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Mourning and Grief

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Sigmund Freud, born on May 8th, 1856, was the founder of psychoanalysis. Psychoanalysts believed that human behavior, experience, and cognition were largely determined by irrational drives which were mostly unconscious. Freud further developed the mechanisms of repression and established a clinical method for treating psychopathology through dialogue between a patient and their respective psychoanalyst. Though psychoanalysts are not very common in our current day, other forms of psychotherapy have developed that employs diverging ideas, originating from Freud’s original thoughts and approach to studying the mind (Boeree). Freud went on to later synthesize a theory of what he believed happened during grief. According to his theory, we …show more content…

The book insinuates that repeating the story is a way of processing and accepting the death, claiming that with each retelling, the pain lessens (Smith and Segal). Another primary reconciliation need of mourning is the development of a new self-identity that follows the conclusion of decathexis and precedes the beginning of cathexis. Decathexis and cathexis, both terms coined by Sigmund Freud, define the process of withdrawing energy from an idea or instinctual object and the latter explaining the gradual weakening and separation of an emotional bond (Boeree). Freud believed that energy that was gained after conquering the two phases of death acknowledgement can be gradually reinvested into new people, objects, or activities. After people lose a loved one they feel as if a part of them died. Society has molded us to give ourselves meaning in relation to the lives of those around us (i.e. I am a father, a brother, a friend). But, after the conclusion of the loved ones life, we no longer know who we are or what we are supposed to do. Self-help groups attempt to fill bereaved ones lives with activities that may interest them in the hopes that these activates will either get their mind off the recent death or aid in helping the individual reinvent themselves.

Works Cited

Boeree, C. George. "Sigmund

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