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Indi Life, Culture And The Arts

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Love, Gender Roles, and Families
As Connoted in Mr. and Mrs. Iyer

Ruo Liang Li
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Assignment: Essay #1
Topic No. 3
India: Life, Culture and the Arts
HUMA 1846
Tutorial 04
J. Rubinoff
September 30th, 2014
Mr. and Mrs. Iyer is an artistic piece of fictional creative media completed in 2002 by the famed Indian movie director, Aparna Sen. In this film, Indian attitudes regarding gender roles, love, and families are expressed through the protagonist, Meenakshi, and her role as a family manager despite her advanced education; the loving and dedicated wife, Najma Ahmed Khan, of the elderly Muslim passenger on the bus, Iqbal Ahmed Khan, and her sacrifices in the defense of her husband; and Meenakshi’s …show more content…

Considering that Mani is the only source of income within the family, as a woman her status within the household was largely dependent on the husband. “A woman 's sole purpose in life is to devote her life to her husband and children. Indian society is one that is male dominated and this is still the thought within the home. “ (Gender, Culture, India , 2014) The role of women in India in one deeply rooted in tradition, as many women of high caste were restricted to the confines of their household.
This practice prolongs the oppression of women by maintaining a status inferior to the men.

As the bus was invaded by rioting Hindu mobs, the mob leader attempts to forcibly remove the Iqbal Khan from the bus after he is revealed to be a Muslim. During his many attempts to expel the Muslim, his dedicated wife rises to the defense of her husband. The Hindus physically assault her, and afterwards extracted the both of them from the bus. Later, it is revealed that they were both murdered. Faced with dangerous men toting deadly weapons, she likely forecasted the outcome of the situation. Yet despite the perils, she still defended her husband. If she were to become a widow, the concept of a secondary marriage would taint the purity of a female. “ Secondary unions are considered a concession to human weakness. The first marriage has a sacramental character and is a samskara that cannot be repeated.” (Dube, Gender and

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