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Importance Of Personal Identity

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Only have lived twenty years so far, I’ve learned that personal identity is one of the most important parts of a person. Personal identity is the basic outline of who we are and what society views us as. Sometimes society or even others around us may not like who we are or what we stand for and may try to change us. This is not our fault as the individual; society tends to dislike and fear what it doesn’t understand or what it views as different. Reading short stories such as “The Birthmark”, “A Rose for Emily”, as well as “Hills Like White Elephants” reminds me that it is essential that I not let society tell me who I am or identify me incorrectly. Even if society doesn’t accept you, you have to uphold your views of confidence and …show more content…

Eventually, her willingness to change for Aylmer, and possibly the rest of society, causes her to sacrifice a lot more than her identity. Georgiana dies from removing the birthmark on her face for Aylmer, but I still understand why she agreed to do it. Although she was under a lot of pressure from her husband, she had other choices to keep her own identity and stay happy. After Aylmer asked if she’s ever thought about having the mark removed, he rudely stated that “…this slightest possible defect, which we hesitate whether to term a defect or a beauty, shocks me” (Hawthorne 5). Yes, as I said before, Georgiana could have left Aylmer rather than sacrifice her own personal identity and life for society, but she made a choice. There were consequences to changing her authentic self and true personal identity. Another clear issue of personal identity is experienced by Emily Grierson from the short story “A Rose for Emily”. Although Miss Emily Grierson doesn’t experience problems related to her physical appearance, as did Georgiana, I believe she experiences troubles with mental health, to an extent. The short story “A Rose for Emily” spends a lot of time going back and forth, but it’s clear that after Emily’s father dies, she begins to have mental breakdowns and go slightly insane. Society, in this case, the townspeople, spend their time gossiping about Emily throughout the story it seems like. Being

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