Argumentative Essay “In the long run, boundaries keep the good in and the bad out.”-Unknown Author. In my Opinion Having boundaries means someone setting the rules for you and having no boundaries means doing whatever you want to do or having no rules set. I think having boundaries is more important than having no boundaries. When boundaries and limited there is a small risk of getting hurt, parents set strict boundaries for there kids, when you don't set boundaries bad things can happen. First, Ponyboy’s boundaries were very limited and he had lots of rules. Ponyboy had very strict rules and Darry set lots of boundaries so Pony wouldn’t get into trouble and they were barely at risk of getting hurt. In The Outsiders it says “Ever since our parents died Darry has set down the rules and is being very strict and yelling at me”… “Darry only yells at you because he wants you to stay safe and he cares about you.”Another piece of text evidence is “When I saw Darry at the hospital he ran up and hugged me and then I knew why he set those boundaries ... Because he didn't want to lose me. This proves that boundaries are good for you because Ponyboy had boundaries and he barely got hurt in the book. …show more content…
Ever since Darry, Ponyboy and Sodapop’s parents died when they were young so Darry set lots of boundaries for them so they don't get into trouble. In the book its says that Darry set many boundaries and Ponyboy and Soda followed those boundaries. Most of the other greasers do not have boundaries but the Curtis family has set rules which is being an individual. This proves boundaries being good because the Curtis family did not get into trouble unless the were being loyal to their friends and then they would do anything to
He always wants to give him the life he wanted but couldn’t have one way to make sure of that is that Darry always makes sure Pony gets good grades by checking his homework. This way pony can succeed in school and not be a dropout like soda. He wants him to be the one that can make a difference in the world, and Darry realizes that, that person is pony. A quote from Ponyboy from the book is “I didn’t do to bad in math, because Darry checked my homework and made me study.”(Hinton
In chapter 3, Darry and Ponyboy got into a fight, in which Darry hit Ponyboy. This fight resulted in Ponyboy and Johnny killing a Soc, runnning away, going missing for five days, and getting Ponyboy injured and Johnny dead. The boys returned home when they were rushed to the hospital after being wounded from a fire. Once Ponyboy came to in the hospital, he saw Darry, crying. "Darry didn't like me... he had driven me away that night... he had hit me...he didn't give a hang about me... Suddenly I realized, horrified, that Darry was crying... Darry did care about me..." (98). Ponyboy ran to Darry, hugged him, and started sobbing. The two brothers stood in the waiting room, hugging and crying together. Daarry never scolded Ponyboy about him running away, because he was focused on Pony's health. He stayed at the hospital that night. Darry loves Pony, and now Pony knew.
As the child gets older i.e. around two years old the relationship as parents begins to change they start educating their children through discipline etc. When setting boundaries for discipline rules are implemented. The rules provide children with the freedom to express themselves within certain boundaries enabling them to learn and develop effectively.
Ponyboy has no parents and Darry is the eldest brother, therefore, Darry must be responsible for Ponyboy and make sure he is safe. Ponyboy doesn’t always understand the way Darry protect him. One night Jonny and Ponyboy went out and didn’t
understanding the rules do not apply to them, letting them do as they please (Thomas 2). Permissive parents do not typically
While developmental experts agree that rules and boundaries are important for children to have, most believe that authoritarian parenting is too punitive and lacks the warmth, unconditional love and nurturing that children need.
What would you do if a child was doing drugs and getting into fights? Would you let them stay with their parents and continue making trouble, or send them to a foster care to make them a better person. Ponyboy is a character from the book, The Outsiders. He gets himself into a position where he is charged with murder. He also drinks, smokes, and gets into fights regularly. His parents died so his brothers are now his parents. If someone's parents died, their older brothers should not become their parents. Where he lives there are two groups, the Greaser, the poorer group, and the Socs, the richer group. He is part of Grasers where he gets jumped and beaten up. This is why Ponyboy should not be living with Darry and Sodapop.
At the beginning, Ponyboy doesn’t understand the concerns of Darry, but towards the end, he understands that Darry is overprotective for him. For example, when Ponyboy came late home from the lot and Darry hit him and he ran away with Johnny. He said to Johnny, “He didn't use to be like that... we used to get along okay... before Mom and Dad died. Now he just can't stand
“When I stepped out into the bright sunlight from the darkness of the movie house, I had only two things on my mind: Paul Newman and a ride home.” Ponyboy thought. (page 1), Sodapop Curtis, from the book, The Outsiders, is caring, because he dropped out of school for Ponyboy, worries about Pony, and helps Darry and Pony stop fighting/arguing. The Outsiders was a book written by S.E. Hinton. The Outsiders explains how social classes matter in this town. There are two groups, the Greasers and the Socs. They live totally different lives and don’t get along. And sometimes Socs jump Greasers occasionally. But luckily Greasers always have each others back. Also, Greasers view Socs like they have everything they need or want. Like cool cars, money,
Just as the book reads the movie shows that Darry is a firm yeller. When Ponyboy comes home late Darry yells at him and then slugged him.
Darry has to be a better influence and watch what he does around Ponyboy if he wants Ponyboy to stay with him. Darry has a lot of qualities to be Ponyboy’s guardian. As long as Darry keeps Ponyboy in line and is a good influence for Ponyboy. Ponyboy should stay with Darry because Darry is loving, caring, strict, and protecting.
“Gee,’ Johnny said softly, ‘I thought you and Darry and Soda got along real well…’” (Hinton,p.42).Darry is a role model for Ponyboy even though they didn’t get along very well in the beginning. Ponyboy still looks up to Darry because of how he is able to have two jobs to support him and his brothers, and how he is able to keep up with the things that go on in their lives even though he is busy. Even though Ponyboy and Darry don’t get along very well they still love each other and truly care about on
Like he’s never hollering at me all the time the way Darry is, or threatening me as if I was six instead of fourteen”, Darry still loves and protects Ponboy in all situations. Darry is honourable because even though Ponyboy runs away from home he still forgave him and was very worried. When Ponyboy and Johnny had ran away because of the murder Johnny had committed, Darry didn’t have the slightest bit of anger and didn’t turn them in which is unlikely for Darry because he usually likes to obey the law and stays out of trouble. The lack of anger from Darry is evident through the letter that Soda pop had written to Pony boy, addressing how Darry was worried sick. “Darry hasn’t got the slightest notation where you are and it’s nearly killing him” page 70.
Ponyboy, Johnny, Sodapop, Darry are all a part of the unruly gang, the Greasers. S.E Hinton is writing these characters as rebellious young men, with a harsh background, who takes their anger and hardship out on gang fighting. These roles play an important part in this book because it shows that even though they nothing physically, they have a heart stronger than gold for each other and others mentally. Hinton use these characters to show prejudice leads to wrong conclusions, violence and oppression because these “poor” young men are getting beat up by the rich Socs who have never felt the feeling of being in poverty. “ You take up for your buddies, no matter what they do. When you’re in a gang, you stick up for the members. If you don’t stick up for them, stick together, make
Ponyboy sees unfairness every day. With his parents being dead, Darry is forced to work two jobs to support the brothers, while Soda has dropped out