Continuing Comfort The way lives are affected by others is not something that can be explained easily. People everywhere have an affect on everyone they meet by the impression and legacy that they left behind, especially when families are affected by the absence of a loved one, like mothers. This effect is demonstrated in Johnny Got His Gun, written by Dalton Trumbo and Shenandoah, directed by Andrew McLaglen. In both stories there is an absence of the mother's. In Shenandoah, Martha had died while giving birth to Boy, the youngest of the seven children. Even though Martha is dead she leaves her impression on her family in many different ways. Unlike Martha, Macia is not dead. Macia is the mother of the main character Joe in Johnny Got His …show more content…
In the movie Shenandoah, we see that even after sixteen years of Martha being gone, she still has a spot at the table all set up as if she were there to eat with them. The Andersons also go to church, in the movie Charlie says ¨It's what Martha wanted.¨(Shenandoah). Contrary to Martha, Macia doesn't make an impact on Joe's actions, but the memories that he has of his mother makes him think about things differently. ¨His mother before she was his mother before she thought particularly of becoming his mother would go over to the piano the only one on Cole Creek and play the Beautiful Blue Ohio or perhaps My Pretty Red Wing.¨(Trumbo 13). In the book, this affects the way Joe thinks about things because he remembers his mother's music. When Joe remembers his mother with music, it is a way that he is able to connect with her and remember her when he is injured from the war. Similarly, they are both able to feel further connected to their mothers through the memories and reminders that they are there with them. Differently, in Shenandoah, the son who had a wife has a daughter in the movie and they name the baby Martha, after the …show more content…
¨His mother was singing in the kitchen. He could hear her singing there and the sound of her voice was the sound of home.¨(Trumbo 15) As Joe remembers his mother singing in the kitchen it reminds him of home, so even when he doesn't know where he is it provides him comfort remembering that. Similarly in Shenandoah, Charlie is shown talking to her grave. At the end of the movie, after they had all gotten back he makes a comment when he is talking to her grave. ¨I don't know what else to say about the war¨(Shenandoah). Charlie finds comfort when talking to Martha's grave because it makes him feel like she is still there with him. Differently, Macia provides comfort when Joe is calling for his mom in his sleep. ¨Mother where are you? Hurry mother hurry hurry hurry and wake me up. I'm having a nightmare mother where are you? Hurry mother. I'm down here.¨(Trumbo 63). Joe is calling out towards his mother to come and save him because he feels comfort being able to feel her
He actually worsen the strain on his mother, and she regretfully has to push him away. Joe’s mother says to Joe, “Now you listen to me, Joe. You will not badger me or harass me. You will leave me to think the way I want to think, here” (89). These mutual hardships creates a stronger bond between Joe and his family and allows the family members to support each other in this hard time. Through this experience, Joe learns how to deal with people in need and have empathy for those around him. Living with a family develops the social skills to exist in the outside world. Joe’s parents provide the familial love and support that is necessary for Joe to mature into a responsible adult.
John got older and found someone else still remembering his beloved wife. Mr. John moved out of the farmhouse but knocked the house down so that all would be left there is Bessie. He never got over her but he was able to start a new life. The kids would go from time to time to stand around the spot where their mother laid to rest at. Bessie was the best woman ever because she would starve plenty nights before she watched her family starve. The reason of her being buried there behind the farmhouse was so that the family would never forget her and that she had no family left around. Bessie was a very young mannered woman who did her best at
Family is expressed in diverse ways. Mama strongly believes in the importance of family throughout the book. She continues to try to keep them together by fulfilling their dreams before hers. Her dream was moving her family out of the ghetto and into a house with a yard where children can play, and she can tend a garden. Her dream has been deferred since she and her husband moved into the apartment that the Youngers still inhabit. Every day, her dream provides her with an incentive to make money. But no matter how much she and her husband strived, they could not scrape together enough money to make their dream a reality. As they go through trying times the eventify they come together as a family because by the end they realized being together was most important. They are still strong individuals but together they prove they are a strong family. Throughout the book the Younger family is constantly arguing about what Mama should do with the ten thousand dollars she inherited from her husband. “I-I just seen my family fall apart today…. Just falling into pieces in front of my eyes we couldn’t have gone on like we were today (Hansberry91)” Mama is trying to tell her family that these arguments about the money are tearing her family apart. She wanted them to know that she did the right thing by buying the house, thinking it would make her family happy again. Mama could have spent the money on herself, but she chose her family first and their needs that is
The Role of Martha in The Things They Carried In The Things They Carried, Martha was a woman who Lieutenant Cross had deep feelings for. He was truly in love with her even though he knew she probably did not feel the same way. Martha sent Cross letters that he cherished so much, he spent most of his time reading them. Martha had Cross’s mind focused completely on her instead of what was going on in his surroundings.
