Have you ever had that feeling?That feeling where your life changes so much at once you think you are dreaming?I have!It wasn’t just the first day of school ,or something either.It was the first time I saw my sister!
Ever since I could remember I wanted an “er” (that’s the word I used instead of sibling before I knew what sibling meant)being an only child I didn't have many kids to play with,which is one of the reasons I wanted a sibling.Little did I know I was actually going to get one.
After a couple of years of the topic of a sibling,my family finally tried to decide on the subject.My mom told me to go get a coin,and I got a dime we split into two teams.Me and my mom v.s my dad.My dad was the no team and me and my mom were the yes
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A couple of years later when I was in second grade my family just returned from a cruise,and my mom took a pregnacy test, causing us to figure out my mom was pregnant. A couple of months later my mom took me and my granny(she was visiting at the time)to this place that does baby related things including figuring out if you were going to have a boy or a girl.My mom did that and guess what!I was going to have a baby sister!Also they had these things called Heartbeat Bears which are stuffed animals that made a heartbeat sound recorded from your baby,two of those, a whale for me ,and a bunny for my sister.
Just three days before I was to go to third grade my family went to the hostpital.Today was the day my mom was going in labor!When we got there I was told to stay in the waiting room with my granny (she was visiting again).She went and bought some snacks from the snack machine while I sat down and read a book I brought.After what seemed like hours my dad came and brought us to my mom’s hospital room.On the way I saw doors that said something like”It’s a Boy!” or “It’s a Girl!”. I also smelled the smell of paint since there was some reconstruction nearby.When we arrived at my mom’s room there was a picture of a pink flower,a pink picture of an elephant on one table,pink streamers hanging from the ceiling,and balloons held by a pink balloon weight.My mom was holding the cutest thing I ever saw,my sister.After everyone giving presents to my mom and holding my sister It was my turn to hold her.She was so cute,her tiny little body was all red,her eyes were barely open,and she had this one strand of hair.The cutest thing was when her tiny little hand wrapped itself around my
I had always, always, always, always, wanted an little brother. If I could have one thing, anything, I would have wanted my mom to give me an little brother. One day my cousins adopted an cute little girl. I hate my cousins, by the way. They have way too many kids and they always smell like pee and baby puke. Once I saw Jonicia (The oldest, who is an judgmental bratt) hold a baby, the babby puked and she rubbed it into the carpet. EWW! Anyway,
If someone were to ever tell my younger self that I would one day be one of five siblings, I would have never believed them. Unquestionably, my siblings are an enormous part of who I am; aspiring me to become an intelligent and an affectionate human being. Life doesn't always hurl obstacles in your way, but when it does, it can turn out to be completely disparate and even fascinating from the original thought. At the ripe old age of eleven years old, I was expected to step up to the plate and take care of my new adopted siblings, David and Alysa. Countless responsibilities, circumstances, and a world of authority and gratitude have shaped me along the way due to that one event. Indeed, I am grateful that my parents went through with the adoption because even though I had an impact on my adopted siblings, they have propelled me to become an exceptional brother, son, friend, and student.
Being the oldest sibling you need to be more responsible. Needing to balance out the immaturity that your sibling may have, and because they are not as mature as you are you need to be the “bigger” person and be more responsible and take on the responsibilities of a mature older sibling. For instance, I was in the car with my two younger siblings. I’m sitting in the front seat while they are in the back. My younger brother started to kick my chair. When I ask him to stop he began to mimic me. Now being the oldest out of the two I had to be mature and handled the situations maturely. For one thing, I had to set a good example for my brother who is also setting an example for my younger sister, so that would mean that I’m dealing with setting an example for both my younger siblings not just my younger brother. Therefore, I didn’t turn around and mimic him back or yell at him.
