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Hegemonic Masculinity : Masculinity And Masculinity

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Introduction

This essay focuses on ‘I Love You, Man’, and discusses about homosocial relationship between two men and explores ‘hegemonic masculinity’ and ‘the field of masculinity’ depicted in this film. ‘Hegemonic masculinity’, which is proposed by Connell (1987), is assumed to ‘the pattern of practice (i.e., things done, not just a set of role expectations or an identity) that allowed men’s dominance over women to continue.’ (Connell and Messerschmidt 2005, p.832) However, hegemonic masculinity has strong influence not only over women, but also over other men as Demetriou (2001, p.341) states. Hegemonic masculinity dominates subordinated masculinity as well as women. ‘The field of masculinity’, the theoretical model suggested by Coles …show more content…

His fiancé, felt it uncomfortable and complained about it. She insisted that “I’m totally weirded out about what’s going on between you two. You don’t even look at me.” As the relationship between Peter and Sydney is getting stronger, the tie between Peter and his fiancé is getting weaken. This scene indicates that homosocial relationship overwhelmed the intimate heterosexual relationship. It means that women are subordinated by the strong power of homosocial relationship between men.

the status of women, and the whole question of arrangements between genders, is deeply and inescapably inscribed in the structure even relationships that seem to exclude women--even in male homosocial/homosexual relationships. (Sedgwick 1985, p.25)
In this way, intimate heterosexual relationship, which is usually seen as stronger than any other relationships, is threaten by solid homosocial bond. It is perceived as expression of hegemonic masculinity of men over women. This example clarifies that Women cannot exist without having relationship with men.

The Field of Masculinity

In this movie, the field of masculinity is represented through men characters. The field of masculinity is notion that shows the conflict between hegemonic masculinity and subordinated masculinity (Coles 2009, p.36). Coles (2009, p.36) states that the field of masculinity

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