Mama’s Gone
She had been sick for a year, at least. The reason for her illness went undiagnosed, that is, until three days before she went away. A doctor finally said, “Osteoarthritis-- it’s treatable.” We blew a sigh of relief. Three days later relief was nullified-- forever. I discovered my mother gone, and her leaving left a hole in my life, heart, and soul.
Saturday, July 25, 1998, started out with a drive to Eckerd Drug across the city of Norman to pick up more prescriptions for my mother, who had been throwing up and suffering from diarrhea all night long. When I returned home she took all five of her medications plus the three new ones. I went back to bed and tried to sleep, since I had had
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For some reason, I looked at Erin’s digital clock in her car at 8:13 p.m. and said to Erin, “Mom’s been so sick, and I’m so scared that she’s not going to live much longer.”
“Don’t say that. I’m sure she’ll be fine,” said Erin.
“But I’m really scared.”
“It’ll be okay,” Erin tried to reassure me. Little did we know.
We drove around for an hour longer, became bored and went home. When we got back to my house, Erin, Lisa, and Gavin stayed in the living room as I went down the hall to let Powder, our dog, outside to go to the bathroom. I walked around my mother’s bed to the patio door and opened it and called for Powder to go out. He was lying on my mother’s bed at her feet. I called to him, “Come on, Powder, go out.” I was calling as quietly as I could; since, I didn’t want to wake up my mom. She needed her rest after last night. But he just whined and wouldn’t move. I finally went over to him, picked him up, and put him outside. He just sat outside the door and stared in at me.
I thought his behavior was weird but turned to exit her bedroom, walking cautiously in the dark, trying not to wake her. As I got about five steps across the room, at the foot of her bed I realized she wasn’t snoring. I stopped, stood perfectly still, and held my breath so I could hear her breathing. Nothing. I quietly crossed to the other side of
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It was a summer day and I was sitting under the shade in the backyard when I heard the car’s wheels pull up to the driveway. It was my owner “Dad” as Christi would say, when even her fathers name is actually David. I don’t know why she calls him that. I peered through the slits of the picket fence. All I could see was a portion of the car and some of the drive way. Then I saw Christi hop out and she sounded excited. I couldn't see because they left the driveway and I heard them go into the house. I was waiting for them to open the back door as usual. Then I heard the door click and it came open Christi was sitting there with a poodle in her arms. “Clifford this is your new sister.”
I heard the click of the lock and my mom pushed the door open. We were greeted with an excited Coco. Her tail would wag furiously from left to right, making a thumping noise against the furniture and shakes her entire body in the process. My shoulders relax, and I did not realize how good it feels to be home. My brother pushes past me. The stench coming from his dirty and ripped up football jersey made my nose wrinkle. He rushes ahead to take a shower before dinner. That’s when a familiar smell hits me. A growling noise came from deep inside my stomach, wanting to be fed after a long tiring Thursday at school.
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For this narrative, I interviewed my mom, Amanda Lopez. At first, she seems mean. That’s very blunt but it’s true. My mom is a very guarded and self-reserved person. She does have manners and she is nice but, she won’t open up immediately to a new person. She is also very hard working and independent. She wasn’t born with these qualities, she went through a lot of different struggles, but that’s how she ended up where she is today.
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