Unique Me Being unique is a quality that everyone fulfills in one way or another. The thing that makes me unique is that I tend to be very humble and confident, yet misunderstood due to my independence. Although, being confident makes me very open to others I also am a very quiet person who enjoys alone time and has no problem being alone due to the high amount of independence I have. Being humble is a feature that comes with my personality. I am a caring and loving person so being humble is big for me. In being humble I am not self centered, I am focused on the happiness of those around me as well as my own. I have always been humble and growing up the trait only grew stronger for me. I am not scared to try new things or put myself in others shoes to understand them more. I have focused on making sure my loved ones are happy before myself and have always followed "God, others, me" in that order. That to me is saying God first, others second, and me third which is where my humbleness comes in. I stay humble and continue to strive and put others before me because that is what being humble is all about. Humbleness has shown me how to forgive easier, how to become more teachable, and how to turn my weakness and negative aspects into strengths and positivity. When I begin to struggle I lean on my humble side to help me get through those things. Being humble helps me to be a leader in the things I do such as teams, groups, or clubs. I feel like I gain more respect from
In numerous books, I noticed how it is looked down upon to be a prideful person. This is a lesson that too many people do not seek knowledge of. Those are the few who do not realize the way that you act towards other is only a reflection of yourself. I have seen up close and personal how being a prideful person can seriously hurt your life. In the Popol Vuh I saw them mention pride countless times and one example of that would be from the story of the twins grandparents healing the Lord. “They had desired the death of Seven Macaw, and they were able to do it. For they saw pride as evil and went to do these things according to the word of Heart of Sky.” (p. 88, PopoVuh). What is evil to one could be good to the other, just as what is good
The humility is act of respect, equality, submission, safe- restring from excessive vanity and can possess moral and/or ethical dimensions, be humble is stay with your feet’s on the ground, don’t feel that you are better than others and you are unique. Because everybody are equal and everybody have the same obligation and right, but sometimes people think that be humble means be poor, humiliate and be silly. But it is quite the opposite I think that in order to win the main thing is to be humble.
Although I can see how being more self confident can help, I don’t understand how people would choose to be more self confident at the cost of becoming arrogant. Odysseus himself is a good example of this, of how pride can get to your head. After escaping from Polyphemus he bragged and yelled out to him telling of how he had tricked him enraging the beast, not caring for the safety of his crew. Not only risking their lives when they should have been safe, but enraging some of his crew as well. In his arrogance he had lost 6 of his crew to Polyphemus, 6 of his crew he could have saved.
Pat Tillman was modest, the word modest means to not boast about accomplishments and Pat Tillman always showed this trait. Tillman presented his modesty when interviewed after a high school football game, he stated, “I didn’t play particularly well. The team played great.” He never wanted to talk about just him, he talked about his team. Another piece of evidence showing Tillman’s modesty, when he talked to people, he never spoke to them as if they were
When people hear the word pride, it’s usually not referred to being positive. Like the need for materialistic objects and a thirst for revenge, pride comes to us instinctively. Saint Augustine says, “It was pride that changed angels into devils; it is humility that makes men as angels.” This quote states that having an unnecessary amount of pride can transform us into beings that we shouldn’t be; turn us into these monsters that others refuse to be around, but having a sense of humbleness can better us in both our perspective of ourselves and others. Whether we are afraid of being wrong and admitting our mistakes or eager to claim credit for the satisfaction of feeling like we’ve accomplished something, pride has the tendency to take over our
It helps me in many situations. When I am trying to get a job and the person hiring sees my confidence and arrogance he respects that and it gives me a better chance at getting a job instead of someone who is more shy and quiet. Also, it hinders me in ways. This is something I need learn to control before it gets me into trouble. Hrothgar told Beowulf, “Do not give way to pride.
A person with integrity is humble – He is more concerned about what is right than about being right. He recognizes principle and puts it ahead of self.
One example of being humble is The Outsiders when Darry and the crew put Johny before them. When Darry gave them a place to hide from the police this was a result of putting others before yourself because if he was to get caught h could be put in jail for helping a fugitive and to make it worse the charge for Johny was murder. The idea of putting others before you can also be explained by the movie outsiders this is an example of putting others before you in example when pony boy decided to go with Johny to hide from the police officers. another way the outsiders put others before him is whe the church set on fire pony
Rilke had the insight that every person had the beauty within their inner selves despite the opinions others may bestow upon them (Rilke 36). This psychological humanistic insight prevents people from losing their confident self-esteems. Likewise, it prevents people from being depressed due to negative self-image. I would just suggest to keep apply this insight into real life situations at a minimum, to avoid arrogance among ourselves.
Pride was believed to be “a high or overweening opinion of one’s own qualities, attainments, or estate, which gives rise to a feeling and attitude of superiority over and contempt for others” (OED 2). This usage of the word pride gives it a negative cynical connotation, describing people as vain, arrogant or belittling other people. An example of this could be when someone famous thanks “all the little people” as seen as in movies and TV as a joke. They are suggesting that they are bigger or greater than others. Pride is not a negative trait to have if it doesn’t get the best of you.
From this article. I have learned pride is not good, speed is not enough and humble is
In the study “Contrasting self-report and consensus ratings of intellectual humility and arrogance” by Benjamin R. Meagher, , , Joseph C. Leman, Joshua P. Bias, Shawn J. Latendresse, and Wade C. Rowatt, the scientists had multiple goals they wanted to achieve. First and foremost, they wanted to find out whether or not intellectual humility and intellectual arrogance are two ends of the same personality trait (like extraversion and introversion). In this study, humility was defined as “having an accurate or moderate assessment of one’s own abilities, being open to new ideas, having a low self-focus, and being able to acknowledge one’s own mistakes” as described by Dr. Chancellor, Dr. Lyubomirsky, Dr. Davis, Dr. Exline, and Dr. Tagney. Therefore, intellectual humility (IH) is humility in an academic setting. This definition that is referenced is extremely important because definitions are very subjective. For example, some people might define broccoli as a delicious green vegetable while others define it as a yucky green vegetable. However, since the authors of the article decided to use this one definition, it gets rid of lots of the ambiguity surrounding the word for our purposes. On the other hand, somebody who is intellectually arrogant (IA) has “‘the inclination to regard a belief as true because it’s their own...’” (Meagher). The second goal was to figure out “under what circumstances are peer ratings useful in providing a reliable
The three types of humility according to Schein are basic humility, optional humility and here-and-now humility. Basic humility is when society dictates that people born into a class structure are due a certain amount of respect. An example of this would be how we deal with our boss’s families. Optional humility is when one achieves their status through their actions and hard work. Most of the leaders in my organization are where they are today because they have worked hard to get there. We treat them with respect not only because of the job, but also because of their hard work. Here-and now humility is the type of humility I think we deal with the most often. One of the gentlemen that I work with from another department that I work
Camille Pissarro says,“ Blessed are they who see beautiful things in humble places where other people see nothing.” Now, think about this quote, what does it mean to you? Modesty is an important part of our lives; something that most of us take for granted. We need to take this in and look around. How could we have forgotten about something so critical? I remember the first time I noticed what it means to be humble.
The saints give us the greatest examples of this life of humility and what it means. In the life of St. Antony, Christian monk from Egypt, there is a story that God, through a vision, showed him the world with the lures and traps that Satan had prepared for human beings. After seeing this, the monk was scared and asked God; Lord, who can escape all of these traps? Antony heard a voice saying, only he who is humble can escape these traps, because God provides his grace to the humble and those who are lowly and meek, but the proud always fall into Satan’s traps. But, Satan does not attempt to attack a humble man.