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Lady Brett Ashley Analysis

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"I was planning to murder mainly women as an act of revenge because of the life they gave me. I attack [them] because I grew up to believe them as a weaker part of the human breed. All women need to die and hopefully next time I can [gouge] their eyeballs out” (Bruk). This excerpt is from a 17 year old boy’s journal who stabbed and attempted to murder three women merely because he is still a virgin. He believed that he “had no choice” but to kill women because of what they did to him. Or even better said, what they did not do to him. Although this case of misogyny is extreme, it represents America’s views on women. Most men will not kill women for abstaining from sex with them but they will be angry because they believe women owe them something. …show more content…

She is a strong human being. She tries to fit in with the men. She wants to feel equal to them. She even refers to herself as a “chap.” She approaches men and converses with them as if gender barriers do not exist. But this is not the problematic part about her. People believe that her lust is an issue (Saleh). Critics think that since she is a woman, she should be settled down with one man instead of having sex with many different men. They think her behavior is immoral. But they hardly consider Brett’s psyche whatsoever. Brett’s husband would make her sleep on the floor and would “tell her he’d kill her.” He even “slept with a loaded service revolver.” Brett had to constantly fear for her life because of this hateful man. Because of this trauma, she has lost the ability to trust men (). She has to keep her guard up constantly and instead of waiting to find a good man to come along, she gave up. She could not find a man who man could satisfy her emotions but that does not mean she should not let anyone satisfy her physically. Condemning her is inconsiderate. Calling her a whore is ignorant. Even if she were not traumatized by her former husband, degrading her for having sex would still be wrong. A man has sex with numerous women and no one would care. A women has a lot of sex and she is a slut. But truthfully, a woman having sex just makes her a human …show more content…

People believe that Brett has “friendzoned” Jake because she rejects him even though he is a nice guy. Men often believe that being nice to a woman means that she will have sex with him. He believes that she owes him something. But this frame of mind is sickening. On Urban Dictionary, one of the most popular definitions of the word “friendzoned” states that the average guy in the friendzone is “nice, intelligent, funny, [has] great wit,” “cares about other people, whether they are strangers, friends or lovers,” and “the last thing [he] would ever do is hurt a woman.” This is extremely disheartening because how can such great guys be rejected by women? Oh, wait. Here’s the problem. The user who penned this brilliant definition went on to attack women by saying that they all date “lousy, self-centered pricks” causing them to “complain about how awful [their lives are], wondering why every guy they date turns out to be a complete moron.” Maybe women really are just idiots and completely blind to how great these “nice guys” are. Or maybe women have complete control over their relationships and men cannot deal with that so they whine and cry about being friendzoned. Although the latter is most likely correct, those die hard meninists will argue for the first option because apparently the oppression of heterosexual white men exists in

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