Let's approach this analytically. Let us not naively trust our emotions without questioning them, thereby deceiving ourselves. Do my thoughts wend their way in his direction because he interests me? Is it because he is a man of intelligence, every word from his mouth scholastically weighty, all the confidence of premeditation ringing firmly through every sentence? Or is my imagination so charitable toward him because he has bestowed upon me special attention with his keen and slightly narrowed stare, his raised eyebrows, and the expectant parting of his lips? If the former, my colorful fantasies are in a way justified; if the latter, I fall victim to a wild vein of irrational narcissism. Certain that he fixes me in his gaze due to my inexhaustible merits, I allow his admiration of me to erect a reciprocal admiration in me without regard to any traits he might possess. In this case, it is the thought of his affection for me that sends a wave of pleasure down my spine and a burst of color to my cheeks, not my affection for him. He might be of the best …show more content…
When, monitoring carefully my body's chemical reactions, I consider his intelligence, meticulous rhetoric, and wry wit -- all amiable traits in a gentleman -- I feel nothing. Conversely, when I think of the occasions in which his unrelenting stare has held me captive, my heartbeat quickens, my cheeks redden, and that curiously light feeling in the stomach I have heard described as "butterflies" begins to emerge. Why would his gaze incite such a reaction? Surely his curious practice of staring, unblinking and unsmiling, like doctor somberly analyzing a troubling X-Ray, should disturb and confuse me rather than excite me. The fact that it does not leads me to conclude that my mild obsession is not the result of rational emotion, but of foolish pride. Moreover, with reason as my impetus, I banish this illogical emotion, and will entertain such nonsense no
According to the theoretical approaches of Heinz Kohut and Otto Kernberg, normal personality will develop healthy and stable self-regard. However, when high self-esteem is taken too far, one can develop an over-inflated sense of self-image. This need for attention and an overstated sense of self-admiration is best described as narcissism. In severe cases, narcissism can develop into a narcissistic personality disorder. According to The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual IV, one who suffers from a narcissistic personality disorder is at risk for violence.
“As I must therefore conclude that you are not serious in your rejection of me, I shall chuse to attribute it to your wish of increasing my love by suspense, according to the usual practice of elegant females.” (pg 75)
This story is a myth, which talks about a man and a beauty woman that is a nymph. Echo had the nymph beauty and Narcissus is the person Echo loved dearly, so she was like Narcissus stocker and at same time her crush. She followed him everywhere by his footsteps, but he didn’t know. She waited impatience for him to figure out that she was following him. Until one day he dropped something walking so he had to go back and he heard something following him, so he shouted loudly who’s there. She replied “here”, but he looked around and didn’t see anyone, so he said come out then Echo said come and he still didn’t see anyone. So Narcissus went about his business and never knew Echo was stocking him or his crush.
The true nature of obsession manipulates a person’s character, forcing them to act in unusual ways, as if possessed by an involuntary need. An obsessed mind becomes intensely absorbed in the subject of the obsession to an extent that drives away the truth and realism in their values, morals and perceptions. William Shakespeare manifests this idea of an involuntary change in character in the play “Othello”, and with a similar approach this idea is identified by Scott Spencer in the novel “Endless Love” and is further explored in “Obsession”, a poem written by DaMoyre. Throughout each of these texts, the composers’ use of characterization depicts the true nature of obsession with themes of jealously, revenge and, as a consequence, madness.
Although he is learning what he need to know, he cannot help but stare at the magnificent river before him, at first ignoring all the warning signs of danger. Twain says “I stood like one bewitched. I drank it in, in a speechless rapture” (Twain). Romance in a relationship also relates to what Twain says. For instance, when one first meets their new romance partner, it is very exciting and one only observes the beauty in the other person. Also, the couple starts having feelings and emotions that cloud one’s mind of the dangerous warning signs, even though they are right in front of them. In addition, as the couple goes deeper into the relationship, they ignore or just do not want to see the signs of danger they face from the love of their
No Exit by Jean Sartre is a play based on the concept of hell. In No Exit, hell is a room where prisoners are placed for eternity with other people. This type of hell proved to be a very effective form of torture. Estelle a prisoner of hell, believes she was mistakenly placed in the wrong room. Estelle is portrayed as a narcissistic woman. Although Estelle seems harmless, her presence affects Credeau and Inez torturously. By portraying Estelle’s homophobic behavior and low self esteem, Sartre establishes her role in the play as the tormentor of everyone in the room including herself.