Identical. To me, having an identical twin brother is very uncommon. I enjoy having a twin brother because whenever when do anything together we are very competitive. We both push each other to do better for example if we have the same class and I have a higher grade he will work harder to get a better grade than me so it pushes us both to do better. Lastly we have a bond that will ever be broken. Overall having a twin is something that most people wish for But I was lucky enough to get
One night as I searched for my mother, my dad told me she was not feeling like herself. My dad told me to let her rest that night and I could talk to her the following morning. As I started to wake up the next morning my father was sitting at the foot of my bed and informed me I’d be spending the day with my Aunt Michelle because my mother had a doctor’s appointment. I could not wrap my head around why I would not be attending this appointment but had attended all the others. Later that evening once again both my parents came into my room but this time without smiles. With a shaky voice my mom began to tell me she had been diagnosed with Preeclampsia and her illness was progressing quickly. Now with tears running down her face she continued
Having siblings can be both a good thing and bad thing. In “Seven Ways Your Siblings May Have Shaped You” By Lindsay Lyon the article was about different situations that I or anyone of us may have experienced when having a sibling in life. “How Our Siblings Shape Us” by Naomi Schaefer Riley is about both the good and bad things about having a sibling and what I or you might or may have experienced. Whether you have an older sibling or a younger sibling, scientific facts, as well as personal experience, show that having a sibling can strongly affect you in the long run. Some of the things that can or may strongly affect me, you and your siblings are success, relationships, and rivalries.
There’s evidence that the presence of a sibling can help a child’s adaptation in many stressful situations and that sibling relationships remain important sources of support through childhood and adulthood. (Rebecca, Children and Youth Services Review) Sonya Leathers, an associate professor from the University of Illinois is an expert in child welfare/behavior. In one of her studies she stated “Brothers and sisters provide emotional support, comfort, and a sense of stability, belonging, and continuity. They may serve as allies, confidants, companions, and sources of love.”
To those without siblings, have you ever wished for another sibling? For those who don’t have siblings, have you ever considered that person to be like a brother or a sister to you? Any person that has had a sibling-like relationship can testify that a sibling is a pain you suffer through everyday of your life. Take Bianca from Taming of the Shrew. Her sister, Katherina, ties her up out of jealousy because she doesn’t have any suitors while Bianca is trying to decide amongst the three she has. While not all sibling relationships go to extremes like this, there are some that exist to this degree. In these scenarios, no matter the hardship, no matter the pain, whether or not you have a sibling, it will take time to learn to love the other person like a sibling. It may just be a matter of trying to understand the conflict or how the other person expresses themselves, but it’s always good to come to an understanding with each other.
How cool would it be to have a sibling that looked just like you? It’d be pretty awesome if you ask me. A built in best friend that just so happened to be the same age and look the same as you. I would really enjoy having a twin, especially in as a child. I would have always had someone to play with and that person would have also been the same size and age as me. I think we would have had really close bond.
another baby. I was so excited because I always wanted a baby sister. I had an older sister but
According to the article “7 Ways Your Siblings May Have Shaped You” written by Lindsay Lyon, siblings: buffer stress, provide good practice, help raise our vulnerability to mental-health issues, raise the chance of bad behavior, inspire us to be different, increase romantic jealousy, and impact a person’s love life. Siblings play a vital role in the way a person will act and carry themself in their day to day life. 80% of children today grow up with a brother, sister, or both. Something that is interesting to me is that children are more likely to grow up with a sibling than to grow up with a father.
It was a cool friday evening. We had just finished scrimmaging at Fisher Field, and we were all loading onto the bus. We made our way to the school and went home. I remember calling my dad so he can come and pick me up. Once my dad came around I was thinking about what my mom made for dinner, and how much homework I had to do that night. I got home safely, and started walking towards the house until I hear my little sister coming up to the door to greet me. I found it strange, as she never does this. I greeted her back, and made my way to my room to put my bag away. I made my way back downstairs to go and eat, but I saw my mom sitting there and smiling. She told me to come over and guess what she had on her lap. I had an idea to what she
Siblings are a so nerve wrecking at times ,and having a spoiled sibling is even worse .
Growing up I was an only child, but I remember always wishing that I had an older sibling or was born a twin or that maybe someday I would be a big sister myself. My Aunt Sherry lived close by while my cousin Morgan, who is eight months older than I, and myself grew up and we were extremely close;, she still feels more like my younger but older sister to this day. When we were five and six years old my Aunt Sherry had fraternal twins, a girl and a boy, Macey and Collin. Now I felt that I had three siblings. Come the third grade, when Morgan and I were eight and nine years old, my Aunt Sherry moved to Indiana taking my cousins with her. I had never wanted siblings as much as I did at this point.
I thought myself to respect all people even if i didn't like them but still had aspect them and saw everyone as equal to each other and not have one dominant the other. What i am saying I know how it feels to have more limitation based on who you are. I know where they’re coming from. But overall having siblings had made more laughter, more learning opportunities and learning from their mistakes, and most all forever lasting friendship. I am very thankful to have family and friends to encourage me in my goals on what I want do and who I want to become.