The topic I decided to write about is infidelity in marriages. I thought this would be a good topic because infidelity has psychology and culture intersect together. Infidelity is attributed to psychology because this is something from each person, it only depends on each one to decide whether cheat or not. In contrast, infidelity is also attributed to culture, infidelity will have a different meaning in every part of the world. Maybe this will be described as an accepted or unaccepted behavior in a society. Furthermore, there is cultures in which the husband is allowed to have more than one wife, and he will treat than equally and do the same things for all wives. However, for many other cultures this would be considered infidelity …show more content…
The first thing that comes on mind when talking about infidelity is the partner having sexual intercourse with a person from the outside of the relationship, but this is not only resumed on that. In alyssa siegel article, she describes infidelity “I define infidelity as any action that violates an implicit or explicit agreement between two people, thereby undermining the relationship. The action may be physical or emotional in nature”. (Siegel, 2013) Of course sexual intercourse is the worst someone can do against to the spouse, but infidelity is beyond more. It can be considered infidelity just the “desire” for another person, a kiss, chatting with someone but having intentions behind it or it can even be something emotional. For example, the husband or wife having feelings for another person instead of their actual partner. Infidelity is something that happens a lot and I very different ways. Consequently, this high rate comes along with the facilitation and better opportunities that we have today. Network and social media play a big role, it help everybody’s lives. We have faster access to the world and we communicate better with others. However, it brings out new and easy opportunities for cheating. Evangelos Siozios mentioned “It’s 2014, and apps such as OkCupid and Tinder exist. Today, “swiping,” has erased the formal face to face contact typical to traditional relationship notions. With a flick of a finger one can generate an obscene amount
Everybody is familiar with the concept that cheating is wrong. However, the culture we live in today is becoming less black and white and showing all the different shades of grey. Cheating is becoming a situational topic. In some situations it is considered the right thing to do. Everyone has cheating in some aspect of life, whether it be school, work, sports, games, using forms of enhancements or forms of deception. Cheating is all around and i very unpreventable.
In the perspective of a Functionalist, a limited amount of crime is necessary of all societies (Farley and Flota 2013, 315). The cheating scandal that occurred at Stuyvesant High School would be described by Durkheim and other Functionalists as normal and beneficial to the entire high school. Deviance, in this case cheating, enables societies to adapt (Farley and Flota 2013, 315). By punishing the twelve students and speculating punishment for 54 other students, the hierarchy of the school system is being maintained (Baker 2012). The faculty is making it clear that the school rejects academic dishonesty which in turn helps define what is approved. Due to the large-scale that cheating occurred, the faculty had to adapt their policies to regain control. The following year, 17 cell phones were confiscated from students on the first day of school (Baker 2012). Although there was already a no cell phone policy in place, the staff acted in a stricter matter than before the cheating incident in to regain control over the students (Farley and Flota 2013, 315).
In April of 1976 it was found that there was a possibility that over half of the junior class at West Point Academy had violated the West Point honor code by cheating on a case assignment. The honor code states "A cadet will not lie, cheat, or steal, nor tolerate those who do." This was by far the largest violation of the honor code in West Point history and presented some unusual challenges to the administration. As the year dragged on it was found that more and more students possibly had cheated on the assignment and was also becoming a public relations nightmare in the press and internally to the Army branch of the United States military.
There are many ways in which infidelity can be explained depending on what you are reading or with whom you are speaking. Emotional and sexual infidelity is the two most studied forms of infidelity. The cognitive approach to infidelity explains that as our cognition is developing, we are also indirectly learning behaviors that could contribute to infidelity as adults. Infidelity no matter what the circumstances are surrounding it can leave both partners devastated. The circumstances surrounding infidelity can include a broad range excuses. The evolutionary approach to infidelity explains that men are more distressed by their partners committing sexual infidelity, whereas
The perspective offered by such longitudinal data sheds remarkable light on the "problem" of statutory rape, identifying for us key markers, as well as key actors, in the history of the law's enforcement and helping us to understand their roles in constructing the meaning of this crime over successive generations. ... The statutory rape codes have been used at various times to reinforce fathers' interests in their daughters' marriageability, to protect young women's chastity from seductive men, to control promiscuous or disease-laden adolescent females, to enhance child support collection efforts, to reduce teenage pregnancy, and to identify and punish sexual exploitation of teenagers. ... Given the constant state of jockeying, compromise and
What does it take to close a case? Investigators -- engulfed in a slew of incriminating evidence and having secured some extremely reliable witnesses is a substantial amount to put away a prime suspect. What can insure that a case is closed even more quickly is a confession from the suspect. This confession usually takes a certain amount of coercion, on the part of the interrogators, to achieve. Coercion is an interrogation technique that uses intimidation to get suspects to confess to crimes whether or not they are truly guilty of any crime. Some will argue that coercion is a brilliant method with which to incarcerate criminals with. Others will say that it is much more beneficial to conduct a full investigation instead of relying on a
ere's a contort to the "magnificence predisposition," the possibility that physically appealing people remunerated socially and naturally: Lovely ladies might be off guard when looking for employments in which appearance is considered insignificant.
