We are who we are because of all our prior experiences and how we respond to those experiences. Identity creates a path expressing what you do, what you like to do and why you do it. Identity plays a unavoidable and central part in our lives on a daily basis. There is no way around pretending identity doesn’t exist or doesn’t matter. However, doing so could boost your self-confidence; it will not be able to numb the pain or existence of how others view you as an individual. Every single action or little value of importance we take, could not only affect yourself but also others around you. In saying so, it is favorable to practice being thoughtful of others and your surroundings to better your identity as a person.
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After so long of hiding and sneaking around and keeping my feelings to myself not telling my parents, I decided to sit my family down and talk about what had been going on and what I have been keeping from them. With it starting out as a rough and edgy conversation I battled through it and told them everything from beginning to end. Stating that I was tired of hiding my feelings from them, they should know who I am dating, I wanted them to be aware and affiliated, wanting them to accept me and my feelings. After telling them the news, things did not go so well for me, they were shocked, in disbelief, and in an argumentized state of mind with me. For weeks, none of us spoke, they showed an unloving, uncaring side towards me, and I felt purely neglected because of my decision for wanting to be happy. Simply all I had done was follow my heart and for weeks it seemed as if I had committed a crime, in my defense me following my heart and the way they reacted to me doing so, made me feel as if everyone hated me, wanted nothing else to do with me, and made me feel like I had made a huge mistake. Throughout a couple weeks things still remained roughly, days would pass and things would get better eventually to the point my mom and my sister accepted the fact of what I wanted after seeing what makes me happy and knowing I was not going to give
Identity is what defines us as a person. Everyone one on earth has their own unique identity. To showcase my identity, I created a collage of images and descriptive words, called an identi-kit. This identi-kit shows what I feel like is my identity to myself and the others. My identi-kit identifies me as a mixed martial artist. The identi-kit has images of a deadly shark with mixed martial arts gloves on that say mixed martial arts on the front and fight shorts with the words competitor and warrior on them. It also has descriptive words like “killer instinct” and “fight” which describe my spirit. There are three assumptions that come to question when asking about one’s identity. The first is if you were born with this
The concept of Identity is complex through the exploration of relationships and a sense of belonging. This is explored within Tim Winton’s short stories, ‘ Neighbours’ and ‘Big World’, and in Robert Walker’s poem ‘Okay, Let’s be Honest’. Identity can change and evolve depending on belief, change, language and shifting influences.
Most people, unless they choose to be an outsider, want to be considered “cool.” Whether it’s to fit in with a peer group, or clique, or to impress someone in particular, like a member of the opposite sex, or a potential mate. Or possibly to gain something from an individual for financial or social gain (see “Scamming”).
Identity-“Ones personal qualities.”Identiy is something only he or she can fully define. My uncle says I am affectionate,cheerful, and calm. My grandmother sees me as slim, pretty and sweet. My dad described me as perky, cheerful and happy, my mom says beautiful, gentle, and self-conscious. These adjectives describe me accurately, yet they are only abstract versions of me. Adjectives cannot begin to describe me and I aknowlege these descriptions for what they are, a condensed translation from my outward self to the world. It is impossible for anyone to understand me completely because nobody has experienced the things I have. My mother has never cherished a raggedy doll named Katie and my father never
Currently, I am in the process of not only becoming comfortable in my identity, a black queer woman, but, also attempting to find solace in my identity as well. Something that all women, especially black queer women, should achieve in their lifetime. It is that dream that inspires me to travel to experience other cultures and to unite with women from various cultures across the black diaspora. Throughout many cultures, women’s identities are defined by their male counterparts and the labor they provide to them. Therefore, a major goal of mine is to create a space where women are able to exist outside the scope of their relationships with men and live uninhibitedly to become their best selves. That is why I find it pertinent to travel not only
mostly of Caucasian. Although I am a quick learner, it was especially hard for me
Who am I? What is the point of knowing who I am? We are all the same, right? Susie Clevenger, a poet, said that “there is only one you. Stop trying to devalue yourself by trying to be a copy of someone else” (Clevenger, 2013). This encouraged me to accept who I am, instead of looking at others around me to form my identity. On reading “Multicultural Social Work Practice: A Competency-Based Approach to Diversity and Social Justice”, I have discovered how my personal identity was formed by using the Racial/Cultural Identity Development Model and Feminist - Based Identity Model. In addition to exploring my cultural Identity, I will be discussing how prejudice impacted my life and what privileges were given to me because of my identity. Lastly, I will talk about my cultural competence and the plans that I will have in place for me to improve on it.
