother thought I could be a Chinese Shirley Temple” (Tan 22). Shirley Temple is a young singer and actor. Shirley Temple was an influencer for kids at her time, many kids wanted to be just like her. Jing’s mother believed that Jing could be just like Shirley Temple, so she bought her a piano and started her piano lessons. …show more content…
After the show, her mom never talked about her trying to play the piano again. “For after our struggle at the piano, she never mentioned playing again. The lessons have stopped. The lid to the piano was closed, shutting out the dust, my misery, and her dreams” (Tan 28). Her mother then decided to give her the piano and started talking to her about it. “‘Well, I probably can’t play anymore,’ I said. ‘It’s been years.’ ‘You pick up fast,’ my mother said, as if she knew this was certain.’ ‘You have natural talent. You could be a genius if you want to’” (Tan 28). Her mother then showed that she had confidence in her and it made Jing feel better, and happier. Jing and her mother change a lot throughout the story. Jing and her mother are very different in how they feel. Jing’s mother wants Jing to be someone like you see on TV, but Jing wants to be her own person. Jing’s mother wants her to be like Shirley Temple. “At first my mother thought I could be a Chinese Shirley Temple. We’d watch Shirley’s old movies on TV as though they were training films” (Tan 22). Jing's mother wanted her to be popular as a movie star. Jing just wanted to be herself, and not like other …show more content…
I whined and then kicked my foot a little when I couldn't stand it anymore” (Tan 24). Jing’s mom was making Jing do things she didn’t want to do. Her mom felt as though Jing could be a star, and Jing didn’t want to do anything her mom was making her do. But on the other hand, Jing and her mother are similar in a type of way. Both Jing and her mother are very stubborn. “For unlike my mother, I did not believe I could be anything I wanted to be, I could only be me” (Tan 28). While Jing's mom believed her, she was stubborn and would go against everything her mom would say. “The first night she brought out a story about a three year old boy who knew the capitals of all the states and even most of the European countries” (Tan 22). Even though she told her mom she didn’t want to be famous, her mom still tried to make her famous. Both the mother and daughter are very similar, and very different, and that causes them to grow together. Though Jing and her mother went through some ups and downs, they went through an enormous evolution. Through this time, Jing and her mother grew apart, then became closer together, until her mother
One of the most complex relationships is that of a mother and daughter. Amy Tan is an author who writes about her life growing up as an Asian-American in Chinatown. Her novel The Joy Luck Club is a series of short stories about Chinese mothers and their assimilated daughters. One of these stories is “Two Kinds,” which looks into the life of Jing-Mei Woo and her struggle to gain a sense of self. Some key themes in The Joy Luck Club are the generational and intercultural differences among Chinese-American
Parental interaction is very important in the growth of a child’s development of the brain, which has an effect on the child’s identity. The way parents act and interact will affect the child’s future decision-making and psychological development. Different types of interactions in an author’s childhood usually have big impacts on how they write throughout their career. It is also the same with any other child, the certain types of behavior from parent to child are directly correlated to the way
a young Asian girl from the story ‘two Kinds’ by Amy Tan. She is described as a strong, pure and genuine person. Jing-Mei’s mother desperately wants her to become famous, but Jing-Mei cannot seem to understand why her mom wants this of her. Jing-Mei is very happy about who she is and just wants to see where life will take her. Her mother believes that she has the potential to be very successful in the future and will be full of talents. The problem that Amy Tan is trying to the reader is that a parent
Self improvement is defined as the improvement of one’s knowledge, status or character by one’s own efforts. Society has shown us the many different ways people improve their lives today. Any change, no matter how small can become a major factor in someones current or future life. Lets take Immigrants as an example of self improvement. People immigrate to the U.S in search for a better life and the pursuit of happiness. Once they have established themselves in this country of opportunity, immigrants
