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Marriage And Marriage : The Rise Of Marriage

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Introduction
In the past, marriage is a necessary process of life. It was very unusual for people to delay marriage or stay single for their whole life. Marriage was just like a custom that everyone needed to follow. However, according to the research of Anderson and Payne (2016): “In the mid-1950s, the median marriage age at first marriage was at a record low of just over 20 for women and 22 for men, but by 2014, the median age is 27.9 for women and nearing 30 for men (p.1)”. The data shows that there is an apparent late marriage tendency, which means that American people delay their marriage about six years later than 50 years ago. There is a Chinese old saying that marriage is the tomb of love, which shows young people’s hesitation and fear of marriage. What caused this trend? Why has marriage become less attractive today? Is it a phenomenon that happened by accident or an inexorable trend that is happening all over the world?
Body
The first reason is that as time goes by, people’s minds also develop. Firstly, more and more people prefer to choose partner by themselves and have the pursuit of free love, which happened in most Asian, especially in Japan. As professor Retherford and Matsukura (2001) said: “Decline in arranged marriage and rise of love marriage make people’s marriage to be later (p.87)”. On the one hand, people would have more time to find their partner rather than meeting a person that their parents appointed. On the other hand, when the society accept

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