A person’s identity is shaped by many different aspects. Family, culture, friends, personal interests and surrounding environments are all factors that tend to help shape a person’s identity. Some factors may have more of an influence than others and some may not have any influence at all. As a person grows up in a family, they are influenced by many aspects of their life. Family and culture may influence a person’s sense of responsibilities, ethics and morals, tastes in music, humor and sports, and many other aspects of life. Friends and surrounding environments may influence a person’s taste in clothing, music, speech, and social activities. Personal interests are what truly set individuals apart. An individual is not a puppet
To be an American is to have traits of freedom the thing that the founding fathers counted on is to have the will to speak freely and to have the will of religion in the constitution it say that every citizen should have life liberty and the pursuit of happiness. This impacts and brings everyone from different places to help create a society that is free. The founding fathers also counted for the people to speak for what is right. The reason is because this helps out on what the people want instead of the government wants this goes to show that the people matter and that is what makes a person happy and also makes a person feel like they have the pursuit to be happy.
The summer of my sophomore year, my alcoholic mother hit rock bottom and entered a rehab facility to better herself. Frustration and confusion masked my face not knowing if my mom will get better or not. I will never forget the day walking my drunk mother into the rehab facility while she was hugging and crying on my shoulder saying “I love you Kenzie, I am going to get better”. Today I realize that this experience has influenced my personal identity as well as my education ambitions.
Everybody has an identity, it makes them individual and unique, and it defines who you are as a person. This project about my identity showed me what makes me unique. I would have never known how much my friends mean to me or how my identities connect with each other. I have three identities that make me who I am, cultural, personal, and social. A specific quality that covers my cultural identity is being Czechoslovakian. Both sides of my family have at least a part of Czech in them. My great-grandparents are from Czech Republic and my grandpa was the first generation in America, he was born in Ohio. This is very important because I have always identified as Czech and it is a big part of me, as I am so interested in ancestry. For my personal identity, the biggest part is my personality, being loud and outgoing, has always been important to me. The reason being, it is how people view me. A lot of people know me as the loud person or the person who talks a lot. That is meaningful to me considering I like people to view me in a certain way The last identity, social, is one of the most important to me because it involves my friends, and through this project, I learned how vital they really are to my social identity. I realized that I have a good amount of friends in this project. It is nice to have people as a support system and to relate with. These qualities show that I value being loud and outgoing. It also says that I value my family and they are a big part of life. The last one, social, ties in with the first one because it shows I am outgoing and friendly.
There are numerous factors that either make up or restrain the self-identity of a person or an individual. Culture, in addition to family traditions, is one of the factors that affect the self-identity of an individual. When growing up, the environment around affect the personality, values, as well as, beliefs of an individual. The environment includes friends, family members, and the people that affect the life of an individual. So, if the environment is negative, then an individual will have low self esteem.
Over the course of my life I have had many life experiences which have made me who I am today. When I was in my middle childhood, most of my life revolved around playing and having fun. I did not have to put forth effort in hardly any area of my life or work hard in order to achieve specific goals. As time went on however, my own life experiences began to have an effect on me, and shape the person I am today. My life started to change the most during middle childhood when I was around the age of seven years old. At this point in my life, I had to adjust to several big changes.
The way in which others perceive us can occasionally play a part in the shaping our identity. Our teenage years and our desire to belong both significantly impact who we are today. However, in saying that, it’s evident that as we mature the opinions and views of other become less relevant and are less likely to affect our sense of identity. Your identity defines who you are and is something influenced by various contributing factors.
My identity as a reciprocating self has been profoundly influenced by a variety of characteristics, be they my experiences, my family background, or how I experienced covenant love, intimacy, empowerment, and grace. All of these factors have formed me into someone who is uniquely and divinely created, regardless of my feelings about myself. While I struggle at times to find myself worthy, I am able to begin the process of believing this truth due to the background of gracing that my parents have given me. Occasionally, I struggle to understand why my family and I have had to walk through pain and loss; however, I am beginning to comprehend that we experienced this so that we could become more fully reciprocating selves who place a high value on life. Even though I am a reciprocating self, there are still struggles that I face.