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Essay on My Grandmother: A Powerful Woman

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My Grandmother: A Powerful Woman

Stella Stefanides was born fifty-four years ago in a small village by the Greek-Bulgarian border. Her life reads like a fictional story about deprivation, loss, love and hardships. This woman, whom I am referring to happens to be my grandmother. Her life is truly inspiring because she has overcome many difficulties and continues to be the glue that holds my family together.

Stella was born in the time of the civil war in Greece. Her parents had many babies but they would all die after being removed from their mothers’ womb, which was very common at the time due to the lack of medical assistance. After dealing with the death of five babies, Theano, Stella's mom, was convinced that her dreams of …show more content…

Stella was heartbroken! Her dreams of studying in Athens vanished and in sunk harsh reality.

During one of her many visits to the stream for water, she was spotted by a young man named Ioannis Ioakimidis. He was taken aback by her black waist length hair, her porcelain complexion and her beautiful face. So, Ioannis went home and told his mother that he found his (future) bride. The next day, Ioannis and his mother, Eleni, descended to Stella's home to ask for her parents’ permission for marriage. Stella had no say in the matter, but she fell madly in love with Ioannis. He was polite, well mannered and handsome. So they were wed. She was seventeen and he was twenty. Shortly after their union, Stella became pregnant with their first child. She still worked at the fields picking cotton and potatoes well into her due date. When it was time for the baby's arrival, she was taken to a nearby home, where her child was born; a baby girl they would name Eleni (my mother). Eleni was a healthy baby. Stella did not experience what Theano had to endure. The baby's arrival was celebrated throughout the village. Given the small population, the birth of the baby was a joyous event.

After Eleni was born, Ioannis and Stella were finding it hard to make ends meet. Money at the time was scarce due to political conflicts and the instability of the Greek government. At that time, a friend approached them with the idea of moving to Germany, where there was a

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