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Love And Loss In The Wanderer's The Wanderer

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The major themes were mourning of the lost, enduring pain of one’s heart, yearning for dear one’s love, and putting time as a fault for these grievances.
In The Wanderer, the man mourns for his former position of a warrior who had a great lord, friends, and joy. He sought for comfort and a companion -- “One acquainted with pain understands how cruel a traveling companion sorrow is for someone with few friends at his side” (line 29-31)—but he soon forces himself to endure pain by stating that “A wise man must be patient, not too hot of his heart nor hasty of speech…A man should hold back his boast until … when he truly knows to direct his heart on the right path” (line 65- 72) and “ A good man holds his words back, tells his woes not too soon, baring his inner heart before knowing the best way, an eorl who acts with courage” (line 112-113). He then blames the time by stating that his friends disappeared so suddenly from his life like seagulls flying away from shifting waves (line 45-48).
Similarly, in The Wife’s Lament, she mourns for her husband who became separated with her because of exile. She also forces herself to endure the pain –“If ever anyone should feel anguish, harsh pain at heart, she should put on a happy appearance while enduring endless sorrow…” (line 42-45). She stated: “ A happy pair we had promised each other, that death alone would ever divide us, and nothing else” (line 21-23), but “All that is changed; our nearness once is now as though it never had

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