The first few years of my life were confusing, to say the least, in terms of language. Since my family had immigrated to the US when I was only two years old, I started to learn two languages at the same time. Television provided me with small bits of English, while my parents spoke only Russian. In a way, my first knowledge of the English language came from watching Scooby Doo and Pokémon.
When I finally started grade school, I was placed into an ELL program. This placement made myself feel even worse about my English abilities and led me to use language sparingly. When I used language to speak to the class, I deliberately chose the words and the order they were in. Consequently, I found it easier to be quiet than struggle to make sentences. I became known as the shy, quiet kid, a title that I still have not grown out of. Despite this, my cautious replies made sure that my peers would understand what I was saying, and so I wouldn’t have to repeat anything.
I was so embarrassed by the fact that my English skills didn’t match up with the rest of the kids that it has led me to continue to be quiet. Now, years later, I still tiptoe around conversations with strangers in order to put forth my best English skills. Luckily, I find that it helps both parties understand what the other says.
In a way, my greatest insecurity as a child has led to myself using language in a certain way. It has taught me that to be clear, you must be careful. That enunciation of words is necessary to
When I was in elementary school, it was discovered that I had issues with communication and was unable to properly form sounds and letters. It was difficult for me to understand the material in my classes and I ended up falling behind my other peers. Eventually, it got to the point where the school had to think about holding me back. At this point a teacher of mine stepped in and suggested I try speech therapy. Once it was realized that I had a communication problem, the school decided there was no reason to hold me back. My speech disorder, however, was not a simple fix.
1) 1.1 Effective communication is important in developing positive relationships with children, young people and adults in all walks of life and at any age whether it be with relatives, friends, neighbours, colleagues, associates or even total strangers. Also, effective language skills are essential for children to access the curriculum. In the classroom, spoken language is the main way that teachers teach and children learn. Therefore if the skill of communicating in an effective manner isn’t learned or grasped at an early age then it could lead to various complications in terms of interacting with other people, be it in the home or
Coming from a foreign country where english is a second language, I didn’t know how to communicate. How was I going understand the information in school? How will I create new friendships without speaking? All these questions plagued me. As I sat quietly everyday trying to avoid making a sound, hoping not to get called on to answer a question or speak out loud in the class, I was trying to make clear of what these people were saying. I realized that just sitting there and listening wouldn't help me better speak English; I had begun trying to speak english with my father so I can become more fluent. After months of dedication, I was understanding and speaking a language completely different to mine. That was by far the most difficult
This was not surprising, nor was it an issue, since my parents both spoke Spanish at home. I recall my mother carrying around a Spanish-to-English dictionary religiously, pulling it out in grocery stores or doctor’s appointments to able to communicate with the strangers around her. The language barrier first became an issue at age four, when I was set to start preschool. I could not go in blindly, and so in the months leading up to the day my parents spent hours teaching me the little English they had acquired.
I had a hard time pronouncing words that contained the letter r; therefore, I had to attend speech class twice a week. Going to a speech class helped me correct my language, but lowered my self-confidence. I was that student that did not want to read or speak in front of the class because my language was constantly being corrected. I still sometimes feel very uncomfortable speaking in front of people. Therefore, I have to remind myself that confidence is the key to success. I realize from my experience when I was a child, that if teachers or adults over correct children, especially when it comes to language differences, children are more apt to be silent and not talk. Children tend to lack social needs and self-confidence because they are told their language is bad or not right according to the American Standard
Even worse, I couldn't utter a single word in English and was forced to use hand gestures to communicate.To my horror, a speech therapist took me out of class everyday, as kids snickered behind me. Soon enough,I was drawing attention to myself everyday-and not in a good way. A group of boys always huddled around me during recess and would taunt me to say sentences in English, as I stood silently, praying it would be over soon. Over time, those comments began to pile up and eventually, something in me broke.I had to
Communicating with my peers has been a hefty struggle with me for years. For me to speak with one partner let alone a whole class was challenging enough. Through elementary, I used to speak in quiet stutters that required an ear full to get a word.
Trying to communicate, but words aren’t used, writing isn’t used, it’s simply impossible. When communicating with others we use words, we speak, write, and read. But if one can’t perform those tasks, communication is simply out of reach. The essay “Homemade Education” by Malcolm X, a minister and a civil right activist, describes how his experience of learning how to read and write in prison changes his life as he became both an articulate speaker and writer. Similarly, Helen Keller, an author and political activist shares her experience being both deaf and blind in an excerpt called “A Word for Everything.” She explains how learning a new language opened her to all the joys and horrors of the world. I, like many other authors, also had an experience concerning language and how it changed my perspective of the world. Speaking Chinese and Vietnamese as my first languages in the United States made me run into societal barriers and restrictions. However, by learning English, I could open myself to new possibilities and experiences. By learning and struggling through the experience of language; new perspectives are opened up such as how one views themselves, the world, and society.
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