Why is it that people think you can be anything they want to be? In “Two Kinds” by Amy Tan, is a short story about a mother who thinks that her daughter can be whatever she wants to be. “Rice Bowl & Blues” by Diane Mel Lin Mark is a poem about a mother who wants to teach her daughter about the different gender roles. The messages that both of the authors are trying to portray are different because in the short story, the theme is you can't be anyone but yourself, but in the poem, the theme is showing
Bonesetter’s Daughter, and The Kitchen God’s Wife, Amy Tan creates the broken relationships of immigrant mothers and their “Americanized” daughters who struggle in social barriers they both face as they live in the new setting. Amy Tan analyzes mother-daughter relationships between character’s lovers and friends and how they develop over a course of unexpected events. Throughout The Joy Luck Club, The Bonesetter’s Daughter and The Kitchen God’s Wife, Amy Tan places all three books in California where the
Amy Tan, a child of Chinese immigrants, wrote the story “Two Kinds”, telling the tale of a Jing-Mei’s rebellion against her mother’s desire to change her into a prodigy. As Jing-Mei’s mother continually tells her she does not try hard enough to succeed, the conflict between Jing-Mei and her mother escalates. Jing-Mei grows more stubborn, making every effort to resist her mother, and the relationship devolves into a standoff where mother and daughter both refuse to budge from their position. “Two
According to the short story “Two Kinds,” by Amy Tan, Mrs. Woo (Jing Mei’s mother) said that “you can be anything you wanted to be in America.” Mrs. Woo believes that her daughter Jing Mei can be anything in the United States as long as she puts her mind to do it, so she tries to help her daughter to discover her talent. The ideas of Mrs. Woo are to rule and control her little girl's life, and her Chinese culture view tends to make her children become obedient children rather than to let her children
Amy Tan’s “Two Kinds” is an autobiographical look into her childhood that shows the conflict between Tan and her mother, the difference between old and new cultures, the past and the present, and parents’ expectations vs. reality. Couples of opposing elements comprise the basis of the entire story; to another extent even the title itself, “Two Kinds,” shows the friction that Tan creates. The strongest argument that Tan suggest is that this may not only be a look into her own life, rather it may be
Two Kinds is a wonderful little short story about a immigrant Chinese woman in the mid 1950’s to early 1960’s that moved to Chinatown in California to give herself a better opportunity to make it in America. In the story we see the Amy’s mother as a woman who already has dealt with her fair share of pain and disappointment. Jeng-mei mothers entire family seemed to have been wiped out before she came to America from China Jeng-mei explains “ she had come to San Francisco in 1949 after losing everything
A famous actor, Michael J. Fox once said, “Family is not an important thing it is everything”. In the same way, family will be with one through hard times and love one no matter what. The two stories that best prove family is the cultural element that informs the way individuals view others and the world are Two Ways to Belong in America and By Any Other Name. The impact family has on cultural perspective can be clearly seen when one views the teachings, names, books, and tradition. However, family
Compromise and Harmony in Amy Tan’s “Two Kinds”. Throughout life, individuals may be put under compromising circumstances by those around them. This can create conflicts as it may subject them to uncomfortable levels of control, which the individual may not desire. To many, the one that is exerting control over them can be considered a loved one, and slowly the conflicts born from differences in values eat away at their relationship. As they grow older, individuals will realize that their loved
becoming their own unique beings. They had little rights, almost non-existent to be honest, and no voice. Consequentially, women were forced into becoming good housewives and value the growth and developmental impacts they had on their children. Along the way, women had the voice to say enough is enough. Women wanted change and they wanted it now. This is what sparked Women’s rights movements. When talking about a compare and contrast essay, I thought about my life. When I was younger I would always
me that without it I would not be who I am. Beautifully, language comes in many forms. It does not have to be foreign. Language can merely be a dialect, an accent, a code or anything else that conveys meaning. It can even be a creation or a mix of two languages specific to the individuals speaking it. Language is an extension of us and it extends into our personality as well as our identity. The language that parents raise their children with is the language that forges the very identity and personality
are believed to promote a kind of general restraint or control of emotions in the interest of maintaining group harmony. Thus,