I cover three dimensions of the beautiful fool: her allure for men, her manipulation of them, and the impact of this on her happiness.
"He possessed an extra vigor, a heightened confidence in himself, a serene capacity for affection..."(194)
have a constant need for admiration while at the same time lacking of empathy for
Narcissistic personality disorder is a personality disorder that is marked by a broad pattern of grandiosity, need for admiration, and lack of empathy. Therefore, many people that have a narcissistic disorder they may take advantage of others. In our society today there has been more people that have came out as a narcissistic, for example the president talking down on women for being chubby, overweight etc. It's has because a problem as a whole because they are selfish and have self-esteem problem and want others to take action for them I think that the way people may act whether it's negative or positive they are having a narcissistic behavior by their actions or by what they may be saying. I think that even parents could be narcissistic
Mr. Kapasi is a tour guide from India who encounters a young, American tourist who catches his eye after a few conversations. Mrs. Das considers his job “romantic” (para. 60) which sparks a light in Mr. Kapasi and changes his common view of Mrs. Das to a look of desire. In his private thoughts, Mr. Kapasi realized he had never considered what he does as anything special and neither did his wife, so when Mrs. Das said she thought his job was romantic, he was flattered and immediately was intoxicated by her as a result. Also, Mrs. Das did not act in a romantic way towards her
The Malignant Narcissist have a grandiose ego and can perceived as cruel and without a conscious. This type of narcissism can be dangerous to be around due to their need to engage in acts of humiliation and pain. Prone to aggression, impulsivity, and do not have restraint on their emotions. Consequently, they don’t have the ability to show real feelings and as a result, can become physically abusive. A malignant narcissist does not show empathy towards others so, are more likely to inflict harm onto others without have feelings of regret and even more, find enjoyment in the pain they provoke. They often view themselves to be of huge importance and constantly need to feel powerful over others. Can exaggerate their achievements and can only associate
This painting portrays the story of Narcissus, a young boy. The story is from Greco-Roman mythology, which tells about the young boy falling in love with his own reflection. Narcissus surrounded by a dark and void background is focused on his own reflection in water on the ground. Narcissus shows the border with his arms, and he loves his own reflection. Caravaggio used contrast, and created the illusion of three-dimensional forms. The water looks like you can fall in, with intensity created by shading and contrast.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), also known as Narcissism and often mistakenly shortened to Narcism, is a mental disorder in which a person has an inflated sense of self-importance and egoism (MayoClinic). The word Narcissism comes from a mythical Greek being named Narcissus (Etym). Narcissus had stunning features, and when he saw his beauty reflected in a body of water, he fell in love with his own reflection. He became so obsessed that he did not leave for food or water and soon died. When his body vanished, a flower took his place which, from that moment on, would carry his name (Echo). In 1898, a psychologist by name of Havelock Ellis made the first known comparison between Narcissus and a patient and Paul Nacke, a German psychiatrist,
D.H Lawrence 's ideas of love and interpersonal attraction are nothing if not polarizing. His distillation of love to an animalistic desire can be seen as either the height or death of romanticism. One may argue that such uncontrollable hormonal puppeteering undermines the human element of restraint or a more noble idea of love as unique companionship. In a sense, Lawrence challenges the notion of separation between and the beasts; he suggests the protestant-fueled traditions of courtship are not a sign of human elevation, but a convolution of instinct that is as primal as the lust of thirst. However, Lawrence may also represent the life of romanticism, shaping such animal drive into the current of a more galvanistic construct of romance.