There is a misperception that one cannot be charged for a sexual crime against their spouse. That is not true. In almost every state, the sexual assault laws have been extended to cover spousal sexual abuse. It can no longer be accepted at face-value that the sex act between married couples did not involve sexual abuse. If the spouse refused to participate in the sex act and was forced to have sex under a threat, or fear of bodily harm, this will be considered sexual abuse and if reported, the perpetrator can be charged.
To bridge the gap of disengagement between students and online harassment programs, the proper solution would be to create a much more interactive and personal program. Colleges should biannually hold guest speakers who have experienced sexual assault and implement collaborative discussions and trainings so that students can act against sexual assault rather than be bystanders. This collaborative effort between the student body and school will raise awareness and help create a culture that makes environments like frat parties much less perilous. Making sexual assault a subject that one self-reflects through online is the complete opposite of how the programs should be presented. Research about the different methods of teaching sexual
This paper looks to achieve a better perspective of how infidelity is viewed through the lens of different cultures, and how it impacts these cultures, specifically looking at African-American, Hispanic-Americans, and Asian-American cultures. The topic of cultural views on infidelity in general terms is understood as there being unfaithfulness between partners in a relationship, whether it be emotional, sexual, or a combination of both. It is for the most part a behavior frowned upon worldwide. There are many reasons why infidelity may occur within a relationship. Individuals that do not feel emotional support or feels apathetic run a greater risk for infidelity (Allen et al., 2005). Other risky attitudes include poor communication, which is made up of fewer positive and more negative interactions (Allen et al., 2008).
I do feel like social media, texting/sexting increases the probability of an affair because it makes it easier to cheat on your partner due to all of the temptation being displayed constantly and instantly. Additionally, even if this relationship is just communicating via social media or phone, it is still cheating. One of the most important elements in a relationship is being emotional attached to the other person, which one can do without ever meeting one another. I would personally prefer a partner to physically cheat versus share an emotional bond with another person. However, when it comes to finding out if my partner is cheating, I do not purposely seek out, or snoop, to discover whether they are cheating. Though, if there is a situation
“People are inclined to think that a sex offender is a sex offender – that they commit one type of crime (Okada.p.190).”
"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed undefined, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous - Hebrews 23:4" is the most important principle humans must follow when entering marriage. "Infidelity is commonly understood as a violation of the marital disagreement, a betrayal of one's heart, and a threat to the marital bond." (Mao & Raguram, 2009). Infidelity is an act of disobedience to remain faithful to your partner. Although infidelity can be a source of personal satisfaction, it may also lead to marital disruption and divorce which will eventually destroy marriages and families.
In support of previous findings using a binary choice measure (e.g., Buss et al., 1992; DeSteno & Salovey, 1996), crosstabulation revealed 46 men and 31 women found sexual infidelity the most distressing, while 43 women and 31 men found emotional infidelity the most distressing. Further, the relationship between sex and type of infidelity most distressing was significant 2 (1) = 4.81, p = .028. As expected, on a binary choice measure, more men than women tend to find sexual infidelity most distressing, and more women than men tend to find emotional infidelity most upsetting.
Spousal Abuse is a rising issue today in the United States. Spousal Abuse affects individuals of all social classes and gender and both males and females are victims of spousal abuse. Abuse of men is not a topic commonly known or discussed in our society as easily as abuse of females for various reasons. However it is a topic that needs to be examined so men who are being abused know they are not alone and society treats it as problem and not over look it. Bedsides the individuals directly involved it also affects children, other family members and friends that surround them.