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Essay about Ladies and Gentlemen

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“Ladies & Gentlemen”
Meerim Umetalieva
Strayer University

Castiglione’s The Book of the Courtier is a sort of guide to the qualities expected of ladies and gentlemen of the court. Book of the work is a long conversation on the proper station of the court ladies.
The discussion on the Court lady began from an argument over the proper way to tell a joke to a woman. The Court lady was to have cautiousness, continence, and fairness, to "shun affectation," be graceful and well mannered, modest, clever, never jealous or insulting, loyal and in good repute with her mistress and skilled. For her more than for the gentleman it was important to have good looks and to appear virtuous at all times so as to avoid suspicions of immodest behavior, …show more content…

Another highly recommended quality of the Court lady was virtue. Virtue for her meant maintaining purity and moral excellence. This quality of virtue was also discussed for the gentleman but in a different sense and of much less importance. Virtue was to be sacred for the Court lady, and she was to do all she could to protect it from falsehoods, rumors and bad repute, for without her virtue, she could achieve nothing and have no honor.
The Court lady's areas of knowledge were to be similar to the gentleman’s. She was to know the humanities, Greek, Latin, the poets, orators and historians, and even things that she herself did not practice, like sport, to help her be a better judge of the gentlemen of the Court. It was also expected that she would be skilled in painting, literature, dancing and games.
Essentially, the Court lady and gentleman were very much alike, only differing slightly with regards to the ideas of virtue, chastity, femininity, gracefulness and modesty. The given social expectations, manners, and areas of knowledge were virtually identical for both.
Interesting to notice that the book mentions that men and women are equally important because together they work towards the highest purposes of life, especially procreation. He also gives numerous examples of exemplary women "who have waged wars and won glorious victories,

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