A Tough Move It was a bright and sunny day. All the kids from ages 2-12 were outside playing and enjoying in the sun. The other middle schoolers and high schoolers were sitting inside their house in their room and texting their friends or “doing homework”. My mom says that with this much technology people have stopped communicating with their voices and are now always texting. I was in my room doing my weekend homework, when my dad rang the family discussion bell and me and my brother Logan came down and sat around the family discussion spot. No one spoke and it started to feel awkward. However I didn’t have the courage to talk and break the silence. Logan took his phone out and started texting his friends. Mom finally broke the silence by saying, “How is your weekend so far?” She usually says somethings like “how’s your day”, “how is your weekend”, or “how are you doing with your life” when she doesn’t know how to start a conversation between people. “Really good,” I said actually starting the conversation. “So why did you call us here?” My mom and dad sighed and looked at eachother and my dad said, “We have to … move. My work got moved to Seattle.” I was shocked, I had to have misheard him, “I’m sorry dad, but could you please repeat that.” “We going to have to move to Seattle,” my dad repeated. Now I probably heard him right, but moving from Miami, Florida to Seattle, Washington. Where did dad’s job find a place across the world, I thought, if we’re actually moving, then my best friend, my school, my favorite ice cream shop, and my favorite library would all go away. I really couldn’t believe it. “So we’re moving from here to Seattle, Washington,” I said almost shouting. “What about Cass, the ice cream, the warm weather, the beach, the library, and the swamps and marshes. Where would all that go? Disappear into thin air?” My mom sighed and looked at me, “We know that this would be hard for the two of you, but we need to be there by Monday. Dad and I already booked the tickets and we’re leaving on Sunday. We’ve already packed our stuff and all you guys have to do is pack your stuff and say all the goodbyes today. We also got you guys out off school.” “WE’RE ARE LEAVING ON SUNDAY,” Logan shouted.
Then it slowly upgraded to smartphones and apps were introduced and text messaging made it simpler to reach anyone. Popular apps tend to be related to social media. These apps are good because it allows communication with anyone in the world. Teenagers are the ones who are on social media and do not know when to stop looking or messaging others. There are people who follow celebrities life to see how they are doing which seems like a waste of time. Teens seem to think they have to be online to be connected and informed of drama that is happening. Users on Snapchat and Instagram seem to think they need to share their life with others by posting what they eat and where they are at. During family gatherings someone has to be on the phone and they rather not socialize with their
Randy Cohen wrote When Texting Is Wrong and published it in The New York Times on July 13, 2009. The article talks about how no one ever agreed to the new age of technology that fell upon the world but instead adapted to it. This is in fact what has happened to the world. Technology has taken over, and people of all ages have had to adapt to the new time period that we have fallen in; however, not all are very fond of the era. It is evident in society that younger and older generations have differing views on technology, cell phones especially. While the younger generation is fine with the world being taken over by computers and cell phones, the older generation is a little more apprehensive about it. Although Cohen is not anti-texting or anti-technology, he explains to parents and bosses, or people of influence, that new manners need to be introduced in everyday life (at home and at work ) as an effort to reduce the impact of emerging technology.
“I think I am going to move back to Indianapolis,” I said. “I left because I was trying to get away and make it on my own, but it’s too hard being away from you, and dad, and Henry. You’re my family and I need you in my life. Plus, there are more opportunities for my artwork to be seen in Indianapolis than there is in that little art colony, Nashville.”
"You'll be alright, Beka. This is a great opportunity for you to make new friends" my mom said when she broke the news.. When my mom told me we were moving she said were moving to a small town, but she never really told me how small the town was.
It was pouring rain the day I moved to Tennessee, which reflected exactly how I felt on the inside. One week before my Junior year of high school, my parents decided to relocate the family six hours away from where I’d lived my entire life—a decision that was not supported by all those involved.
“Where are we going?” She then looked at me and said, “We’re moving to Texas.” Out of all places, Texas? We lived in southern California our whole lives, so moving to Texas was definitely a shock to me. “What about our family and friends?” Her eyes began to water, so I knew talking about it further would only make things worse. Texas. It was stuck in my head and I couldn’t stop thinking about it. The more I thought of it, the worse it sounded. The worst part was that it was so sudden, so it didn’t seem real. Because my parents are divorced, I spent the weekends at my dad’s house. He was torn that I was leaving Riverside, which of course meant that weekend visits would turn
I couldn't believe we were actually leaving Florida. My heart sank when I got into the car. "Why do we have to leave?" I asked my mom as I started to cry. My brother had helped us pack, and he walked up to the car and gave me a hug and said goodbye. Saying goodbye back was probably the hardest thing I've ever had to do. Earlier today a few of my friends dropped by to say goodbye. I love my friends in Florida i didn't want t leave them at all! But, The hardest part of today was leaving all of my family. I don't now what I'm going to do without knowing that they were not going to be a few minutes away anymore. They would be 16 hours away!
“We are moving to Arizona. It’s your decision whether or not you come with us.” As a seven year, old girl, this was one of the hardest things to hear from the woman I was supposed to trust most, my mom. I had to make a decision whether or not to move across the country with my mom and a stranger, or move in with my dad and stay near my family. I immediately responded with “I will be staying in Massachusetts”. Although I knew that this decision would flip my world upside down, I didn’t know how much I would personally change because of it. In that moment, I didn’t know that I wouldn’t be seeing my mom for another year. I didn’t know that our relationship would never be the same again. That one sentence changed the whole course of my life. In that split-second decision, I went from a seven-year-old little girl, blind to the reality of life, into a mature young girl forced to swallow the idea of her mother leaving her behind.
“Me and your father have to leave to the headquarters now but we wanted to tell you to have a great first day at the academy oh and your suitcase is packed and ready to go.” mom said.
“Well, it was. You’ll understand once I will tell you the reason why you are here at the moment, my dear.” he quickly said, as if that was the answer he was waiting for.
“Katherine, come here please!”, I jumped out of bed and came downstairs to see why my parents had called me down.“Pack your stuff Kat. We will be moving in a couple of days”. My first thoughts were how could we leave a place we had called home for the past twelve years. I would be leaving all my childhood friends and relatives and leaving behind all the memories we once cherished.
"Wow, I never knew someone could be so excited to speak to me." I said.
"Not again!" I protested when I heard Mom's news. "Where are we going this time?" We've moved six times in the twelve years since I was born. That's because my Dad's job is to set up offices for his company, and each time he finishes establishing a new one, we move. "California," said Mom. "I'm sorry we have to uproot you again." She opened a map and pointed out the town we'd be moving to, north of San Francisco. She truly sounded sorry, but I could see she was pleased, too, because she's from California. She'd always said Chicago was too noisy for her. For one thing, the elevated railway wasn't far from our apartment. Whenever the trains rumbled past, the chandelier in our living room
I repeated nothing. Mom went into the kitchen to make her specialty, spaghetti and meatball and Dad and I chatted. He said, "I know you don’t want to upset your mother but you can talk to me."
“Mom, did you fall asleep? Nathen and I just got done and we’re about to head back to the house. Are you okay?” I was worried but I hoped that she did not hear it in my voice.