When my dog died I was an emotionless person until i did not start putting his favorite things like his walking leash, his his toy ball, and his food dish neer the place where he was buried.Same thing with Sals moms grave. Sals moms grave has all the moms favorite things and all these things remind Sal of her mom.The place in lewiston Idaho is an important setting to Sal because her mom is buried in their, and allways when Salt goes she is reminded of her mom and all of the things Saldid with her mom. All these things remind Sal of her mom, the maple singing tree (the bird was singing in the maple tree which is why it is called the singing tree), all the beautiful places, and the bird,snake river. All these things remind Sal
In William Faulkner’s As I Lay Dying, the Bundren family embarks on a journey to lay their dead wife and mother, Addie, to rest in a coffin built by one of their own. The family members each have obstacles they face in addition to grieving for their lost loved one, some physical, some mental, some more serious than others. However, could it be possible that Addie’s death has brought the family closer in the corpse’s journey to her resting place? The journey to Jefferson latched on more obstacles to the family’s feet, but they were able to overcome them in the end and reach their destination. However, despite having each other, in the very end, perhaps the family remained more divided, as there was already the weight of poverty and Addie’s death
For instance, when she was at home alone, “At home it was different. Those long quiet mornings in the house still gave me pleasure,” but whenever this silence was interrupted, “tension and shame accompanied them” (Grealy 93). Especially when Lucy was around her family because since she wasn’t able to detect what she was unhappy about within the complicated family relationship they shared, she felt that everything started with her and that it was her fault. When Lucy was at the hospital with her father, there was a feeling of a comforting relief every time he left, “I watched his back as he left and felt relief” because when he left, the “embarrassment and awkwardness” (Grealy 85) that Lucy’s father felt, was the same as hers. That relief of being left alone during a difficult time is comforting because it becomes a time that’s just for you and your thoughts. There’s no looks of judgement or pity written across faces, just the comfort of the surroundings around
The Andersons, especially the father, has not fully let go of Marth. Martha’s settings are still placed on the table every time the family has a meal as if she were a living person. The Andersons cannot fully let go of Martha’s presents. Again, with the theme of loss, they do not want Martha alone in death; But most importantly, them themselves, cannot forget Martha as a living mother. This is differently than Joe’s story.
My mother is a sweetheart. She is known for her little giggles even when she is just talking casually with someone. She is light skinned, brown curly hair and brown eyes and talks very softly. Sometimes she is so soft spoken that I hardly hear what she is saying. It’s a family laugh when no one can hear what she is trying to say. I sincerely thank my mother for all that she has done for not only myself, but for my two brothers. She is very often complimented for raising, “such great boys”, as many would
You can hear the passion in Joshua's voice as he sings. His voice comforts Mary. Death is a part of life and having people around you who care makes it easier to accept. Mary was touched by Joshua's singing. Mary has already passed, and Joshua did his best to make her transition easier. He is comforted knowing that she is in a much better place.
(4 points) The McDonald and Miller families couldn’t have been more different. The Millers were a larger family of seven and very strict and orderly people. They valued hobbies such as crafts and rock polishing, and less on athletics. Norbert Miller was a preacher so the family was exposed to many interesting people, but also didn’t live on much, meaning Martha and her four other sisters shared one bedroom.
"Don't give up in times of difficulty. Persevere on as there will be an end to these. "Just as Edward said you can not give up in times of difficulty but have to persevere through them. This is exactly what John and Martha had to do. In the story "Lost boy, Lost girl" there was a Civil war that broke out in Sudan causing all the people to leave, including Martha and John.
Joe is an orphan and he has no history. All he remembers are violence, abuse, and neglect with his step-father and it results in making a lot of conflict in his life. The past that he does not know proves to take up so much his life, therefore; makes him to resist his identity. On the other hand, Lala knows all of her family history and remembers everything that happened in the past. And obviously their past is totally different as Lala has not suffered from not knowing her own family’s history.
The ability of the father to carry on with life after his son's death is one part of the stereotype that pertains to the male figure. The male character is suppose to be someone who does not cry, someone who is full of inner strength and is the central rock for all those around him in a time of crisis. The husband in "Home Burial" fulfills these requirements. After the burial, he continues on with his daily chores and attends to the various needs of the farm. These actions are not ones of denial but acceptance. He knows that he and his wife must carry on with their lives after an appropriate period of mourning is over. Understandably, his vision of the length of that time period is considerably shorter than his wife's. He understands that life is for the living and not for the dead. He understands that his son is dead. He also understands that he cannot force these views on his wife, because she must come to her own conclusions and find her own closure to her son's death.
The memory of my mother will follow me wherever I go, and however far living my dreams with a gentle scent of her perfume and the shimmering of her laugh. She was there to show me how much she cared and She was there when I made my first steps. She taught me to smile and laugh.